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    Default It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    One dancer is sabotaging my game. She moves in on my customers while I am in the ladies' room. Upon my return, I will address the customer ...

    Forgive me. I need to pause for a moment. * catches breath *

    She says something like, "Customer and I are having so much fun, aren't we, Customer? Thank you for stopping by! The manager is looking for you because of some cash discrepancy. TTFN!"

    This situation happens often. 60% of the time, she is successful.

    How about another:

    We were sitting with 2 customers. She looked at my clutch. "I like your purse! I had one just like it. It was stolen in the dressing room the other day. Is this mine?"

    That rotten bitch. Every shift, I have 2 new stories.

    She has been a successful earner for 4 years, so I've heard, and is despised by all. When she left her bag unlocked, all her clothes were thrown around the dressing room and items were missing, items like her plain clothes, the mark of a hate crime. I smile thinking about the incident, wondering who did it so that I may join forces.

    I'm at a loss here. I want to make her look bad. I want to set up situations where she makes herself look bad. The way she tosses her trash is so well-disguised that customers rarely pick up on it. If they do, they buy from her anyway.

    Management thinks the reason the dancers hate her is that she is a hard worker.

    Please help.
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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Icy hot on the business end of her gstring. Even if she takes it off she'll be walking funny and making some great faces for about 2 hours. Not to mention, her crotch will reak of old people for the rest of the night. This works or baby wipes too.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    I say completely ignoring her will drive her crazy. Or you can do something but don't let anyone know or see especially have her find out.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    HAHAHA....thats a good one.
    I hate bicthes like those...I would not want to work at your club.
    I wouldnt mind retaliation...as long as she doesnt find out.
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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    what a fuckig bitch!! wow. if i can think of anythign good ill post it...ill spend all night caniving things now hehe

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Wow, she sounds jealous.
    Don't get caught doing anything, you'll look dumb. Use icy tones of voice when replying to her. "Sweetheart" and "honey" said the right way can turn a roomful of heads.
    Her bag getting trashed- huh, someone's way ahead of you....so let them roll with it. That dancer might be as crazy as the one in question, and you'll have to wait until the Bag-Wrecker is the only shark left around. Which might become problem number 2 down the road, so don't gang up with anyone right now.
    Karma will come. Be patient.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Ignoring her will completely deny her any power. Act as if she is not there, no matter what she says or does. Not only will you not have to stoop to her level, but customers will be able to see what a bitch she is due to her own words and actions. You will gain the upper hand Let her dig her own hole, and you will also preserve your integrity. You be the classy mature adult, and let her be the whiny immature scheming little girl.

    A girl at my club once told one of my customers, "You should get a dance from me. I give WAY better dances than Sunshine." The customer saw her for the sleazy bitch she was and told her a flat out "NO. I like her a lot more than I like you." Ha ha!
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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    I sincerely believe she is out for blood and her focus is on me.

    Ex: The birthday boy wanted dances from me. His friend was paying. Bitch dancer who was sitting on the paying man's lap whispered something into his ear. Paying Man said that Birthday Boy needed dances from someone else and waved a random dancer over. Birthday boy (so cutely) whimpered, "But I want Lizette. She's really cool." "No." "I don't want to be with anyone but Lizette!" He was darling. Since Random Dancer was being put in an awkward position and has helped me out in the past, I bowed out and wished him a lovely time with Random Dancer.

    This is the shit she pulls.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Can you go to management, or even to the DJ about her? She is creating a hostile work condition for you, and its costing you money. Its one thing to be catty, but she is affecting your profit. I also am one to suggest letting karma take care of it, but perhaps management can talk to her sooner??

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Sometimes you should be KARMA... not really, let that bitch tie her own noose... and smile as she does it.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    Can you go to management, or even to the DJ about her? She is creating a hostile work condition for you, and its costing you money. Its one thing to be catty, but she is affecting your profit. I also am one to suggest letting karma take care of it, but perhaps management can talk to her sooner??
    Management thinks the dancers are jealous of her. I've asked about her and discovered that they think she is a "hard worker." She's poison. She is directly in my way.

    I think she may do this because 2 customers were discussing who's hotter: me or her. She was addressed as a "that" where as I had praise laid on my looks and personality. They were highrollers too, albeit a little drunk. It was tacky of them. She was a sneaky bitch before. Now, she's super sneaky bitch.

    From here on out, I will ignore her. If she asks me if I like her outfit, I will pretend she's not there. We've had a discussion already. She's been warned. I was her only ally in the club. Fuck her. She can fend for herself.

    I want the other dancers to drive her out of the club.

    I believe I'm cool with the other girls. When no one's buying, I will randomly pick a customer, pull him by his ear, and shove him in a seat at the stage. Out of my very own money, I tip the dancer a $5 and ask her to show him what stripclubs are about. Then I instruct him to tip her a $5. I explain that it gets better in a private dance. I hustle for her. With cheap ass beer drinking $20 is too much for a dance crowds, this technique works on occasion. If it doesn't, well, she got $10-$20.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    She sounds like a sociopath!

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Completely ignoring her is your best bet. I mean, seriously acting like she doesn't exist. If she is sitting at your table when you get backto it, sit on the custy's lap with your back turned to her. If she starts talking, you never give the custy a chance to hear anything else - start whispering in his ear and do your regular sell, start dancing for him, or take him to another area of the club.

    If she touches you, knock her teeth out.


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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Just try to protect yourself - like when you go to the bathroom, say to the customer something like "I'll be right back, save my seat!" I also tell them - because a lot of them don't realize - how discourteous it is for me to interrupt another dancer, unless I'm specifically invited over, so that they realize they actually have to save my seat if they want me back. This only works if they actually want you back, however. If they don't care, it doesn't. In terms of the other thing - her nduging you out of dances - next time don't back down - as appropriate as that might have been under the circumstances. After he says that he wants you say that you just happen to be available, or something.

    Keep in mind too, that in clubs, things get so inflated, and dramatic that she may think that she is rataliating for something very justified, so doing it back just makes a bigger mess.
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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Oh yea, she is def a sociopath. She's trying to convince people you are the evil one... and she's charming your customers into believing her. Unfortunately, it is going to take threats to stop her, from the management or the girls or someone. If a customer is a sociopath, he will always take her side. Unfortunately, there are tons of suckers out there who can't tell what she is all about, and they do believe her. Some of us would know immediately. The point being, the girls need to all gang up on her, threaten to kick her ass, and she'll knock it off. I would probably smack the hell out of someone at this point if they pulled that shit on me. I know it's not right to resort to violence, but eventually people have just had enough of their shit. For some reason, she sees you as someone she can bully, and she can. You need to stop being a wuss and confront her. If she did some shit like, steal my customer and then tell me that "thanks for stopping by" bullshit, that would be IT for me, with a capital I. I would tell her right then to get up, that I was sitting there, and I would tell her to stay the fuck away from me and my customers. Management knows exactly what's going on. They are probably sociopaths themselves, and think the shit is funny. And the men aren't loyal usually. If you leave and someone charming comes up, they aren't going to care. It's up to you to put an end to this by letting her ass know you won't put up with it anymore.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Management won't mess with her because she is selling dances, and making THEM money. Little they care how she does it. You could TRY to get on different shifts from her, but I bet you have already considered that.

    You said you already confronted her. That is a good start.

    As far as the ploy about her snagging a custy while you are in the bathroom and then the fake line about managememt . . .

    "I already talked to him, and he asked me to send you in next. Thanks for keeping Mr. Custy company for me. May I have my chair back now?"

    Just turn her shit back on her. She is already setting herself up to look like an ass, but she is counting on you not calling her bluff.


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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    Quote Originally Posted by colleen
    "I already talked to him, and he asked me to send you in next. Thanks for keeping Mr. Custy company for me. May I have my chair back now?"

    Just turn her shit back on her. She is already setting herself up to look like an ass, but she is counting on you not calling her bluff.
    I am going to start thinking like you. You must own a factory of witty remarks! Your suggestion accomplishes the following:

    1. The customer is aware that she stepped on my toes and considers the possibility that she is a skank.
    2. She knows that I hate her and that I will hate on her.
    3. I look confident.

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    I know it is hard but two wrongs don't make a right....even if it does make a person feel better for a little while.

    Rise above that dancers level , please don't lower yourself down to her level. Be the better person !

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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    There have been many good suggestions in this thread. Unfortunately, we've all worked with evil bitches like her. One thing I want to point out is to consider the possibiity of retribution from her if you do decide to behave more like her. I have seen girls outside in the parking lot trying to super glue the door locks shut on another dancer's car! Do you have valuable property that she could get to? If so, you might not want to antagonize her too much. Not that it's not tempting, but if she's crazy and desperate (like she sounds) it might do you good to consider what may happen in the future... And I do love Colleen's suggestion!!!
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    Default Re: It's not revenge. I call it a pre-emptive strike.

    I too love Colleen's suggestion. If you follow Colleen's advice you will still maintain your integrity and class.This will also work during the times you are in front of a customer and ignoring her will make you appear rude. But backstage, do not give her the time of day.
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