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    I've been bringing my ATF flowers on my last 3 visits. It kind all started last Oct when i heard it was her birthday. i live in a small town (pop 60k) with Denver the nearest big city, 300 miles south. 2 clubs in town i go to just one. there is 2 part-time shifts w/3-6 girls dancing. it's a dinky club, clean with very nice owners and employees. anyway, it gets cold in winter so i got her a kimono robe fron VS's -- yes we have 1 in town! she was giddy w/excitement when she opened it! since then i got her the latest cd of her favorite band, i thought of her when i saw it at the store there was really no occaision. on Valentine's day i gave her a necklace/choker (less than $50). i asked her if flower would embarrass her in front of the other girls (i read somewhere that Libras like flowers) she said no it would not. 5 bucks on flowers, nothing fancy cuz i want to spend my money on her and the other girls, the lion's share going to her.
    my buddies say i'm a sap, but treating her special just makes the fantasy more vivid for me and i like to see her smile! i know gifts can seem creepy. Am i a duffus?

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    God no!! Thats super sweet of you and would be appreciated greatly! Show you are having fun with her and appreciate her company. Seems like you have your head in the right place...keep on givin!
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    i've done the same but it's things she wants downloaded. recently i got my second a ice cream cake for her birthday. got to watch her eat the cake so

    yes it was definitely worth the effort. In fact it's my mission to make the girls day just a little better. Only failed a few nights. but i'm still trying

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    I think it's sweet. Your gifts are not extravagant ot embarassingly personal, jsut sweet and thoughtful. I wish I had some custys like you!


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    Thank you Tiger's, Cecil and Colleen! you all and this site help me keep my head on straight, and this fantastic party rockin'

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    don't worry about your friends. they just aren't looking at it from the right point of view. all they see is the fact that your gone when you visit and the fact that your willing to spend $$$ on a woman of your choice.

    what they don't reliese is the fact that no matter what kind of relationship your in you always pay one way or another. whether it's

    1. money
    2. time
    3. rearrangeing your life
    4. aggrevation
    5. energy

    the list could go on and on. most guys view their girls as free pussy. but theirs no such thing as a free lunch. and their paying a price for it they just don't eqate it to the same as handing over a 20. To spending 50$ on a good dinner. or paying her car payment or rent. is just not the same thing!!!

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    I like gifts, as long as they dont buy me chocolate as Im severely allergic to it. Sometimes I end up giving more chocolate to the girls than our customers do LOL.
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    I gave my ATF $200 extra for her b-day, she did something very nice for mine also

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    Cosis, your girl sounds like a lucky girl indeed!

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    I have probably mentioned this in another thread butfor the sake of the thread......... I had a regular give me some extra money for me to buy some pots n pans (b/c I recently moved out and had nothing to cook with).
    I still have them and use them all the time
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    AmyLynne sorry about your chocolate allergy. is there anything sweet that agrees with you? i hope so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wheelchair customer
    Cosis, your girl sounds like a lucky girl indeed!
    she is the coolest girl ever, besides beauty personality goes a long way w/ me

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    butterscotch is my thing.
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    Butterscotch! Yum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amylynnej
    butterscotch is my thing.
    i'll remember that when you get the papers signed from my ATF. so she won't hurt me cuz i cheated on her.
    Last edited by Super Cecil; 04-21-2005 at 08:00 PM.

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    AmyLynne, how can i talk to you in private?

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    i love flowers! i think it's great to recieve gifts! thats really sweet of you.

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    TigersMilk, are you born under the sign of Cancer?

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    I dont really do private chats but sometimes you can catch me in the chatroom.
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    Ouch! last night, in an older thread, i read that flowers given to dancers are mostly left to dry up and die in some dark corner of the dressing room. I guess i'm sorta twisted cuz i hoped she'd take them home with her. i like to blur the line between fantasy and reality. a big part of me realizes that the last thing my ATF thinks about OSTC is me. i thought the flowers might remind her of me--which may be the very reason why she would leave them at work.

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    I dont take them home either. I may leave them or work or give them away. Its fantasy.
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    no offense but i could not bring flowers in a SC, i would feel like such a goof.... i think girls always appreciate money the most...... if u want to give her a gift i suggest something cheap and cute that she will remember (and that fits in your pocket)

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    I always think it's best to not give a dancer a gift of any sort. I think they will take it as some sign that you want something more from them then what you are getting, or are expecting something in return. You probably are.
    A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....

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    Quote Originally Posted by merely_lurking
    I always think it's best to not give a dancer a gift of any sort. I think they will take it as some sign that you want something more from them then what you are getting, or are expecting something in return. You probably are.
    Depends on the situation. I have genuine OTC friendships with several dancers. Gifts to them are no different to a gift I'd give any other friend, (and they know that).

    They return the compliment. One dancer is a superb, (and I mean superb)), cook. Every now and then she cooks me a meal. The way to a man's heart.....

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    I like to give gifts, always have, always will (hopefully). There is just a generous Spirit within me.

    Lets face it, we are no longer hunter/gatherers. Money is what keeps us alive and our kids if we have any. Therefore, giving money to a dancer is (imho) , is the best way to let her know she is important to me.

    In return for a bit of her softest touch, I give my ATF a substantial portion of what keeps me alive, my paycheck.. That magnifies the beauty of giving my ATF a simple gift! It’s not about money! It’s about human to human interaction. Sure, a major part of what goes on is a fantastic fabrication, akin to an actor saying her lines: but just as when I’m watching a movie at a theater, I can suspend my disbelief to enjoy the show more, i do it at the club.

    As far as I’m concerned, when I’m with my ATF, we are making the most beautiful love, sharing the most intimate moments two can share. A couch with her is 5-6 minutes in paradise! When we are in our moment, nothing else matters to me. The building could be crumbling around us--so what! (I better not move to SFO). Right now, in this life, there in absolutely nothing more tender, more lovely, more beautiful, more clear or more pleasurable than those few moments with her. Could life get any better? You bet it could. One day she might fall in love with a beast like me, hopefully, that beast will be me.

    A guy can dream can’t he? One thing I know for sure: when the club door just misses my ass leaving that night, all I got to take home, what’s left to hold on to, is that dream and the smile that comes with it! Sweet!

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