For the gentlemen...

[Malibu]

...what does it feel like to be on the other end of a woman's orgasm? Has it happened for you before? When it does, does it rock your world or are they overrated? What is the feeling like?

I've always pondered this. I know it may be hard to explain but I'm curious.

[SportsWriter2]

Oooooh, nice question. I'm thinking....

[bella622]

Hmmmmm... I hope some of the men are pondering this... I want to know too!!

[SportsWriter2]

I love the facial expressions: the big eyes, the gasping open mouth. I love the look of terror when the second O comes before the first has died down, and it's way faster than her normal reloading time.

[Casual Observer]

I have heard of this, this thing, this "women's orgasm" thing.

I thought it was a myth? A legend? A tale shared by the jester at court?

Has anyone actually seen one of these in the wild?

[Sh0t]

Never had it happen, sorry. Let's play connect four instead

[merely_lurking]

It's cool if it doesn't take too long, you feel sort of powerful and manly. But it sucks if you keep trying forever and she can't cum, it's starts to feel like work. I begin to feel like a male prostitute after awhile....

[FBR]

I love the facial expressions: the big eyes, the gasping open mouth. I love the look of terror when the second O comes before the first has died down, and it's way faster than her normal reloading time.

Some women are great actresses and can put on a hell of a show. My ex-wife was that way back when I was so young I can barely remember it. Turns out she never had an orgasm the entire time we were married (2 yrs). Partly my fault since I didnt have a clue what I was doing (she was my first experience) but also you have to wonder whats the point of faking. Sorry for reminiscing (sic)

I love all the expressions, moaning, bouncing around etc but what tells me the deed has been done is the juice. Ive yet to meet a gal who can spew out a few ounces of the good stuff and not be seriously having a good time

FBR

[Malak]

Honestly, giving a woman pleasure is one of the few things that make me feel like a man. It does not even have to be an orgasm, but anytime you can get that sleepy-eyed drugged look and you know you're playing them like an violin. It's very satisfying and I'm very glad FOR them. If it took awhile then I'm relieved too. LOL One funny thing my wife does is jut her head like a chicken sometimes. And the begging you to stop because it's too much is priceless too. I usually just take a teaser pause to fool them. ;-)

[Nicolina]

Can you guys feel the muscular contractions or no?

Do you believe in the distinction between vaginal orgasms and clitoral orgasms?

[mr_punk]

...what does it feel like to be on the other end of a woman's orgasm?

great ceasar's ghost! women have orgasms? i had no idea. i guess that explains all the dirty looks i get after sex.

When it does, does it rock your world or are they overrated?

that depends. if she cums reasonable amount of time it's great. OTOH:

But it sucks if you keep trying forever and she can't cum, it's starts to feel like work.

case in point.

Can you guys feel the muscular contractions or no?

yes.

Do you believe in the distinction between vaginal orgasms and clitoral orgasms?

unfortunately, yes. which means i have too work twice as hard...sigh.

[SportsWriter2]

Can you guys feel the muscular contractions or no?

Yes, and I can feel the cervix take the hit.

Do you believe in the distinction between vaginal orgasms and clitoral orgasms?

Yes, and I think some women have all their pink parts and hair roots wired on the same brain circuit.

[Nicolina]

Sure-fire way to induce vaginal orgasm?
Or does it depend on the girl?

[EyesWideShut]

Its the screaming. The louder the better.

[Malibu]

Nicolina, thank you for clarifying those questions! I was more hinting at the actual feeling, like the contractions and stuff and it is interesting to find out if the difference between clitoral and vaginal give different sensations on your ding-a-ling ...

Also, to make a girl have the vaginal O, is it true that you employ a particular technique that works more times than not? If so, WE WANNA KNOW!!! Personally, I have had no problem squirting all over a guy if he employs a good clitoral technique () but that vaginal O is always very hard to come by (excuse the pun), especially via penetration alone.

[polecat]

Sure-fire way to induce vaginal orgasm?
Or does it depend on the girl?

Depends upon the girl.

A guy can tell a few seconds into the act if she plans on having an orgasm. A woman wont have an orgasm unless she intends to, no matter what a guy does.

We can feel muscle contractions at the end as well as other forms of feedback during intercourse when a woman is enjoying herself. If these are missing, it's obviously not a real mutual sexual encounter but more of a some sort of voodoo chic logic device.

What's amazing is just how few women have experienced both clitoral and vaginal orgasm. What's even more amazing is how few women have been with someone that actually gave a shit either way. Most of these cases are from self-sabotage so no real pity is awarded. Women destined to be nothing more than fuck-toys all their lives can live that life if they so choose.

Vaginals aren't always hard to give if enough pre-play, duration and her desire is present. If enough foreplay arousal, strong anticipation and the actual desire to get off is there- duration pounding will get most women off this way. A guy has to know how to use his tool as well- which may not always lend itself to one particular position depending on it's size and shape and the anatomy of the woman involved. Women without real feedback defeat this process as well. When women think they can only get off one way because Joe Blow XYZ accomplished it that way, then close their mind to all else- it's more self-sabotage in action.

My ex always got off vaginally through about 3 tries of finding what worked for us. After this, it was every single time. She needed to be worked up to a frenzy prior through oral/digital stimulation, fondling and foreplay- then pounded submissively doggie with near scalp-bleed hair pulling w/ nipple clamps. She also liked the use of cock-rings with danglies to hit her clitoris. She came hard this way every time (messy girl!). My ex before her- same amount of anticipation build-up, but her g/cervix was much more shallow so side-spooning and missionary did the deed better, plus she had issues with doggie (not personal enough, no kissing/face contact, etc.). It's different for every woman.

On the initial question- I don't accept any other kind of sex unless she intends to get off. So yes, being on the other end of a woman's REAL orgasm is a critical requirement of mine, else it's not even worth doing.

[Nicolina]

Ummm....I'm just curious:
Do the rest of you guys feel that it is primarily the woman's fault if she doesn't reach orgasm? {i.e., she won't have one unless she "intends" to, no matter what the guy does?}

Can you tell within the first "few seconds" if she "plans" on having an orgasm?

PC seems to harbor a certain amount of hostility (? or something) toward women who "self-sabotage" and therefore don't cum in a given encounter. ("no...pity awarded", "destined to be fuck-toys....can live that way if they so choose," etc.) Maybe I'm reading that wrong but that's how it comes across.

Do any of you have similar feelings?

[polecat]

Ummm....I'm just curious:
Do the rest of you guys feel that it is primarily the woman's fault if she doesn't reach orgasm? {i.e., she won't have one unless she "intends" to, no matter what the guy does?}

Radical interpretation of the text, if I do say so myself.

It takes two to tango is the point. A Zen fuckmaster from the Orient isn't going to be able to get off a woman that isn't "in the mood" or otherwise not intending to get off. This is the same thing with men, to some degree. This is why porn stars and whatnot aren't exactly cuming hard when being pounded for hours on shoots.. it's not their style nor is it inducive of orgasm.

PC seems to harbor a certain amount of hostility (? or something) toward women who "self-sabotage" and therefore don't cum in a given encounter. ("no...pity awarded", "destined to be fuck-toys....can live that way if they so choose," etc.) Maybe I'm reading that wrong but that's how it comes across.

No hostility. I love women!

It's just plain and simple facts, that's all. If someone goes into an encounter with no plan, desire or intention to get off, it's just not going to happen no matter what. It's very 'anti-male' logic for anyone to want to have sex without any desire to be fulfilled. Why even bother?

[Nicolina]

If someone goes into an encounter with no plan, desire or intention to get off, it's just not going to happen no matter what.

But...but why would anyone do that?
I am lost.

[gdamadg]

I was actually with a girl like that this weekend. She admitted to liking one big O and then to "put it away" as she said. She didn't want to have multiple O's and lose control. I dunno what her problem was. I was more than eager to put the effort out to make her go nuts, but she didn't want it.

Some women are just ummmm..........NUTS.

[Nicolina]

But gd, she still wanted an orgasm, right?
PC seems to be talking about females who have decided before the encounter begins that they WILL NOT get off.
I just don't get it...?

[polecat]

But gd, she still wanted an orgasm, right?
PC seems to be talking about females who have decided before the encounter begins that they WILL NOT get off.
I just don't get it...?

I don't get it either, Nicolina- but you'd be surprised how many women are out there with this very notion.

Just have a look at FBR's post- his ex-wife was 'faking' it for over 2 years with no desire to curb the situation. This is NOT uncommon.

One can only speculate that some women have an innate inability to feel comfortable with orgasm from some sense of control or similar. They only 'decide' who they are willing to 'lose control' with, and enforce it as such. There is definately something very broken deep down- but who knows. I wouldn't expect anyone that is mentally and sexually "healthy" to ever entertain such a twisted notion.

I have no idea of all the psychology behind it, but on the whole- females are the ONLY gender that even have a hackneyed desire to ever 'fake' an orgasm, instead of being fulfilled. This alone flies in the face of logic.

[yoda57us]

Answers and comments in no particular order of importance:

Yes

With my current OTC fav, pancake doggie is a sure fire way to produce vaginal orgasm. She's the only women I've ever been with where this was a sure thing.

I can definitely feel the muscle contractions of a vaginal orgasm. The clitoral orgasm seems to produce more wet stuff. I've nearly drowned a couple of times while performing DATY when the "big one" hits.

I thought I did once, but now I'm pretty sure she was faking it.

I had a steady fuck buddy a few years back who could achieve vaginal orgasm by shoving a vibrator in her ass while I performed oral or digital stimulation. I could fuck her for hours and nothing would happen (and this was years ago when I COULD go for hours....).

The screaming is the easiest thing to fake. The louder it is the more boared they are.

[Casual Observer]

Do the rest of you guys feel that it is primarily the woman's fault if she doesn't reach orgasm?

Well, it's certainly not my fault.

I mean, I showed up and everything. What more is required?

[EyesWideShut]

Can you guys feel the muscular contractions or no?

I think I'm feeling one right now.