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    Ok so I went back last night to do a second audition (the owner asked me to come back last week after working on my wobbling). I SO kicked ass out there, no wobbling, I was totally impressed with myself and every man at the stage was too (I got $74 in 12 minutes) they all came up to me, including men and women from the audience telling me how incredible I was and that I was hot. So I figure I should get a job offer, right? NO! The owner tells me to come back AGAIN next week because she thinks I looked too nervous. Bullshit...sorry...I did not. I wasnt the least bit nervous and had no problem going up there. Im VERY angry and discouraged at this point. When the customers asked me later if I got hired and I said no they were in shock and couldnt believe it. I dont know what the fuck else she wants or expects from me.

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    Did you go to Mark's?


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    Maybe they're beating around the bush and there's some other reason they didn't want to hire you, or maybe you really did have a little bit of a "new girl" look about you. Give it one more shot and if they give you the same line, ask them to be straight with you. Sorry about the runaround; it happens.

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    No I went to Mass. I still havent been able to audition at Marks theres never enough girls when I go (3 girl minimum) ...just my shitty luck.

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    Do you think maybe you are not the type they are looking for? I'm sorry, I hope that didn't sound crass.


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    I found one thing with 'new girls' is that they dance like they are at the night club.... remember that you are on stage, not at the club

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    Sorry to hear that happened, I would be upset too. If you really liked it there i would say go back again like they said if they still tell you no it'll just be their loss. Meanwhile Try looking around for other places in case that happens.

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    I didnt do the nighclub dancing, that I made sure of. She told me I was great, I would think that if I wasnt what she wanted she would tell me or not have me keep coming back,and from the crowds reaction I did well. I dunno...*shrug*

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    Sorry to hear that sweetie!! Don't let it get you down. Go back next week, kick ass again, and also be prepared to argue your case in case eg customers loved you, etc. Good luck.

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    dont feel bad, girlie. one club told me to come back 3 times...i never came back the third time. i understand that this is a business yadda yadda yadda, but for real, dont waste my time.

    personally i wouldnt want to work with management who cant seem to figure out who they want to hire or how to tell a girl she didn't make it.

    i say knock 'em dead elsewhere.

    just my .02.

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    That is really bullshit. Honestly, it really seems like there is something more into it. I wouldn't waste any of my time at a place who keeps hassling me. Fuck it, there are bigger and better clubs that would be glad to have you instantly work for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by REDHED
    I didnt do the nighclub dancing, that I made sure of. She told me I was great, I would think that if I wasnt what she wanted she would tell me or not have me keep coming back,and from the crowds reaction I did well. I dunno...*shrug*
    Well then maybe you are just TOO GOOD for the club

    I agree with the other girls, don't sweat it, consider it experience and move on to a club that will appreciate you!

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    $74! WOW!

    I wouldn't want to work with a manager who is pain in the ass. I don't buy the "new girl" reason. "New girl" wears off in a week with a few pointers. On my very first audition, I was drunk, wobbly, and total "new girl." The managers said, "You're hired and we'd like you to dance the way Portia dances. Let's get Portia and have her show you what to do."

    I also think you are TOO GOOD for the club. Go some place where you bank and take every customer who contributed to your $74 with you!

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    This b*tch is apparently giving you the run around.I wouldn't go back there.Number 1,it'll make you look a little desperate for a job and Number 2,you are better than that.
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    I would be torn as well. I have never been treated like this, but the first club I danced at hired me on the spot and I danced there for about two years, so I was a professional by the time I left.
    There are many reasons why this person might be sending you away. Most places say they will call you if they don't want to hire you. This way they didn't turn you down right away.
    It could very well be that this club DOES NOT like to hire new dancers, I've worked at a few like that. They only want experienced dancers. This might be the case.
    If I were you and had no other club to try out at, I would go back, but this time (if turned down) I would ask what I need to work on specifically. We really only learn in the club, but it could be they want you to seem as if you've been in the club before and not a newbie.
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    Are you going to go back or just not put up with it and go to a different club?

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    Alot of what the other girls are saying is right in all the directions to take. But my question to you is, how bad do you want to work there? If there is nothing else that you have found yet, go back, make some more money till you find another place to go to. What about this, maybe you get hired this time around, third time is the charm. But the only thing that bothers me the most is that, the manager says you still look like a newbie, WHAT, girls have to start somewhere and WHAT,do they have a rule there that you have to be an experienced danced to work there....If they no anything about running a busines, they would of hired you already because..the men like new girls(fresh meat), if your already doing good as you say you are..keeps custy's coming back...Do yeh get the drift,,,,,So what I'm saying here is...Dont blam yourself...Hold head up Hi and Say To Yourself Damn I'm Good!!!How many girls can get undressed and dance in front of a bunch of strangers...

    You go girl.....Let us know happens!

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    Sketchy, totally sketchy. My gut tells me something else is going on. Pardon my bluntness, but customers like fresh meat.

    Is this a place where you need a permit or license of something. Are they worried that if you go to get it some red flag about THEM would be set off?

    They don't need to see you dance to know if you look good. The most I have EVER had to do is to strip down - then be hired. And quite frankly, that was more about scars, or tattoos.

    Something is weird there. If you really want to work there, call and ask about coming in for a few hours sometime to watch and learn the ropes. See what they say about that.

    Sorry this is happening, but I would bet a bunch that it has NOTHING to do with you.

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    I dont know what to do. I only have a few places to go try out at, I dont want to commute anymore than 45 minutes, I have a full time job days so I can only work a few nights a week, so driving time is an issue here. There is 3 places in that distance, and one about an hour away. I dont know if shes really interested in me and wants me to brush up to par to start dancing, or if its a runaround (but wouldnt she just tell me in one way or another that the answer is no and not tell me to come back again?). Im still mulling it over, like one post said I dont want to look desperate, but choices are limited for me and I do really want to dance.

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    I don't know where in NH you are but you should consider Platinum Plus in Portland. You make your own schedule ie: come and go as you please and I'm quite certain you'll be hired. They even have an amateur night but I'm pretty sure that's not required to be hired. I walked in and was hired on the spot, no audition needed. Good luck.


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    You know; go for what your gut says to you. I don't know all the little tiny details that can tell me what the people mean (such as body language) so you really should do what your instinct tells you. I read a book recently called "The gift of fear" and it really helps you notice your natural instincts and to act upon them correctly.

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    lilithmorrigan-I think she hit right on the do with that one...

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    reading that i saw the word "she" maybe i'm jumping to conclusions but women can be bitches that work at strip clubs, maybe you are too hot and the dancers felt threatned by u and told her not to hire you? maybe, i don't know.

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    Oh, i didnt pick up on that one tootsie! But hey redhead just dont give up, women can be jelous for stupid reason..

    This one time my husband and i lived with his brother and wife...She was really jelous of me...She one time came up to me and said that she didnt want me wear anymore belly shirts because she thinks that her husband might look at me....(Young stupid childish girl)....I told her, Are going to tell every girl out in public to change or pull down there shirt because you husbands eyeballs might wonder..Come on now....Its just so stupid, i dont understand why females do this to each other, If i see a women that looks good i will tell her, compement her(if she next to me, not going to run her down), Not give her dirty looks or stare like i get alot...

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    Quote Originally Posted by tootsie
    reading that i saw the word "she" maybe i'm jumping to conclusions but women can be bitches that work at strip clubs, maybe you are too hot and the dancers felt threatned by u and told her not to hire you? maybe, i don't know.
    The way I read the original post was that this woman doesn't just work there; She's the owner. I don't see why an owner would turn away a girl because she was too hot. Clubs typically love new girls because they keep the rotation fresh. It's also interesting that a 2nd club will not grant her an audition. Now, this could be just an extreme case of bad luck, they truly are not hiring or for some reason you're not filling what they are looking for. If it's truly more experience that this owner is looking for and you really want to work there, I say work elsewhere for a bit then try again in a couple months.


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