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    Default Re: "One and only" or variety?

    I have friends in my life that I believe are soul mates but not in the romantic sense. I have a boyfriend that I feel a strong bond with but am not sure if I'll be with him in a relationship forever. I can't really do more than one guy at a time but I've been through more than one guy in my lifetime. Maybe there will be more in my future. Maybe not. Who knows.

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    Default Re: "One and only" or variety?

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicagoeditor
    Do you think there's just ONE person, ONE soulmate for you? Or do you believe there are a variety of people who can fill this role? This, in turn, sparks the question: Do you consider yourself, basically, a one-person person? Or do you believe you're the type who requires a variety of lovers at any one time? (Notice that I'm not making any value judgements about either orientation.)
    This question makes NO sense to me.

    If there were ONLY one person in the world for each of us, there would be very FEW of us living indeed. In reality we all make adjustments to our expectations to accommodate someone. Who would ever have the patience or longevity to find some one person in a world with 5 TRILLION others? Even with the internet.

    Now if you are asking would people like to have variety in their sexual partners, you will find MANY who would and do. I thought that was pretty obvious. Just look at what goes around.

    Also if you are asking who is pretty much a loyal person inside a relationship, you will find some who are and some who aren't.

    Finally if you want contacts who want a variety, is it because you want to start talking with them, hoping it will lead to something?
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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