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    Hey, I'm new and this is my first post. Hi, I'm Morrigan and my future stage name is Lilith (10 points for you if you see the relation!).

    Anyway, I wnted to share a totally creepy story!

    I called a company and asked for an interview and they said to meet them at three. They told me to go to the McDonalds next to the club because I would need 'to be buzzed in' and it would be easier if they picked me up. First red flag, no?

    So I went there but the number blew away in the wind! I still had the address so I figured, "I'll just go to the address, no problem, they can buzz me in!"

    The. Address. Did. Not. Exist.

    I totally got freaked out and went home. I had TWO MESSAGES on my answering machine from them the next day asking me why I didn't show up or call and he was talking how he was upset with me! o_O

    I told them it was my first time autioning, too.

    How scary was that whole situation?! OMG I'm almost (almost!!) too scared to try again at a closer club.

    Do you recommend working at a club across the street from where you live? There is one so close by I can walk there in less than 5 minutes. But I heard it's bad to work close to your home. (Don't worry, I would take a long round-a-bout way to get home, not straight through.)



    Anyway, hello! ^-^ I'm becoming a stripper to pay for my college next fall. I'll be becoming a fashion designer. Over the next few months I'll even be making my own stage costumes. :3

    Sorry. Heee, I'm rambling. Nice to meet you all!

    -M

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    Hi Lilith

    Im quite new myself and I haven't had many posts. Sorry to hear about your experience. Ive just started working in a club in the UK and its great and good money also.

    The club got recommended to me by another member of stripperweb who reassured me it was ok. So I think a good idea if your unsure of clubs is too find someone who works in a club close to you or ask the girls on this forum. Hopefully someone can give you some advice.

    And the issue of working at a club near where you live, I work in a local club which takes me 20 minutes to walk to and I have seen a few guys out and about who I have chatted to at the club. Im at uni here and the guys are too who Ive seen and even if they didnt recognise me they should know not to hassle me.
    Anyway I hope this helps, good luck

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    Do guys ever try to follow you home when they realize you walk? Or are they polite enough not to try when you tell them not to bug you?

    I'm not really worried if anybody recognizes me... don't take the job if you're worried about the embarassment, right? :3

    I wonder if anyone lives in Huntington Beach, CA... Hmmm.

    Good luck with your club! ^-^

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    I don't think it is safe to EVER walk home from work, when guys are leave a club they are usually somewhat drunk, and guys are not "polite" enough when they are drunk to not try to follow a girl home. Walking home by yourself late at night makes you look quite vulnerable, and can put you in some very bad, and unsafe situations.

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    That's what I thought. I was uncertain. Thanks for clarifying that.

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    Well, first of all Morrigan.. How did you find out about the club or get the number? Why exactly would they need to pick you up in order to buzz you in?
    Is this a "private" club or is it open to the public?
    As for walking, NO. Take a cab or get a ride home, that's all there is to it. There are no ifs and or buts about it.
    But, in order to figure it all out with the first club, I'd like a little more info. It sounds a bit sketchy, but I've worked in "sketchy" places that have been allright.
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    yep don't walk home. Have someone pick you up or take a taxi. Only go to clubs that are actually physically there, example I answer an ad in LA weekly and when I call I ask what club's name is etc... If I can't find the club's phone number, address, etc in the yellow pages or by 411 or heard of the club before then it's sketchy.

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    It was an advertisement in the paper for a private club.

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    Hrrmmmm doesnt sound good to me hun...I agree w/ Muyaha if you easily cant find info on them then its a no-go. Safety is always at the top of my list when I would be coming to or leaving the club.
    I actually dont recommend working so close to work...if was you I would try to pick a different club if that is possible. I only say that is sometimes guys will want to follow you home. Im not saying it happens everyday but it has happened to some girls I used to work with.

    When you do leave the club though make sure there is a bouncer outside to make sure no one follows you home or leaves when you leave. Just to make sure...no need to be paranoid but its always better safe than sorry.
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    Unless you want to do escorting and "private" parties and affairs, I don't recommend answering a nespaper ad unless you have already heard of the club or know what it is all about. My club always has ads in the paper for entertainers, but it is a very well known club in the area, you see what I mean?
    Are there any other choices for places you can work at?
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    I posted this in another thread but ... If you live in Socal I would try to pick up this magazine (it's free) it's at some porn shops, dancewear shops, and lingerie places..
    PrivateDancer magazine.

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    I forgot to say I did get my 1st dancing job from a newspaper.....they did have an address, phone#, and I could find then in the yellow pages.
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    that's your flaw
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    There are a few good clubs in the area but the problem is I currently don't have a car. I just got through a divorce and moved here. >_> So I have to take a cab IF I make money or walk... so there's my main problem.

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    Hmmm ...maybe long term rental car?
    But, before that ..the club you want to work at ..is this the place you talked about in your original post? If so, no I dont recommend working there. If not, then go check it out and see if the club is suitable for your comfort level and so on.
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    The club I want to work at seems like a really nice one so I'm scared to go, because I've never auditioned before. I'm not sure if they'd want me since it seems they are really popular and have a lot of regular dancers. But I dunno, I can try them. :3

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    You should do for it...totally! It would suck to look back and think you didnt at least try.
    If you do...bring some ID....everything is different from the doors. Some places have amatuer night and that is the only way you can try out....others you just talk to the manager and see if things work out. If/when you do go...wear something sexy...not over the top type but a bit-o-cleavage wouldnt hurt anyone
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    I have this SEXY corset I was thinking I could wear with a school-girl skirt I have. I have a bra and panty set that's light pink with black 2" cotton lace trimming it that I thought I could wear underneathe. Paired with my garter, stockings and heels I think I have a really good first outfit, what do you think?

    I have their phone number so I can call them and ask them. I was thinking about asking if they have a cover charge, how much and what exactly they were looking for. I'm small breasted (34B) but I have a skinnyskinny waist (22) and a really nice ass to totally make up for it. Hopefully they're not cookie-cutter blondes... but I read a review where people were discussing who was hotter, the black girl or the latina girl, so I'm guessing they love diversity.

    Ahhhh, I guess I will try them out. I'll tell you how it goes! ^-^ I'll call tomorrow and see if I can do a friday-night audition (hey, no sense in not trying to make some while I'm there, ha).

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    Ahh, there's a review here on it and it says:

    "First off if you are just starting off do not try this club! I would advise anyone intrested in working at this club have some experience under your belt. "

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    Buth then, you'll never know till you try it, and that is ONLY someone's opinion. I would love to say the same about my club, but they hire newbie's every day.
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    what club is this that you are thinking about?

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    Ecstacy of Santa Ana, CA. Anybody want to come with me for support? heehee. :3

    I'll try it out.

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    here's their site.... http://www.ecstasytheatre.com/

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    Wow, I could get a job fixing their website alone. >_o

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    I'm sorry but I have one word for you... Naive. Don't think that by telling a guy to F-off he won't do something. There are so many pervs and weirdos out there it's impossible to catch them all. Don't ever walk home from a club, I used to get nervous just driving! You will see for yourself eventually, but until then keep your guard up really high

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    You should also report that add to the paper you saw it in and possibly the police. If they are advertising for an address that does not exist, it can easily be a predator, who has been successful other times.

    DON'T let him do this to another girl!

    Also, I prefer to work far away from home. That way I can leave StripperAnna in north Austin and have my life in SouthAustin without worrying about seeing customers. Its worth it for the extra gas/cabfare

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