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    Default I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    And no, I don't mean a stiletto to their hand!

    The guys in my club are getting progressively grabbier, whether this is b/c of one girls who is giving up groping privilages to the hightst bidder, or some other outside reason, I can't say for sure. But I took a stand!

    I tried this out on Thurdsay, the last time I worked. After the custy agreed to a dance, in that dull lag while you are waiting for the next song to start, I gave them this little speech:

    "Oh, we are going to have SO MUCH FUN! Before we start, I have something to tell you. HOUSE RULES are, you can touch me anywhere EXCEPT my boobs and my thong. Also, please don't bite or lick me. IF those things happen I could get fired or you might have to leave, and we don't want THAT to happen, do we? AWESOME! Here's our music. Lets have some FUN!"

    I think the trick to this is getting their agreement that keeping thier hands to themselves is better tahn being kicked out. ANd by saying it's the HOUSE RULES, nobody can argue with me about it. I didn't make the rule in the first place, but I have a compelling reason to follow it.

    I actaully had a great night thursday, the most fun I have had in the bar in ages. Only a few guys tested me after I did this little speech, and for those who did I just moved their hands away and said "ah-ah-ah! Naughty Boy!" and they got the message. I did over 30 dances Thursday, and only had one who couldn't control himself. He kept right on thesting me for 6 whole songs!


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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    Don't say ''I might get fired'' say ''You'll get thrown out and barred''.

    Most guys could not give a fuck if you get eliminated from a club rota. As long as they have a story to say to the guys about how they ''grabbed that stripper's ass'', that's all that matters to them, your current employment status is not their business. But if you remove their possibility of seeing ass at all (i.e. by barring them), then they may rethink their motive.
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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    Telling the house rules always works for me. Sometimes I forget to say it to guys that didn't originially tell me that they had never been in the club before.
    The ones that had been in the club before and continue to "bend" the rules are reprimanded sweetly by myself and not so swetly by the bouncer.
    These are VERY serious rules in my club and they don't take chances that they'll get in trouble. the bouncers aren't rude by they are HUGE so it's enough to put some sense in the weeny men.
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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    None of that shit works. I've been in a sea of ass grabbers recently, perhaps from working day shift. Its really been eating at me. From now on, if they won't stop grabbing, I'm just walking away and having them thrown out. Enough is enough already people!

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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    I'm about to start a club that doesn't allow any touching. ANY TOUCHING. The bouncer warns once, and then you are OUT of there! It hurts money a little, but it is quite satisfying to watch a guy get kicked out when you know he was molesting the dancer quite forcibly.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    Can I come work at YOUR club?


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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    the only thing i've found to work with any consistency is (and you have to have management that will actually do this) to tell them they will be thrown out for touching you. but there are so many clubs in my town, that doesn't work all that well for individual guys, who will often sneak in a touch and then just head to some other club after they're thrown out.

    with groups, though (which are what comes to my club the most), explaining to a grabby guy's friends that THEY'LL be thrown out if he gets too touchy with the girls works wonders. a group of guys doesn't want the hassle of going somewhere else and just wants to settle in where they already are, so male pressure keeps a grabby guy in line then. but again, management has to be ready to throw a whole group out if one guy in the group is a jerk to the girls.

    when management doesn't care about the girls' comfort levels, i tend to fall back on 'you didn't come here to do all that work, just sit back and relax'-type remarks, or 'you grab, i go'. i don't bring up being thrown out or my being fired. i am also also way more inclined to do things like trace my spike heel along a grabby guy's crotch while dancing. that tends to make their hands draw back some, without actually doing anything to them.

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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    I usually say,

    "Ok so the rules are... the more well behaved you are... the more misbehaved I can be"

    I normally whisper the last part in their ear.

    I am not a dirty dancer by any means but if a guy leaves his hands to himself I am a little more affectionate and they get a closer dance.

    Works well most of the time and I have certainly noticed and difference compared to when I don't say it!

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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    I am so thankful to be working at a club where the bouncers do this for me. It rocks so hard.

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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    with me it depends on his attitude, how much alcohol he appears to have in him, granted I sometimes cant tell, and the number of danceshe buys.
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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    I must agree that I do say what you suggested colleen however it doesn't always "hit home" until they bend the rules and I repremand them. They just have 'selective hearing' as such.

    I must admit that krys statement is a bit more motivating for the guy to behave as the patrons (just like the rest of humanity) are selfish creatures ("what's in it for me?").... if you can bring back the reason why they must behave and adhere to the rules to them... then I feel they will behave better.


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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    Yeah, I have tried this tactic and gotten lackluster results. Many customers will say something retarded like, "Well, no one is looking right now," as if that is the real reason why I won't let them touch. They just don't get it. I just move their hands away if they try to touch my pussy or whatever and say something like, "That's mine to play with."
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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    I changed my pitch to " we don't wnat to get in toruble, do we?" because everybody knows the bar won't throw them out. If they threw out every guy who got grabby, they would lose 2/3 of their business!

    It seems to be working for me, anyway, especailly after the first reprimand. A few test me to see if I am really serious, but when they find out I am, then they settle down. I find I am selling more repeat dances this way, b/c I can concentrate on what I am doing, rather than what they are doing. I don't have to lie wehn I tell them "I am having soooooo much fun, let's do jsut one more" (exaggerate a little, but not lie!)

    It probably works in my club b/c most of the other girls won't allow that kind of touching, and it IS against the rules. Also, there is no VIP room at my bar, just dances out in the main room. So everybody can see you, and the idea that "nobody will know" is jsut not feasible.

    I am also very businesslike in my demenor, both at work and OTC. Maybe they just sense that and believe me. I dunno. At any rate, I hit on this totally by accident and it worked so well for me, I thought I'd share.


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    Quote Originally Posted by colleen
    It probably works in my club b/c most of the other girls won't allow that kind of touching, and it IS against the rules.
    LOL, lucky you Colleen. I have the daunting task of explaining to someone why they cannot touch me while the girl in the chair next to me is gettting finger fucked. There's not much I can say other than "no." Consequently, I have alot of trouble getting a high number of dances from one guy, and must rely on being able to sell to a higher number of customers even if they are individually not getting that many dances.
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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    Well, I have also been known to rely on "Anybody can do what SHE is doing, but for something COMPLETELY different, sensual, and erotic, you NEED to get one of MY dances. NOBODY can DANCE like I do!"

    When they ask what is so wonderful about my dance, I smile and tell them they will jsut have to find out. My style is very slow and sensual, lots of touching on the amrs, face, chest, etc.; breathing in the ears, and so on. It does not sell as many dances as the finger fuck girls do, but it will help somewhat. I find this works best on the older guys who appreciate the tease a little more.


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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    I must be an exceptionally mean dancer. Grabby hands results in twisted fingers, wrists or assault with stripper shoes....
    I'd like to fantasize about tazering them. Heh.

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    Default Re: I think I have hit on something for the grabby guys!

    Also in mention of the thumb twister, what -is it- with guys that want to lick you? I mean gross - but I have a solution for that. You know that horrendously horrible tasting no nail biting liquid that leaves a "My dragon shat in my mouth" sort of funk for like hours afterward? Try applying some of that to the most licked on areas. Granted, I'm good at dodging, but still some of them are quicker than me at times.

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