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    I definitely believe I feel this way b/c I am PMS-ing, but I still think I'd be miffed anyways...

    This weekend I danced for this construction type young boy who asked me a/b myself and I mentioned my studies (BS in psyc; going to grad school, blah blah) and he says to me, "Oh damn, I was just gonna treat you like a f-ing stripper, but since you're paying for school and you're smart, I feel really bad."

    WTF? I mean, yes we're fantasy girls. I get that, but dammit not all of us are at work to finance a drug habit, screw custys, etc [insert random stripper stereotype here].

    *sigh* Sometimes I wish I could be a stripper mime...Is there a market for that??

    Thanks for reading, you guys rock I feel better now.

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    I know! What's the deal!?... If you are not TOO smart you are TOO pretty..do they wanna come into strip clubs and see dumb ugly naked girls!!??

    I always did wonder if guys would spend their money differently if they knew where it was going (drugs, clothes vs kids or school...)

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    I absolutely HATE stereoypyes!!!! Not just concerning dancers but other easily catigorized people as well. It's a sign of stupidity and it's easy to tell who the stupid people of this world are when something like that comes out of their mouth.

    You should of said something around the lines of "Oh damn, I was going to treat you like a f**king human being, but now that I realize you're an idiot, I feel bad, I guess I'll have to treat you like a retard now"

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    Quote Originally Posted by goddess83
    This weekend I danced for this construction type young boy who asked me a/b myself and I mentioned my studies (BS in psyc; going to grad school, blah blah) and he says to me, "Oh damn, I was just gonna treat you like a f-ing stripper, but since you're paying for school and you're smart, I feel really bad."
    This guy seems like good material for your studies - file under social inadequate, inferiority complex, or whatever other category seems appropriate.

    More seriously, seems like this guy had a mental pecking order. As a "mere" stripper you ranked below him. Having then demonstated that you were (a) very bright and (b) earning an good income you seem to have shifted to a position above him in said mental pecking order. Looks like one of his defence mechanisms kicked in.

    Phil.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Concubine
    You should of said something around the lines of "Oh damn, I was going to treat you like a f**king human being, but now that I realize you're an idiot, I feel bad, I guess I'll have to treat you like a retard now"


    Awesome...haahaa

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    i guess those stereotypes also lead to the question, if i am just a filthy stripper, what does that make you, since no one put a gun to your head to come here and you are actually going out of your way to pay for my services?

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    sterotypeing is a part of life. generally always bad(no pun intended).

    i have to deal with a few myself.

    1) just going to the club. everyone assumes that i'm a PL who never can get laid and that they would rather set their money on fire than go to the club. When in reality i goto get rid of stress and pretend the real world doesn't exist for awhile.
    and spend time with my atf who just so happens to be one of the most if not the most inteligent woman i've ever met.

    2) my handicap. Mine is very hard to find but when someone does they always see me as a brain dead kid in a wheelchair they knew in highschool.

    personally i don't beleive in treating anyone like that. i've always tried to treat them all with respect. most of them will return the favor in my case.
    Let the Flaming Begin!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Concubine
    You should of said something around the lines of "Oh damn, I was going to treat you like a f**king human being, but now that I realize you're an idiot, I feel bad, I guess I'll have to treat you like a retard now"
    YESSS! I shall remember that one, b/c IT WILL happen again.


    @phil: Most definitely re: defense mechanisms. Most of the jerks that come in (I'm doing fri-sun nites now) like automatically have their displacement/ transference/ projection buttons on. Auto-pilot. It's awesome to sometimes be in the space mentally where I can bring them down a notch w/o them realizing it till I'm gone (and have their wads of cash in my garter), but it's gets draining 8 hrs/nite, 3 nites in a row, in addition to the school course load (papers, papers, papers).

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    Or did you ever get this one... ?

    Custy: "What do you do besides this?"
    Dancer: " I'm in college studying -insert major here-"
    Custy: "Yeah, right... they all say that. Are you sure?"
    Dancer: "Mmm, maybe I dreamed my two years of three hour classes, the countless hours I stayed up writing term papers and studying for finals. And I probably dreamed that weekend I danced for retards like you and paid for my tuition in full with that money I made in two days."

    It's infuriating.
    You know the saying? ... Celeste is the best!

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    treat you like a stripper ='s DISRESPECT you

    Sounds like he planned to do one of the following: not respect your contact limits , not pay for his dances, verbally abuse ( ie slut, whore etc)

    I doubt that it was pms that made you angry about that jerk saying he had planned to "treat you like a stripper". I think that would have pissed all of us off any time of the month .

    BTW~ what did you say to him after he mentioned that ?
    Example of discrimination (Imho):

    the only prudent way to treat Islamics in the US and western europe today is along the same vein as Russians and Eastern Europeans were treated during the 'cold war' days - with some degree of suspicion warranted until proven otherwise !

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=44590




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    ask him why he's there if he doesn't like strippers. what an idiot

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    Quote Originally Posted by goddess83
    @phil: Most definitely re: defense mechanisms. Most of the jerks that come in (I'm doing fri-sun nites now) like automatically have their displacement/ transference/ projection buttons on. Auto-pilot. It's awesome to sometimes be in the space mentally where I can bring them down a notch w/o them realizing it till I'm gone (and have their wads of cash in my garter), but it's gets draining 8 hrs/nite, 3 nites in a row, in addition to the school course load (papers, papers, papers).goddess83
    Hmm... Is this a psychology major's way of saying she who laughs last, laughs longest?

    Still the "transference" from jerk's wallet to garter seems like poetic justice to me.

    Phil.

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    You broke the stereotype. Now a teeny tiny part of him knows that strippers are human beings. You have done a great service to us all and I'm thanking you for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hello~Kitty
    treat you like a stripper ='s DISRESPECT you

    Sounds like he planned to do one of the following: not respect your contact limits , not pay for his dances, verbally abuse ( ie slut, whore etc)

    I doubt that it was pms that made you angry about that jerk saying he had planned to "treat you like a stripper". I think that would have pissed all of us off any time of the month .

    BTW~ what did you say to him after he mentioned that ?
    I always get that b.s. here, it's the clientele. I miss suits.

    These blue collar guys + an inferiority complex = a bad vibe on the weekends. Hence, the "me wanting to keep my mouth shut and be a mime" comment.

    Dude, I dunno what I said...something lame, along the lines of "Good, maybe you should". I was dancing for him already and was almost @ the end of my shift and that "witless foil" in me had taken over cuz the rest of me was in the dressing room waiting to be able to put my street clothes on. Like I said before, I'm drained/burnt out, you guys. (Finals time right now)

    Thanks, Lizette, but being a stripper martyr isn't for me, just trying to go to school

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W
    Hmm... Is this a psychology major's way of saying she who laughs last, laughs longest?

    Still the "transference" from jerk's wallet to garter seems like poetic justice to me.

    Phil.
    Haha...yeah, it's what keeps me smiling, knowing I have more intelligence and ability in my pinkie, and will do more w/my brain in the next 10 yrs than these schmoes will have in a lifetime...And they're paying for me to do just that.

    But it's also the thing that pisses me off, that there are people out there like this jerk off that do what they do. It's the idealist in me...for everyone to be nice to everyone...Off to study and write more papers...

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