All of you girls who have been following my last few threads know that last night was my first night, and I promised to give you ALL the details!
First, I started getting ready at home. Hair and makeup takes some time and I didn't want to hang around in the dressing room freaking myself out! Plus the customers see you when you first walk in and I wanted them to see a beautiful, put together girl. Even outside of the club. Imagine ruining the fantasy by stopming through in sweats and flip flops?
On the drive to the club, I just kept sort of telling myself that I'd be fine, and that I belonged there. I listened to music that made me happy to get me in a great mood.
FIRST TIP- EAT SOMETHING! I didn't eat dinner before I got there and it ended up biting me in my ass later in the night. So no matter how nervous you are...eat something even if it's just a bowl of cereal or something.
So, when I first got there I went right to the dressig room. I arrived about 15 minutes early and set my bag down near the middle of the room. I didn't want to hide in a corner and make myself into a kind of target. You know, by looking scared to be there. I found an empty locker and put my street shoes in there. I said "hi" to a girl near me, and the other ones just ignored me. But that's better than getting hassled. Right away I started taking off my street clothes and putting on my nipple stuff. I brought my own so I didn't have to impose on anyone by asking to borrow. That would have made me look even newer.
SECOND TIP- IF YOU GO WITH YOUR HAIR AND MAKEUP DONE, WEAR A BUTTON DOWN TOP. I did this and I was so glad I didn't have to worry about screwing up my hair or face.
After I got my outfit on, I put on my clear deoderant and chatted a bit with another girl who was there for her first night. She seemed way nervous, so I tried to hang with her a bit. Shoes went on next and I was all ready to go out on the floor.
TIP #3- FOR YOUR FIRST OUTFIT, PICK SOMETHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL REALLY HOT. This will automatically translate into "I'm a smokin' hot babe!" up on the stage. Don't pick something because it's trendy, choose it because you LOVE yourself in it!
I went to talk to the DJ and he was really cool. He asked me what kind of music I like. He pretty much winged it for me, because I'm not real picky. I also tried to make sure if I did choose something I played more to the crowd than to myself. If they hate your music, they will most likey NOT TIP.
Next, the other new girl and myself had a little talk with the manager about house rules. He allowed us to ask whatever we wanted and helped us to really understand the rules. That helped me feel better too. Because as a new girl I didn't want to break a rule without knowing I was doing it. Like the one where we are only allowed to accept a stage tip IN OUR GARTER. Actually, I like that one. It seemed to keep the creep-o's from trying to rub me all over with a buck and crap like that.
Time for me to hit that stage!
TIP #4- OWN THE STAGE! You know what? You belong there and guys are there to see gorgeous women and give them money for being so scrumptious. And guess what?? THAT'S YOU!! Nobody dragged them there...they WANT to see you. Know this, and it will all come to you.
So for my first set I danced to some music I liked and it semed to go well for the crowd. It was pretty slow and I only made like 3 bucks on stage. But I wasn't up there to make tips. I was advertising my super hot booty to everyone watching. That way they could see that I was having a good time, I liked my job and most of all I looked fun to talk to.
TIP#5 NO ONE WANTS A DANCE FROM A GRUMPY LOOKING GIRL. What I mean is, if you look fun people will be drawn to you. SMILE up there, make EYE contact, sexy isn't always a sex face.
As for the moves I used. I did a few simple spins around the pole. Nothing too scary, but I did want to make the point that I wasn't afraid of the stage or anything on it. I tossed my hair a bit. I got down on th stage and did a little floorwork. Ha, my outfit was a mini skirt, thong, and bikini top. The first time I took down my skirt, it got hung up between my heel and the sole of my shoe. But I tried to remember the ultimate rule...
TIP#6-DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF. That means that little crap happens, but it happens to everyone and no one cares. I saw a veteran girl bust her ass on stage. She slipped on a dollar up there, and brushed it off. NO ONE CARED. So I bet, no one remembers my wardrobe issues.
TIP#7- ALWAYS SAY THANK YOU! That may be just a buck or a five to you, but that is someone elses money that THEY worked for. They are choosing to give it to you, and if you smile and say thank you, they walk away feeling appreciated. More people tip when you are sweet.
I came off stage and found a spot near the DJ booth to organize my three dollars and put my clothes back on. After that, I was off to check out the floor. I wanted to move around so that the people who were interested in me on stage could talk to me off stage. Fresh in their minds you know?
TIP #8- IT GET'S HOT OUT THERE AND YOU WILL GET SWEATY. Choose a good deoderant and you'll be fine. Even though we are wearing next to nothing, it is really hot up on stage. Just blot your face often and avoid too much powder because it will combing with the sweat and make you look gross. Drink some cold water too.




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Celeste is the best!

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