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    Well this was years ago but I dated a much older man, he could have been my grandfather easily. I asked him the same question. He told me bluntly, "Because I never saw myself fucking a grandmother. Plus women my age just gripe and are worried about the next 20 years of life, instead of just enjoying untill you can't anymore and your dead." This guy had money, was able to do things on a whim, could spend and not worry. Interesting relationship. I learned alot from the guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Muyaha
    This guy had money, was able to do things on a whim, could spend and not worry.
    Same thing here.
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    ask him to buy me shit

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    Lemme guess,you want him to buy you Hello Kitty thawngs???

    LOL!!!
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    actually
    YES!!!!
    ask him!
    it cant hurt to ask

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    ^^ LMAO

    what a trip

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    :p

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    Interesting...so do you see older men as long term types or just for fun til you "settle down?"

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    I would dump him and find a real relationship with somebody around the same age as yourself. I think you are just wasting time with this old clown....
    A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    Interesting...so do you see older men as long term types or just for fun til you "settle down?"
    I see them as long term types.My boyfriend has already offered to put me on his health insurance policy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest
    I see them as long term types.My boyfriend has already offered to put me on his health insurance policy.
    Damn that's what I need! And here I am trying to get a corporate gig so I can have affordable benefits again....hmmmmmm............

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    [QUOTE=onlythebest]He is undergoing his 4th divorce right now.I think his misogynistic ways are coming out.That's what I truly believe.


    ^^^
    whatever he says the reason of divorce(s), do you ever thought that
    "He" is/has the problem of the marriage?

    (I know you like him and sorry to tell you but this is the first impression
    when I read your post)
    honey55

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    Sorry for asking what for you are probably obvious questions...

    do you want kids? It's just difficult to imagine a 55 year old guy having kids with a 27 year old. At that point in life most guys aren't wanting to be lugging around diaper bags and crap.

    Also, I guess the whole "he looks like my dad" thing is not a big deal for you, right?

    Again, sorry, just don't understand...partially because at 38 I'm already seeing how little I have in common with girls in their early 20s.

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    This may have already been said but I'm too tired to read through ALL the responses.

    Maybe he feels like he needs to act childish so ya'll are on the same level. Not saying you're childish OTB....incredibly hot but not childish Anyhow. Even though he may enjoy you as his "trophy", you might make him feel a little insecure about his age therefor he tries to act younger.

    God, I don't even know if I'm making sense. I went out with a 42 year old a few times (thought he was 35, found out he lied). He tried way too hard to impress me. It got old fast. He had allot to offer (and i don't just mean financially, althought that'd be nice, haha) so it sucks, but I had to get away.

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    financially secure and health insurance oh my
    wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
    the "real world"
    isgay
    haha
    just give him damn camel toe already!!!!!

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    Mr Hyde,I don't ever want any kids.Being that I'm Chinese and he's Italian,I don't think he looks too much like my dad,LOL!!!

    Honey55,he has sat me down and told me the reasons of his divorces.I didn't get a good first impression about that either,but after he told me why,I can understand it a little better.

    Miss Taylor,I think he is going through some type of mid life crisis and is trying to act younger as a result.
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    OTB, do you see this relationship as long term to marriage or is this a right now type of deal and just ride the wave and see what happens? I'm thinking just from your previous posts from before it's more of a have fun see what happens deal. I'm probably in the minority answering this post. I say who cares! If you want to hang out with him and he's fun then great. Age difference or not, some people just have personalities that click. Now the writing on me and giving me camel toe thing would get on my nerves too, but hey my SO is in his mid late 30's and he reverts back to a 5 yearold sometimes even after 7/8 years together. His reasoning? Because he wants to be babied.

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    OTB, I think you are right about him wanting to be younger again. Maybe you should try telling him how much you enjoy his "mature" side.

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    Muyaha,you hit the nail on the head.At his age,he STILL wants to be babied.He gets cranky when he doesn't get his way.This is becoming a little funny.I see this as something fun for now that can possibly turn into something long term.He has already asked me to move in with him.You really put things in a better perspective for me.Thanks.

    Miss Taylor,he likes to be pacified.Gosh,now I'm babysitting a 55 year old,LOL!!!
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    Honestly, I think it's an age thing. A guy that age who wants to be with a girl your age has maturity issues to begin with, and that this behavior is a further reflection of that.

    But I think things between 38 year old Scottish/German guys and 27 year old Chinese girls are usually a good thing...you know?

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    i dont think age should be a definer of behaviour
    youre all ageists

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    But I think things between 38 year old Scottish/German guys and 27 year old Chinese girls are usually a good thing...you know?
    Who might this German/Scottsman be pray tell???

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    OTB...I think you should just run away.

    Seriously, this guy has been married FOUR times. FOUR. Now, I'm not an expert in the relationship field, but I do know that when someone is married that many times, they are either insanely hard to live with...take committment as seriously as changing a pair of dirty socks...or are control freaks who leave when things get out of their control. Course, could be a little bit of each, too.

    This is just my opinion...take what you need and leave the rest, but I think you should really look at this man without your rose-colored glasses on. HE told you why his marriages all failed...and I would venture a bet that says he blames is mostly on the women he divorced (or divorced him). That's a man who does not take responsibility for his actions. Please do not get too "dependant" on this man until you are sure that you want this for the long term. Getting "unmeshed" from an immeshment can be a pain in the ass.

    Go with both eyes open and look carefully before you jump with both feet.

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    First one didn't work because he caught her in bed with another man.13 years married.
    Second one didn't work because the first one became friends with her and sabotaged it.5 years married.
    Third one didn't work because the kids didn't want to relocate.This one was only 6 weeks long and was annulled.
    Fourth one didn't work because she made him chose between her and his son.5 and a half years married.
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    Good excuses all (...kind of). But perhaps the choices he makes in women are part of the reason he is 4 times divorced. The bottom line is, he's divorced 4 times. One time, yeah no problem, people make mistakes. Two times, ok, sometimes people don't get it the first time. But 4? Come on man. Couple that with the behavior...and he only goes for young girls? Lots of smoke for there to be no fire. Also, if you had kids in say, 3 years, by the time that first child was graduating HS, he'd be 76. That's getting up there to be having a kid in HS. He'd never be able to be a grandfather to your grandkids, if that matters.

    Like Venus says, just keep your eyes open to everything...

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