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    Hi girls, well tonights my first night and now the days here im more nervous than excited. Iv bought a long dress (we have to wear one until midnight) and 2 pairs of shoes 1 red, 1 black. I also have a sequinned bikini. Im concerned I dont have enough to begin with but i guess il have to hope for the best Im particularly worried about the fact im starting on a monday night especially as yesterday was a bank holiday so everyone went out and spent their money last night and i cant imagine il get many customers.In some ways it might have been better to start on a busy night so there'd be plenty of guys to talk to, instead i dont know how to make myself look busy. Im nervous of doing the lapdance and looking sexy for the full 3 mins. I dont want them 2 get bored as i repeat the same moves. oh and im worried lastly about fake tan, it smells a bit like fake tan which isnt sexy but if i shower it will come off please help ladies!!
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    Default Re: can you help settle my last minute nerves??

    GOOD LUCK! Don't sweat it, we have all been there and it really is a piece of cake. A few things to remember.

    Do not get involved in any dressing room drama. Please, this is important. Be courteous to the girls and sure, talk to them but don't get involved in any bitchfests. It will make life easier. Also, when you get dressed and ready before heading onto the floor, just remember that you are just as good, if not better than any other girl there. That's why they hired you, isn't it?

    When you are on the floor, there is no need to feel shy about approaching the men. They came into the club to see you and spend money so you go get it! Remember to smile, try and keep it genuine, men like to know that their company actually wants to be with them. Flirt, introduce yourself, ask about them and just be their fantasy, it can be really good fun sometimes! If they say no, do not take it personally, even the best looking girls get turned down. But remember that it is a job and do not get defeated. If gentle persuasion does not work, accept their decision gracefully and find another guy. Watch out for the ones with their eyes on you, it means they like what they see!

    When you get to the dance room, smile when you dance, just look into their eyes. Even if your moves are limited, good eye contact, smiles and sexily caressing your body slowly and sensually can make for enjoyable viewing. You don't have to have a choreographed routine and do not dance fast as it makes the 3 minute dance feel shorter. However these things take practice. After the dance, just thank the guy and move on. Piece of cake. Don't forget that you are there to make money and they are there to spend it. At the end of the day, you should be the one who is in control, you'll be fine!! Just remember to smile, smile, smile!

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    Default Re: can you help settle my last minute nerves??

    ^^^^Thanks, that was very nice advice you gave, but what about the fake tan thing she asked.

    Thanks Barbee

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    Default Re: can you help settle my last minute nerves??

    thanks so much malibu you're a star!!you definitely put my mind at ease I think im gonna be ok im just nervous in case my outfits arent as good as the other girls and i dont fit in. I got the BF to help me out by showing me what to do in a dance from a mans POV so I can hopefully hypnotise them further!! as for the fake tan I just put some on any way and hopefully i smell ok, il just use a lil spritz of perfume (one that men always compliment me on!) and go do my thing!!thanks for your advice xx ps I chose FYEO in the end it seems nicer than SR, they made me feel more comfortable at the audition.

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    Default Re: can you help settle my last minute nerves??

    Quote Originally Posted by barbee
    ^^^^Thanks, that was very nice advice you gave, but what about the fake tan thing she asked.

    Thanks Barbee
    As a dark girl, my knowledge on fake tan is very limited as I feel no need to use it.

    I don't know what tan you are using, but if it isn't meeting your expectations, maybe you should change it which will requiring some shopping around. But in the dressing room at my club, some girls do apply it and I have seen some use St Tropez and another one called Fake Bake. I don't think these ones are very smelly as I haven't noticed the smell when I've been in the changing room with the girls and they must stay put otherwise they wouldn't continue using them. You could do a search on them and see if they have any reviews.

    To silicondoll: I'm pleased that the guys are helping you out with ideas for you lapdances - just make sure they don't touch! lol! And good luck again, let us know how you do!
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    Default Re: can you help settle my last minute nerves??

    well ladies Iv just had my 1st night and actually survived!! It was shockingly quiet only 30 custys so that coupled with my nerves meant i didnt make money but i saw it as a learning experience. I eventually got the nerve to talk to these 2 guys who were really sweet to me. I was too nervous to ask him if he wanted a dance but when another girl barged in and tried to get a dance from him he said to her "no thanks I was just about to ask Portia if she'd dance for me" aw that was nice of him!! so i just did one topless and one nude, didnt even break even after house fees but thats not the point on my 1st time.I got a bit told off for asking a custy to help me do up my dress but apart from that it was all good and im back there on thurs, fri and sat, so we'l see how it goes!!

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