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    I've already talked to management about Ball Grabber. She'll get a warning. I hope she hits me (yeah, I'll take one for the team) so that she can get fired. Here's the deal:

    A dancer properly preps a customer for a few dances. As she is closing the deal, Ball Grabber comes out of nowhere, shoves her breasts into his face, grabs his balls, whispers "I can make you cum," and takes the customer into the VIP, leaving the other dancer stunned. Ball Grabber brags about making so much money and how every customer wants her.

    This is her game. I've watched her from the DJ booth, experienced her sh!t first hand, and have had customers talk to me after being totally disgusted with her behavior.

    She's been at the club year or so. Karma hasn't kicked in yet.

    What else does she do? Approach me and a customer in the VIP and demand a double. Yep. That takes the cake. I fought adamantly and lost. She got the damn double. During the time, she kept pushing me out the way like I was a 3rd wheel.

    I've gotten used to working with a bunch of bitches. Pretending that they are not there makes me very happy. Though, I don't think I'll ever get used to her or her Coach knock-off. What she is doing is literal stealing. And ball grabbing.

    Suggestions? Questions? Comments?

    I want to forget about her. Even when I am not at work, I think about doing bad things to her. It's not healthy.

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    whoa... AND MANAGMENT HASNT FIRED HER YET?

    i dont think its your place to take things in your own hands, but i wouldnt continue working another day with that b!

    talk to your coworkers, and plan a walk out... i dont know!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampafldancer
    whoa... AND MANAGMENT HASNT FIRED HER YET?

    i dont think its your place to take things in your own hands, but i wouldnt continue working another day with that b!

    talk to your coworkers, and plan a walk out... i dont know!
    My coworkers are idiots. They think it's just "the name of the game." So, no walk out.

    She has f-ed up teeth. They're brown and crooked. I was thinking that next time she pulls her sh-t on me, I'd say, "Customer, doesn't she have the prettiest smile? It lights up any room. Ball Grabber, show him your pearly whites!"

    It's mean. I know I'd go to hell. I'm really tired of having money stolen from me every night.

    Grinding is illegal in my area and that's the only move she knows for private dances.

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    she has been there over a year.
    she brags about how much cash she makes,safe to say,the club profits from her as well.
    You told the manager and she is still working there.
    your co workers are idiots(and ball grabbers).

    Just what is it going to take to get you to swap clubs??
    A Vice raid and a criminal record??

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    Wow, she sure does have some cojones to do that!!

    LOL, had to say it! Back when I started stripping, behavior like this would get a girl jumped in the parking lot. Now, its pretty much ignored everywhere......

    Set her up with a male friend of yours to come in and complain to management about her or something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizette
    My coworkers are idiots. They think it's just "the name of the game." So, no walk out.

    She has f-ed up teeth. They're brown and crooked. I was thinking that next time she pulls her sh-t on me, I'd say, "Customer, doesn't she have the prettiest smile? It lights up any room. Ball Grabber, show him your pearly whites!"

    It's mean. I know I'd go to hell. I'm really tired of having money stolen from me every night.

    Grinding is illegal in my area and that's the only move she knows for private dances.

    OUCH. I feel your pain. But DOING that would be a very mean, nasty thing to do. try not to attack someone like that.
    I would switch clubs though UNLESS you are making a killing there. Management is keeping her there and making it difficult for you (a girl with class) Dont sink down to her level and if you are thinking about it... its time to leave!

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    Disgusting. Absolutely disgusting.




    Where is this club and what does she look like?

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    Thats gross.. Chick like that in my club would have a little accident in the bathroom. Granted, it's not one dancers custy, but there are rules of dancer eittiquite to getting along with your fellow co-worker. Speaking of, you could print out a dancer manners deal and post it in the dressing room. Then again that might be a tad to subtle for ole' brown teefies.

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    Brown teeth,huh?She sounds nasty,but if you like the club otherwise and make good money,don't go away because of her.Try to pull her aside or ask a manager to have a talk with her.What she's doing is illegal in your area and the club can lose it's license,that's much more serious than losing someone who's bringing a lot of profit.

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    Oh that really sucks. There was one like that in a club I worked in...and to top it off, everyone thought she was formerly a man! And she/he made BANK because she/he would be SO aggressive, she/he would barge right in while you'd be giving a dance and just start doing a double saying really nasty dirty sailor talk things to your custy. The guys never knew what to do, they just let her dance. Then she/he would have the balls to say the custy owed for more dances they she/he did! It's nickname around the club became "wolfboy", because she had and adam's apple and alot of hair, man it was creepy. One time "it" barged in and took money from one of my customers WHILE I was dancing, it was one of the worst experiences of my dancing days. I would avoid "wolfboy" like the plague after that. Eventually "wolfboy" got fired for letting guys finger her butt....then I saw "it" working at another club in town......
    If it gets bad enough, I would switch clubs.

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    1st of alll if she makes so much money..she should get her grill fixed. All that ball grabbing and nothing to show for it.
    1)I would switch clubs
    2) I would get my guy friend to come in as a undercover custy and make sure she "accidentaly" barges in w/ her ball grabbing. Make sure he complains to management about the incident.
    But then again I think the managment sucks for not firing her. I wish managers knew how to keep the class in and take the trash out of clubs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by former_LV_dancer
    Oh that really sucks. There was one like that in a club I worked in...and to top it off, everyone thought she was formerly a man! And she/he made BANK because she/he would be SO aggressive, she/he would barge right in while you'd be giving a dance and just start doing a double saying really nasty dirty sailor talk things to your custy. The guys never knew what to do, they just let her dance. Then she/he would have the balls to say the custy owed for more dances they she/he did! It's nickname around the club became "wolfboy", because she had and adam's apple and alot of hair, man it was creepy. One time "it" barged in and took money from one of my customers WHILE I was dancing, it was one of the worst experiences of my dancing days. I would avoid "wolfboy" like the plague after that. Eventually "wolfboy" got fired for letting guys finger her butt....then I saw "it" working at another club in town......
    If it gets bad enough, I would switch clubs.
    That's both horrifying and amusing at the same time.

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    oh Lizette, just smack her upside the head and get it over with.


    I'm kidding! lol

    In all reality, there's not a whole lot you can do. You can't convince management to do anything about it. You're better off NOT confronting her. You need to either just find a way to deal with it or leave. The only way to get her to leave is to launch some sort of "team regulation", these are not always successful and it could cost you YOUR job. I'm not suggesting it just listing it as an option. This has been my personal experience anyhow.


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    Well I would not try to set her up or play any of those get even games as it may backfire on you and also puts you on the same level . You have done what you can by telling your employer of the problem I am really surprised that the other girls are not complaining about her tactics ? If you could get a majority of the girls with you and then go to mngmt in numbers you should be much more effective .Go in with the attitude she is breaking the law and you are trying to protect the clubs best interest and you are afriad that the club could get shut-down or fined if she continues this type of behvoir.If you show legitimate interest in the clubs success instead of your own your complaints will or at least should be taken more seriously . And you will come out a winner if she gets fired !

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    Well I guess I'm in the minority but there is no way in hell I would let her run over me like that. If it were me, if she interrupted a conversation or dance with me and a customer, I would let her know that we were in a private converstation and she would have to come back later. Then later on in the dressing room POLITELY let her know that you don't want to be interrupted in the future without her first asking if she may join. That way you're not causing trouble and if something like that happened in the future you have all rights to beat her down! LOL, J/K

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    Oh my god!!! I cant believe how nice an mature you are all being over this!!? We work in a tough industry guys and if you don’t fight-for-your-right-to-party you'll just get completely walked over again and again!!! Doesn’t matter what your grand mothers taught you, you don’t get ahead by being "nice" you get ahead by being STRONG!!

    This is definatly unacceptable!! Screw leaving to another club all because of her. She is the one in the wrong not you! In cases like this you need to give this bitch something else to think about. If her mind is on something else she wont be able to concentrate on being such a nasty peice of work all the time. It might be horrible to say... and I quote:

    "Customer, doesn't she have the prettiest smile? It lights up any room. Ball Grabber, show him your pearly whites!"

    However it will break her concentration (and her mojo if your lucky) and she will at the very least learn never to come and approach customers in your presences again. You show her who is boss. Do not let anyone walk over you (unless its for some kind of kinky pleasure!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizette
    She has f-ed up teeth. They're brown and crooked. I was thinking that next time she pulls her sh-t on me, I'd say, "Customer, doesn't she have the prettiest smile? It lights up any room. Ball Grabber, show him your pearly whites!"
    This in my opinion, is a great idea. lol. Be prepared however, most nutgobblers can't take a witty lil comment and she may try to hit you. Oh well, at least she'll be fired.
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    if she is true to type, then any kind of confrontation will halt the behaviour. If you just tell her she is out of line she will bitch and moan about how she didn't do anything wrong, behave kind of aggresively and possibly threaten you (but you said you were willing to get hit, so... hey). Don't be too polite, but don't be overtly horrid either. Tell her flatly that she is out of line, that it is incredibly discourteous and ask her to stay away from you unless you or the customer ask her over. She WON'T say "Oh, okay, sorry" but she probably WILL do what you ask, because that kind of bitchery hates confrontation, and just relies on the fact that everyone is too shocked by her breaking the social contract to respond. She won't want you to ask again if there are other girls she can poach off of.

    Failing that, let us know how the teeth thing works out. I have a suspicion it will make you look worse than her (which is the problem with these people. There is just NO way of dealing with them that doesn't involve doing something like what they are doing) but I'd love it if it would work.
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    I've been given the ball grabbing treatment and find it stupid, besides painful.



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    This is standard procedure where I work. Alot of the girls will walk up to the customer and massage his dick while they are asking for a dance. Not cool...
    But there is also not much I can do since it is so common, and management doesn't care, because many girls do it to them as well....
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    I know where youre coming from. But honestly, I doubt the club will fire her, if they do, theyll probably take her back a month later. Reality is, the club makes $ off her, they dont care, as long as shes not going down on him or what not. But I see the same B.S. at my club also, and you know something?.. Even though they might make more money than I do, its not that much more. Sometimes they kick- ass while Im pissed off w/ 200, but God has his ways. Greed is choking them up. just enjoy life, youre fine~

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    Id have already given this chick a piece of my mind... not to mention a piece of my stiletto... if she went up to a custy I was with Id risk the chance of losing one customer and telling her off. At least then shed most likely leave you alone after that and no more double dances and lost customers to her...

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    It sounds to me like she has the club by the balls as well. If management allows it, then she's probably giving them a reason to overlook this behavior. Just be comforted with the fact that a lot of customers don't like that behavior, and will steer clear of her. There's a girl at the club I visit who runs her hands up the front of my shirt everytime she asks me for a lap dance. I bought 2 from her a very long time and they got progressively more sexual and pushed the envelope pretty far. It made me pretty uncomfortable. If she really started hurting your money, you could find a patrons who dont like her behavior and have them complain. Or, as a last resort, change clubs. You don't need the stress, life is hard enough. She's realized that and is taking the easy way out.
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    Your responses are cheering me up.

    I wish I were exaggerating when I write about her. I can not think of anything to do on the floor to keep her in check without looking like a skank myself.

    Next time she comes up and I am with customers who are perverts and wouldn't put up with longer than 3 songs, I will walk away. But first I will announce than I absolutely can not compete with her gorgeous teeth and flat stomach. After all, she's earned the compliment. Gracefully, I will exit.

    Eh, before I do this, I will tell her that she is "on notice" with me and warn her not to come near me again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayln
    This is standard procedure where I work. Alot of the girls will walk up to the customer and massage his dick while they are asking for a dance. Not cool...
    But there is also not much I can do since it is so common, and management doesn't care, because many girls do it to them as well....
    Dick massaging is OK, as well as knee stroking there, too. It's the outright nut grabbing which I find annoying and disrespectful.



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