I met an old friend today; a dancer I've known for years. It was her first day back at Angels and it was a super pleasant surpise to me. She looked hot as ever and was even nicer than before and she was always very nice. I noticed that in the interim she had had another baby. Her first baby did NO damage that was visible. The latest addition to her family caused some wrinkling and sag above her belly button as well as as vertical line type indentation above her bellybutton.
Hopefully, everyone wont get angry with me, BUT, looks are super important to me. If I did NOT like her so much, then I would have just said NO to buying dances from her. I did get a bunch of dances and she did better than ever or it was just that I missed her company.
I don't know if it makes a difference, but she is black and relatively poor. She use to work a second job as a security guard when the opportunity was available and her car was falling apart and it seemed like she was getting taken advantage of by her mechanics. She is just a little slow, which means she is a mental giant compared to Presiden Bush. (BTW, I did like Reagan because he at least advocated smaller government.)
So why do some women--it seems like more of a problem with black women-- have this "problem"? Is it to late to fix without spending an arm an a leg? Do I dare bring it up? I like it when a woman is honest with me about my short comings, but I doubt most women would like that especially from a male.
Identification of what has happened? Solutions?





Background checks? This Miami. They were probably jumping for joy that she had an SS number and could speak English. Of course, speaking Spanish is usually better.

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