Originally Posted by bvegan
Ok, I have to ask this because I have always been very interested in what's going on in the minds of others. Why do you call it "lap sex"? A lot of dancers barely even touch the man (or woman for that matter). Second, if you are so against exotic dancing and your man doesn't like it either, what's the point of all this? I know if I'm going to protest something, it's going to be something worth while to me, something that directly affects me or my family. You're not doing it for other women, they can speak up for themselves. Lastly, no one is denying the wife/girlfriend their voice. If they have that much of a problem with it, they are welcome to come to the club with their man and get the same unbiased treatment that their man would. That way the woman would know there is nothing to be jealous of.
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. This activity may or may not constitute a threat to their marriage.
). Even if the dance involves a little dick-grinding or light petting, I don't think it's possible for "sex" to occur if a guy's joystick stays in his pants. Of course, I can see how such non-sex activities would bother you, I just think you should be realistic about what you consider sex.
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