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    Angry Stopping the "lickers"?

    So far as a new dancer I've been doing great. But the last few lapdances I've done have been with guys who WON'T keep their gross, grubby tongues in their mouths! I don't mind you touching my hair, or legs or back you know that kind of stuff is fine. But WHY DO THEY WANT TO LICK ME?? I don't want to freak out and yell or make it seem like they can get away with it, what should I say?

    Dancers- How do you deal with these guys?

    Patrons- How would you want me to handle this?

    I just want to make it stop without ruining the fantasy. Nobody wants a stranger trying to lick them all over or kiss them...(at least I don't )
    If everything you try is a sure thing, you aren't taking enough risks. If you never fail, you put a limit on the degree to which you can succeed. In short, the only way to win big is to risk losing

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    Default Re: Stopping the "lickers"?

    I'm not a dancer yet but man, if someone licked me I'd tell them the next time they tried it, my 6" stilleto will be in their foot, groin or other painful body part.

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    Heaven, you might tell them that if they continue to lick you, it'll smudge off your body makeup and expose your hideous burn scars.

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    Default Re: Stopping the "lickers"?

    "Don't lick me, don't you know AIDS can travel through sweat?!!!!"

    *snicker*

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    All those suggestions will scare them away and keep you from getting repeat customers, if they think you are diseased or scarred. I would tell them politely but firmly that they are not allowed to lick you and that if they keep it up you will have to dance farther away from them.

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    Pink, those other suggestions were done with a smirk. It's called humor.

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    Default Re: Stopping the "lickers"?

    tell tham at the begining before you start as "House Rules" and put a smelly lotion on most licked body parts that won't touch the pole ( lotion is yucky tasting)

    Put a little Magick in your night.

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    Patrons- How would you want me to handle this?
    To be frank, nasty body spray/lotion should work fine in this regard.
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    Default Re: Stopping the "lickers"?

    I wonder if you could spray some of that bitter apple stuff they sell for dogs when they are teething. I had some when my dog was a puppy... It didn't smell bad or anything, I think it was odorless... But it is supposed to taste really nasty... That would teach them a lesson... HaHa

    I don't know if it would work for tongue happy customers but it did work for my dog!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Heaven777
    So far as a new dancer I've been doing great. But the last few lapdances I've done have been with guys who WON'T keep their gross, grubby tongues in their mouths! I don't mind you touching my hair, or legs or back you know that kind of stuff is fine. But WHY DO THEY WANT TO LICK ME?? I don't want to freak out and yell or make it seem like they can get away with it, what should I say?

    I just want to make it stop without ruining the fantasy. Nobody wants a stranger trying to lick them all over or kiss them...(at least I don't )
    Possibly taking advantage of a newbie - unfortunately some guys go into a strip venue with the intention of getting away with as much as possible. A newer dancer, by definition, might lack the experience to stop these assh*$es trying it on.

    Somewhere in another thread is advice from another dancer. She said that misunderstandings can happen. If she tells a guy to stop and he does so immediatly with an apology, she thinks nothing further of it - a genuine mistake. If he continues trying it on then she regards him as an assh*$e and treats him accordingly - it's a deliberate attempt to go outside her limits.

    Unfortunately, the mentality of this sort of idiot is that if the dancer only objects half-heartedly, they keep on doing it. Try telling him that he's outside the venues rules and if he doesn't stop you'll ask the security staff to supervise the rest of the dance. Whatever you do, don't suffer in silence - silence will be taken as acquiescence.

    There's another suggestion been posted recently by another dancer - paint that anti nail chewing liquid on the licked parts - licking that should discourage a few idiots!!!!

    More seriously, these guys have a different fantasy from the one you think - their fantasy may well be imposing their will on you, not just enjoying the view - and that's definately a fantasy you do want to ruin.

    Phil.

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    I still say if you girls would give these types of men a few good slaps, word would begin to spread and there would be lots less lickers.

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    Spray your body with deodorant. Stays on all day long, keeps you dry, and tastes like crap!

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    Sorry to tell you but this is going to be one of those things you have to deal with. It's not right that guys will do this against your will but it is going to happen. The reasons why are numerous and it is allowed/encouraged by some dancers.

    Personally, I can't say that I've never licked but the times that I have I was pretty damn sure that it was ok. Since I've been careful about how I touch or whatever, I've never had to be told to stop anything.

    Just make it clear that it is not acceptable with you. You will likely lose any future dances from them but that is the way things are.

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    don't put any sort of bittering agent on your skin. It was mentioned in another thread by a dancer that she had tried this and it absorbed into her skin and she could taste the bitter in her mouth. yuck.


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    Yeah i have been dancing for two years now and i CANT STAND IT WHEN GUYS DO THIS!!!

    Who the fuck ever told them that chicks like it? Its discusting!

    I usually put on but loads of perfume, body butter and/or lotion. The more better! I usually put it around my neck and i even got to the extents of putting some on my nipples for those who get really excited if my breats come to close to thier face. Here i am trying to be nice and give them a really good show by putting my perky little boobies right up nice and close to their face and they think that is an invite to latch onto my titty like its gonna give out mothers milk!??! I swear some guys have no fucking idea when it comes to chicks...

    Anyway for those who do try to lick or otherwise in these areas the facial expressions on their face right after is pure gold!!!

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    Honestly, I would want to discourage repeat business from someone with this nasty habit who ignores my very FIRST request to discontinue licking. I always thought it would be funny to say something to the effect of: "If you knew what I was doing before work, I bet you'd wish you hadn't licked me there!" AND, since I'm eternally searching for new ways to amuse myself at work, I may use that one very soon. Update to come...

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    They make that nailbiter nail polish that is supposed to taste real bad. Put a dab of that on your prime target regions.

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    Default Re: Stopping the "lickers"?

    keep a good amount of distance away from the man when your dancing for him so he won't be close enough to lick....close but not too close

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    Default Re: Stopping the "lickers"?

    easy...
    After the 2nd "no,stop,you cant do that,its making me uncomfy"

    Lick your own finger,stick it into the ashtray thats always present in the vip room and get alot of ash on it..
    Next time he takes a lick,give him a dash of ash!


    Before he can jump up and complain,its disolved and gone,with just the nasty aftertaste left as evidence to show the manager should he want to register a complaint.

    Most guys will just keep thier mouths closed till the end of the dance.

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    Here is where we combine two threads..

    So tell me. I've been using my boyfriends semen to make my skin soft... How does it taste?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Truce
    Anyway for those who do try to lick or otherwise in these areas the facial expressions on their face right after is pure gold!!!
    I die laughing every single time.




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    So tell me. I've been using my boyfriends semen to make my skin soft... How does it taste?
    I've actually gone there before. Except my b/f really DID nut on my booty cheek before work. Hey! I kept telling this bozo to STOP LICKING MY ASS CHEEK. Little lizard like tongue flicks. nasty. After the 3rd time I gave up and inwardly gloated that he was licking nut residue.

    LICKERS BE WARNED!!!!!!!


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    Does anyone know if that bitter apple spray glows in the blacklight? I have some...and I think I wanna try that...
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    Default Re: Stopping the "lickers"?

    Ugh's.. I had one guy lick me right between my breasts. Guys, this WILL NOT TURN ME ON and it makes me view you as a repugnant troll. But anyway, I told him not to do that and gave him the what if some other guy had just done that to me, ect. He had the balls to tell me, that "No one did it like he did."

    Gross. Needless to say I gave him back his dollar and told him to go purchase a life.

    PS: That nails biters liquid? I use that one my nipples. It works wonderfully.
    Miss R.

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    1st time - I will put my finger on their mouth and say tut tut and shake my head (or something similiar)

    2nd time - I will say "you don't wanna be doing that honey I am dirty from rolling all over the stage" I might also add "imagine if I let all the guys lick me, and then you lick me as well....." just hint that they would really just be licking another guys saliva!

    3rd time - YOUR OUT!!! Dance at a very safe distance, if they try to get closer I will use my leg, knee or hand to keep them in the chair until the song ends. (It rarely gets to this stage)

    Just be firm and never feel like you have to do something you are uncomfortable with. Guys that do this are normally the 'cheap' guys anyway, trying to get as much bang for their buck as they can. There are other guys out there who will treat you with more respect, put that vibe on and go find them!!!

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