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    i like to dance and am thinking bout becomming a dancer, i live in a small town theres not too many places to dance at but ive had some friends who have asked me to dance at their parties i was wondering if that would be a good start? they said that they would have same rules as a gentlemans club and it sounds pretty well put together i just wanted to ask for someone elses opinion on how to go about doing it, or if there is a better way to gain expierence also if theres any suggestions, every tip will help thanks for your time

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    Default Re: new to dancing have few questions

    If you have a bouncer and set rules ahead of time. Maybe it's just me... But I think starting at a club would be easier?
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    Default Re: new to dancing have few questions

    Dancing at friends' private homes in a small town sounds like a recipe for disaster, in my opinion.

    Maybe you can take a road trip for a couple weeks to a bigger city, try dancing at a real club and see if you like it - somewhere that you don't know everyone.

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    Default Re: new to dancing have few questions

    ^^exdancer has a good idea as well. I think starting at a club would be easier b/c you get used to a hustle environment. If Im wrong Im sure you have to hustle up some tips at private parties. At least when you work in a club (most clubs) you are taken care of if some guy is being an ass to you. Its a more controlled environment than a private party.
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    i dont think people realize the extent to which we (private party dancers) have to hustle! i mean, 90% of the time these guys dont realize that we dont see ANY of the money they initially paid up front to get us there in the first place. so if we show up at a party, and we dont make any money in tips we go home from work with less money than we showed up with - from paying the bouncer and the dancer fees as well. every time i do a show my mindset is totally focused on just hustling and gettin these guys money.. i started off as a private show dancer and have yet to dance at a club. but i guess my point is that, i do think i hustle just as much as club girls.

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    Default Re: new to dancing have few questions

    Still, for a new girl to start off as a private party dancer thats got to be rough, Ever some of my friends who are seasoned dancers are still unwilling to do private parties because of reasons mentioned in some of the earlier posts.

    I would suggest starting at a club, unless you just are determined to start in private parties and then I'd go through a firm that does them. or if you don't have that in your area, get one of your large, no-necked friends to go with you to prevent any trouble.

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    private parties are no joke, no fun and unsafe-no matter who you are dancing for!
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