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    Angry Chicks will slice your throat about anything...

    Yea, so I started at this club 2 months ago. I know pretty much all the girls, staff, and management previously from just going in there a lot. Last night really pissed me off. I had a couple of the "veterens" come up to me (whom I have known for like 2 yrs) telling me that girls have been talking shit b/c I just quoinsidentally have 3 of the same outfits as some girls and to "get my own style". I have never had this problem before.. like seriously, WE'RE NOT IN MIDDLE SCHOOL ANYMORE! They act like they are the ONLY ones in the world who wear this stuff!! The one girl said, "I don't care what you saw/did somewhere else, you are here now and only I wear this!". I feel very violated.

    Then to top it off, the other girl (that I also have known) screams at me for requesting a certain song (that I have only seen her dance to one time-of my 2 months working there and all the times I came in as a custy) and says, "You KNOW this was MY song!!!!". Sorry but other girls dance to that song! Dude, I am not the DJ, I am not holding a gun to his head, and besides that, the song is really trash and I only wanted to hear it b/c I was drinking.

    Seems like people are kinda jealous. These WOMEN are 26 and 38. I am 19. It just seems pathetic...

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    keep your head up gurl......yeah they are older than you (by a lot) but you can be the better person and act more mature than them. They probably feel threatened by you because you are young.....(fresher than them) Tell them if they have a problem with what you wear them MAYBE they should take you shopping..... Just don't let them get in your head and get you down....shake them haters off!
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    They must see you as a threat OR they are just being c&nts and like to have control over everything. Lock up your stuff tight from now on....you never know what girls like that do. If I were you thats what I would do.

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    I can see some girls getting possesed over an outfit (i am) but after 2 years of being there and u nalready having that outfit is something i dont understand. the music issue, well that is at almost every club. it sucks.

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    It is ridiculous that some girls are this way. If I wanted to dance to a girl's music, and it was hers that she danced to constantly when she worked, I would ask her first, but since it obviously isnt "her song" (the dj would know anyway, because she could have told him to play it only for her if it was on one of her cds) then dance to whatever you feel like! Dont let these girls walk all over you, its so stupid. And so what if you have the same outfits!? Geez, tell them if they want you to not wear the same outfit they own to buy you some new ones. I would ignore these girls, or seriously be like, look, get off my back, this isnt a perfect world, little things like having the same outfit or dancing to "someone's song" doesnt mean jack. That would just irritate me.

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    Okay these chicks are suppose to be older than you? Good lord. her song, her clothes, I would tell that old broad to get into rehab because obviously she has been sniffing/smoking some bad shit.

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    1. You posted that you were drunk at work. You are only 19!! You aren't legal to be drinking in public yet and that is putting your job and the job of others in your club in jeopardy. I know that the job is hard to deal with, but you should refrain from drinking while at work, and certainly never get drunk at work- very unprofessional!

    2. You posted last month that there was a girl at your club that would wear business attire as her dance clothes, and that was her gimmik, and you wanted to wear a similar type of thing (skirt instead of pants, and lingerie underneath) but your outfit was slightly different. I would be pissed if I took the time to develop a particular look, and another girl went and copied my style, although slightly different. I have a Marilyn Monroe thing going on, I have taken years to develop my own style, and everyone knows it. If another girl in my club suddenly died her hair light blonde and started wearing long gowns and sparkly outfits and danced to Big Band and Jazz, I would look at her think "who do you think you are?"

    I think you aren't telling us the whole story here. I know that the only way to learn is by watching the other girls, but don't be so obvious as to blatently copy another dancers "unique" style. I put unique in quotes because no one in this business really had an orignal idea, they just keep changing ideas that others have already come up with.

    My advise to you? Don't drink at work until you are legally old enough to do so, and find your own unique style. Don't shop at the same stripper stores everyone else does. There is a whole WWW out there full of cool stuff for sale, as well as great thrift shops, holloween costume shops, even discount clothing stores like Wet Seal that have some pretty sexy stuff you can wear at work.

    After you've been in this business a year or two you will see what I mean. You will have developed your skills as a dancer and a performer, and will be pissed if another newbie dancer comes along and blatently rips off your style.

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    I'm older and I doubt it has anything to do with age. There will always be women who are catty... in and out of SC. It's probably because they feel threatened by your ability to take money that would otherwise go to them plus a few women like to mess with your head or at least try to. Just don't let it bother you.

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    I completely agree with Paris...

    There's a lot more going on here...

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    Okay, that made me think. If she is nineteen - why is that club letting her drink to begin with. Usually the legal age is at least twenty or twenty one, that club could get shut down for that alone. Plus, if thats the case then there are other shady dealings ( In that establishment ) as well, because in my experience if there's one bending of the rules, there's always more.

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    Default Re: Chicks will slice your throat about anything...

    Quote Originally Posted by Paris
    2. You posted last month that there was a girl at your club that would wear business attire as her dance clothes, and that was her gimmik, and you wanted to wear a similar type of thing
    Different girl, Paris-- I think that was Lizette.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
    Different girl, Paris-- I think that was Lizette.

    yes it was lizette!

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    DIFFERENT DAMN CHICK, GIRL!

    I wasn't putting myself out there. And besides, what I do (drinking) is my thing. I don't do it carelessly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by candy_parfeum_gurl
    DIFFERENT DAMN CHICK, GIRL!

    I wasn't putting myself out there. And besides, what I do (drinking) is my thing. I don't do it carelessly.
    That's like saying,"I don't have my license yet,but I'm a safe driver".It is still illegal.
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    lol, that is not the main point of this. Oh well... it is over

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    Quote Originally Posted by candy_parfeum_gurl
    DIFFERENT DAMN CHICK, GIRL!

    I wasn't putting myself out there. And besides, what I do (drinking) is my thing. I don't do it carelessly.

    For one, I'm not a "girl". Unlike you I -am- grown, as in mature.
    Secondly I think your statement quoted above speaks volumes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by candy_parfeum_gurl
    DIFFERENT DAMN CHICK, GIRL!

    I wasn't putting myself out there. And besides, what I do (drinking) is my thing. I don't do it carelessly.
    Sorry about the other girls outfits thing. I take that part back, but the rest of the advice as to where to find original stuff still stands.

    But I still stand on the drinking thing. When stuff like that goes on it is not just you "doing your own thing", you are representing our whole industry in the eyes of the poeple around you. If your club gets shut down because of underage drinking going on and you get caught, then what? If you were only drinking while at home or out with friends, or even while performing at private parties, I could care less. I smoke pot when I'm at home. I know it isn't legal, but once I start doing that stuff at work, I put my whole club in jeopardy. SO I never even think of brining it to work, ever!

    Besides all of the health and social reasons, and reasons of addiction for not drinking at all, just refrain for a couple of years at work until you are old enough to do so in public legally. Thats all I'm saying. Protect the business that is allowing your to bring home $1200 a night!! That is a good thing, and it would be a shame to see it go away.

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    Back to your original question--SOMEBODY here has to get some new outfits. They are not going to do it. Cattiness aside, you don't want to go running around in the same thing somebody else is wearing, anyway. IF they have the same stuff, you should not wait to go out and get a few new things of your own. LIke Paris said, go develop your own look.


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    For me it seems the main issue here is for a lot of dancers to not know how to behave like adults and solve problems. I cannot stand the sort of immature, catty behavior that happens at my club. Maybe CandyPerfuemGirl should get her own outfits, but I don't see why whoever has the problem with it couldn't just approach her and say how she felt in a decent way, even in the way that Paris presented it.

    I'm all for a little drama but not when it's mean spirited. I guess lots of girls just get a kick out of it. I get so tired of it though. I just want to go to work, make my money, have a good time doing it and go home.
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    Thanks for the posts everyone. I think all of this mess was basically just over jealousy. One chick used to be one of the top earners in the club, but not anymore and b/c of this she feels the need to put down. She sees a new girl do really well (especially when she has a bad night) and is threatened. I am over it and it's not stopping me from paying my bills and making $$$.

    *brushes dirt off of shoulders*

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    good for you. awesome avatar.

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    yeah shake them haters off your shoulders gurl......
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    I had catty girls like that in my club, I did the SAME thing too with the whole song thing! I played some ying Yang twins song (rap for those who don't know) and I only did it cuz the three song set I was doing was all rap. I picked it out really quick cuz i was in a rush, didn't even THINK about it! Next thing I know after I get off the stage this chick is in my face rolling her eyes at me and being a complete bitch saying it's "HER song" and bla bla bla. This is the funny part, next thing I know, she's next on stage and she PURPOSLY plays the same song!!!! How childish!!! (as if I was offended by that!) I'm sure the customers were like.....wait.....wasn't that song JUST played?? She kinda made herself look like an amateur who didn't know how to pick out songs by doing that.
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