Men are predictable.
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"Heaven's Not Overflowing."
Men are predictable.
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"Heaven's Not Overflowing."
^ It sounds better when Corrosion of Conformity is singing it (see "Deliverance" album.)
All men would cheat if given the chance with no possiblilty of anyone finding out.
Also, we are told frequently by the media and 'pop psychologists' that men and women are sooooo different (i.e., the book "men are from mars,.........") However, I would say men and women are much more alike then people could ever imagine.
That's just my ten cents.





i've learned that i'm not attracted to (personality based) alomost any man who frequents strip clubs. there are expections, like with anything, but for the most part it's true. i can be friends with a few of them, but i could never date them. it's not because i would be jealous over their club habits. it has more to do with the basic personality of a strip club junkie. don't get me wrong, i'm not saying they're all the same. their personalities vary greatly from one to the next, but there are still a few common traits that almost all of them seem to have. it's not even that the traits make them a bad person, it just makes them incompatible with my personality. many of them tend to be "a mans man". that is, very manly (do not confuse with "macho"). also, and don't get defensive about this, the vast majority of them are sexist. sexist isn't always as obvious as "that woman should be in the kitchen". most of the time it's more subtle. most strip club junkies that i've met hold the belief that women are the weaker sex. these are typically the same guys that get really defensive at the mention of anything "gay". they also tend to be homophobic, even if they don't "hate gay people". they just seem to have a defensive reaction to most things that denote anything un "guy-like".
in short - manly men are not for me. they never have been and probably never will be.
also, don't think that i'm saying all "real men" are homophobic sexists. i'm just saying that the vast majority of men who frequent strip clubs are. i've met plenty of manly men who are not homophobic or sexist, i just don't meet hardly any of them in the club. i can usually be good friends with those guys, but i still don't tend to date them.
I have learned that a man can go into a strip club 5 times a year and he is a strip club junkie and not worth dating,
but a girl can dance there 5 nights a week and you better not call her a stripper.





i don't consider 5 times a year a junkie. i consider a junkie to be someone who goes twice a month or more consistantly. also, i still reserve judgement untill i've talked to someone. there are always exceptions, they're just not common. i know quite a few girls that don't fit the "stripper stereotype" and i also know a ton that do. stereotypes (on a basic level) exist for a reason, but making assumptions about an individual based on a stereotype is unfair.Originally Posted by Sitri



What have I learned about men.
1. I love a man.
2. Sometimes a sweet guy (on the main floor) , may turn into an asshole (in the VIP Room).
3. The man who flashes a bunch of $1's at the stage has little confidence. He needs to show the money. However, the man who doesn't need to resort to those tactics has lots of confidence. He uses his charm. The flashing man is usually the show off of the bunch, the one trying to prove something.
4. Sometimes a guy really wants to hear what a girl has to say. He really doesn't have to engage in any conversation at the SC. He could go directly to the VIP room or get a lap dance without uttering a vowel. Some guys want to talk before proceeding on.
5. Not all guys want the stereotypical hot girl. Many guys have insisted on not getting the barbie, and go for what the other girls. I've had a few nights like that.
6. Sometimes when a guy comes to the club he is tired of being treated like shit from his wife or girlfriend. So guys just want to be loved and respected.
7. I love men.
Of course these lessons could be learned in the outside world. No need to go the strip club to notice things about men.
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