the 1st answer that would likely come to your mind is that I'm the handsy, smelly, etc, etc, etc jerk that they want to avoid. that's not the answer. Two women, same basic situation - got dances in the beginning, now they give me affection, but not dances.
1st dancer-
She sometimes comes by and gives me hugs from behind and then flitters away before I can get her to sit with me. I sometimes catch her looking at me as she walks by.
2nd dancer-
sometimes I can get a single dance from her, but then she'll say 'that's enough for now' and leaves the table. I know she like the dances: she'll tell me that she loves the way I touch her, the excitement in her eyes, her little moans, and the most telling reason - she got really turned on a couple of times and I could smell her scent (hope that wasn't too much information, but I wanted to be clear about this).
some more info:
The 1st dancer and I had a couple of great conversations, before she pulled away. The 2nd dancer and I have very little in common and have never chatted much. I don't think the 1st dancer goes out on 'dates' with patrons; the 2nd one will, but sparingly (learned this from the strip club junkies). The two dancers work at the same club, but different shifts. I have never run into them both at the same time. Both are early 20's & quite popular at the club.
me - average looks, 33, slim, single, no kids. somewhere between 'casual' & strip club junkie. Have been complemented often on 'great hands' and 'best massage ever.' dancers often say they feel calm around me & could fall asleep in my arms.
I could see how the 1st dancer might like me, but not the 2nd. But they both are pretty much acting the same way towards me. I don't get it. Why are they walking away from the money?
-thanks
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why then it's like getting paid for sex!!!
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