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    So I'm at work the other night and we were having a really slow day. I end up sitting with one customer and after three dances he hands me a hundred bucks. Now that is a wicked tip and I hugged him and said thank you....He then asked me if he could see "it" and I of course told him no...gross, illegal, endless reasons...anyway after I say no, he then asks me to get him change. What a jerk. I've always thought that once the money is in your hands and they haven't indicated immediatly that they need change-it's now yours. I wanted to just walk off..but I tried this once and results were bad. It's like the money was conditional but I had not been told about the "conditions" and even after explaining this to mgt. they made me get change and it was embarassing...It reminds of the bait and switch crap guys pull on stage with the 20 and the one...What would you have done to handle yourself in this situation?
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    A way around this is to clarify the gift when it's received so that there is no confusion later on. You could say, "Thank you for the very generous 100 dollar tip. That was very nice of you." This way, at that moment he will correct you if he wants change in that moment. In the circumstance you presented, when he asked for a "favor" you have taken away his ability to then ask for change later because you already clarified the amount of the initial gift when he gave it to you.

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    Default Re: What a jackass...

    Very true...I really need to work on being more assertive..sometimes I just get so intimidated. Thank you for your advice...
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    Damn what a wanker.

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    When someone would give me a $100, I would immediately ask if they need change. If they say no, then it's "oh thank you so much", etc. I would feel pretty stupid if i thanked them for the extra tip and then they say "oh no I need change for that".

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    Yeah, I always ask right away if they need change. There is also the possibility that the don't realize what they are handing you. Greedy though I am, I hate the thought of taking somebody's entire grocery budget for the week or something wehn they really only meant to hand me a $20!


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    I may get beat up for this but after thanking him for it I would have put it in my pusre or garter, then, after telling him that he couldn't see "it" when he asked for change I would have said, as I held my hand out, "Sure, for what?".


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    I've had regulars give me large bills by mistake and returned it to them but some jackass who wants a peek at the goods, no way.

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    First I'd have to say: never ask mgmt about something like this - they will not be on your side. Considering how the trend in club mgmt is to NOT stick up for the dancer when a customer rips her off for dances because they "can't do anything about it"....I say then, they "can't do anything about it" in this situation either. Don't even get them involved.

    The way this reads is that the guy acted like the extra $ was a tip and then tried to get something for it AFTER the fact of handing it to her. Sounds like CS to me. Trying to take advantage of a seemingly desperate girl on a slow day.

    Of course I always immediately ask if the guy needs change for a large bill so there's no confusion. But if he doesn't immediately take it, he gets nothing more than a very sincere thanks, peck on the cheek and a nice view of my hair swishing on my ass as I move on to the next custy.

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    Hey B!!! Nice to see you back online again!!!

    Yeah, this guy is a jackass...


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    Default Re: What a jackass...

    I ask if they need change at the end of the dance.
    That way whatever they give me I keep.
    It's also the polite way of saying "PAY UP ASSHOLE"
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    I'm slow. What is "it"? Depending on what "it" was, I would have come up with a scheme. No way would I let him pull that shit.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    "it" = cookie

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    Correct me if im wrong (cos the rules are different over here) but if this guy asked to see "it" and your in one of those clubs where you are not allowed to show "it"(i.e. only topless - this is what im assuming) then shouldnt you have had the right to say "You know that this is not one of those clubs where you are allowed to show "it" and i am deeply offened that you asked me that cos you know the rules upon walking in here. Now im going to keep the change and call it even by not going to tell a bouncer about what you asked so you wont be thrown out and beaten up but i warn you not to ask any other girls cos they might not be so kind..!"
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    Yea
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    And nice to see you Gynger

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