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    i've been reading all the posts here and i'm learning so much! but here's a question: i need to learn how to give a lapdance. i'm going to be appearing in an adult film in which i play a dancer. i've been learning how to dance onstage in an attempt to someday work in a club, but for this, um, role, i have to give a lapdance.

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    go to a club and buy a few dances, that is the best way

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    Yep...^^^ I agree there. I think there are some videos out there on the subject too...
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    Thats the only way Ive known is a girl giving me one. When I first started this dancer was nice enough to give me a dance to show me a few moves to work with. MOst dancers will not do this convince one of your guy friends to come along to buy YOU dances. tee hee
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    problem is, i'm only 20. they don't let you in clubs around here.

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    Then wait till youre 21. I worked in Reno (dont know where you are) but I worked in a 21+ place only thing is I couldnt sit at the bar to talk to customers for too long.
    Have you tried getting in? Or go w/ a guy? Oorr....there is alcohol served there?
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    Wow...what a wild question. At 20, you're old enough to do an adult film but NOT old enough to go into a strip club. Wow...

    Where are you? In most places I've been, you can get away with DANCING in a club at 18, but you can't drink until 21. You may have to just break down and spring for a Southwest Air ticket to Phoenix (where I used to dance) and then try out on an amateur night at a club there. Call Christie's in Phoenix (not in Tempe, but Phoenix) and find out if they still have amateur night try-outs on Mondays.

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    When I was in Florida I wasn't allowed to visit the club as a customer, only to come in to dance. I couldn't check out ANY clubs without auditioning. Bleh.

    You might try buying Fawnia's lapdance video.
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    yeah it's crazy, these laws! i can't just casually check out clubs until i'm 21, which is why i'm waiting until my birthday in june to start looking seriously. i'm probably the only college girl i know without a fake id, but i'd be scared to use it at a nice club, anyway. the shoot is next weekend, unfortunately.

    god, the more i think about it, the less sense it makes. i can vote, buy a house, make a hardcore film, and dance in a club, but i can't just casually drop in to buy a couple lapdances and see how its done.

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    Default Re: la-la-la-lapdancing

    Hey
    I have no idea, I've been major stressing about how to give a lapdance. I am kinda shy about buying a lapdance for myself too. I asked my boyfriend if he would go and buy a lapdance for me just so I wouldn't have to do it. A girl wouldn't mind giving another girl a lapdance? I'd probably rather do it for a girl I didn't know, as opposed to a guy I didn't know. I don't know thought, I'd have to be in that situation to know.
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    Dug up this old post of mine, hope it helps!
    How to Do a High Contact Lapdance by CrescentLuna written eons ago:


    Do other stuff is my best advice, don't only grind. here, I work reasonably high contact but with a g-string, bachelor parties these are nude, here is my basic routine for a lap dance [my club has little booths with couches in them, three walls about shoulder-height]:
    walk seductively towards guy, lean over him, breath in ear
    stand up, slowly take off top
    straddle lap, grind a little, smoosh boobs-into-face, grin at him
    While pressing against him, move legs to ground, remove skirt if applicable
    Body slide so that you're on your knees, ass in the air, grind with your boobs
    Stand up, do a little spin to turn around, step onto couch and shake your ass in his face
    Lower yourself so you're facing away, straddling his lap, grind a bit this way
    Lean way over while still straddling from behind, slowly walk on your hands forward until you're off his lap
    Lie on your back and spread your legs, play with yourself for a minute.
    Get back up, straddle, grind a bit, breath in ear, maybe rub his shoulder a bit

    If you have time, or into the next dance:
    Grind facing away but don't straddle, have your feet firmly on the ground, then body slide until your head is against his crotch and turn yourself over
    With the couches and the not-really-walls, I can then climb up and put my thighs on his shoulders, maybe push his head towards but not letting him get too close
    Then bring one leg down and plant against his crotch, while keeping the other leg on his shoulder. Squish boobs into face [guys are incredibly impressed with the leg-shoulder thing]
    Body slide down, boobs-to-crotch thing
    Climb up again on shoulders, this time instead of putting a foot on the ground, put feet on the couch, put both hands behind you on the ground, flip your legs so they're V-for-Victory, while grinding [this looks impressive, but don't do if you aren't firmly on the guy's lap - if need be, ask him to hold your hands or hips instead]

    do these little things: smile at him, play with the buttons on his shirt, run fingers through hair, nibble ear, rub shoulders, run a finger over his nipples [don't like, grab 'em, but a little brush goes over well], let your hair [if long enough] get into your face, fling it back, brush it in his face on occasion - you can just be sitting on his lap while you do these things, so you aren't grinding the entire dance.

    Anyone questions or clarification, feel free to ask.
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    Default Re: la-la-la-lapdancing

    has anyone checked out carmen electra's striptease video? there might be something useful on it????

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    I checked out the series of videos she has...as much as I love her....the tapes are kinda cheesy in my opinion.

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    Default Re: la-la-la-lapdancing

    thanks so much, luna!

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    Default Re: la-la-la-lapdancing

    Yeah don't bother with Carmen's tapes. It's set out more like a dance routine than a strip tease. I mean, you could probably pluck out one or two moves from it and make them your own but most of them are useless for stripping. I watched her 1st and 4th (the lapdance) disc. The 4th one was a joke... she did NOT show you how to give a lapdance, she showed how to give some kind of chair dance. She didn't even think about incorporating a guy in the routine - obviously the most important part of a lap dance.

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