There's this girl I work with that I really don't like. I've been ignoring her and when I do that she goes out of her way to bother me more. When I first started working at the club I'm in I was sitting with a couple of Hispanic guys and they didn't know English that well and I don't know Spanish that well but they were asking me if I wanted to have sex with them. I said no and got up to go dance and didn't go sit with them again. They were getting way to touchy feely too. Then this other dancer came over and sat with them (I'll call her Theresa.). About five minutes later she came up into the dressing room and yelled "Sasha, did you just tell those two guys downstairs that you sleep with them for some money?" There were alot of girls in the dressing room too! I told her no and that's why I got up and left..and she said "I was asking you because I asked them to start tipping me and they said why should I start tipping you if the other girl said she'd have sex with us for money and I said well she doesn't sound like a person that'd do that but if she did then that's messed up." That was really low class to come up and yell at someone like that..I'm thinking don't come at me like that.
Then another time I was sitting with a customer and he said he wanted to talk to "Theresa" first and I said okay and left. Then later on that day in the dressing room she says "Oh I was sitting downstairs with that customer John and he said to me I'll give you $100 if you take off your panties and rub yourself against my penis. I said not for $100..Then he said well she treats me good. He said that about her or whatever (she pointed to me) and I said well that's messed up.."
None of that was true and it made me really upset and I walked away.
After that I didn't talk to her at all and she kept talking to me when I'd see her again and I'd just answer her and say nothing else. That's what I've been doing since then. Now, she does little mean things to me..for example one time a waitress was joking around me with because she knows i'm shy and said good ahead and make your booty pop Giselle when I was on stage and the girl Theresa started snickering all loud and she was on the other side of the room. She laughs at me alot and makes mean little jokes.
I don't say anything because I don't want to make matters worse because I know that with her that will lead to a verbal argument..and her treating me even worse.
Has anyone else been in a situation like this? Would would you do about this?
I'm sorry for making this so long.



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omg. I can't believe that. Well, you have many options... obviously tell management... of course make sure the other girls know that she has issues with you and you DONT sleep with the custys for money (although I'm sure most have figured that out). And, just for fun, mention to the slimy custys (the ones who never come in and never spend money or are known to be grabby) that so and so told you that this girl gives high mileage
. Sure, it will come back to bite you in the ass... as you play dumb or say you really did hear that..... OR I guess you could be mature and complain to management
She ususally snickers like I'm nothing when I ignore her. She has a sister that works there too.
Anyhow, she's just one of those dumb bitches that thinks she's got it all because she's one of the girls who makes the most money..She tells everyone how much she makes..and what she buys..That's really dumb..I never let anyone know how much money I have on me. I don't need to brag on what I've got.

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