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    Do you try to get them to buy more than 1 dance before you even start? How do you say that? Also, after the first dance, what do you usually say to ask them to get another dance...I just don't know how to word it
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    I just keep going till they say stop. After the 3rd dance I usually ask if they want more in a very sexy eye to eye way. That way you havent lost too much if you had just kept going to the 10th dance THEN asking if they want more. Sexy whisper in the ear to keep going is also what works for me.

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    I have been wondering about this, too. I usually top out at 2 dances. TO get to 2, I do this:

    (sexy whisper in ear) I am having so much fun, aren't you? (yes)
    YOu don't want to stop NOW, do you? (no)
    Oh, good. Let's keep going then, OK? (Ok, just one more)

    IF they hesitate at this point, I tell them I was having so much fun I didn't even get to my best moves yet. THen I do deliver with some better and more dramatic moves on the second dance.

    And then he usually does just the ONE more. I used to have good luck offering a 3/$25 special (Normally $10 a pop!) but I am not sure I really want to be discounting that 3rd dance, wehn it is usually the best one I give.

    Where I work, if you keep going without asking, they will INVARIABLY tell you that it was only ONE song, even if you have been there for 20 minutes. Or the tell you theu didn't know that the music had changed 4 times or whatever. That really takes a lot of audacity, since there is a noticable lag between songs. It's not like a DJ club where the music is continuous and the songs fade into each other. Since I know almost everything in the jukebox, I make it my business to remember what I danced to, and recite it back to them if they try to question me.


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    I would also like to point out that whilst your question is a valid question -- if you can just take the time to go through the various threads here in Hustle Hut.... you will invariably find your answers and then some

    I'll come back and edit this post with the links to the relevant threads.

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    you could always keep on dancing untill he tells you to stop...and then has to pay for all of them or go to the atm for more cash.....the only problem with this way is he may not have all the money to pay for the dances...................or,this is what i usually do..... you could ask if he would like you to keep on dancing ..as the next song begins........

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    If I like the girl she doesn't have to ask. She gives me the look, and I say, "keep the meter running baby."

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    ALWAYS ask between EVERY song. This ensures a definite agreement that he's buying another and you're not just hustling him. No guy wants to feel like he's being hustled, and simply continuing to dance and charging him for several songs does exactly that. It also makes it easier for them to claim they thought it was only one song and not pay you for the extra ones. Better to make it clear.

    I always ask "can I do another" or another similar wording which sounds like I want to dance for him, rather than does he want another. And I'm always nodding my head "yes" as I ask....kinda like a subliminal message It's easier for them to simply agree with you to keep going.

    And let your dancing do some of the selling. If he's already agreed to one, the easy part is over - hardest part is always to get that first one. Make plenty of eye contact during the dance and let him know you're into it - try to avoid at all times sitting on his lap and looking boredly around the room, a guy picks up on that no matter how much you smile to his face. When you've got your back to him, turn your head and look sexily back at him. Save some of your hottest moves for the end of the song, when you'll be asking for another dance. He'll be more likely to say yes if you've made him feel good about having you on his lap and got him hot and bothered at the end of the song.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    I usually ask if they want more in a very sexy eye to eye way.
    That's the look that drains my wallet!
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    As soon as the next song begins, nod your head, and say "let's continue", "shall we continue", or "more!"...never give them an option, don't put the decision in their hands, don't use any negatives, don't let him hear the word NO.

    Take it from the veterans such as Bridgette and me. If you just keep going you are asking to be ripped off and have your mood ruined.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    As soon as the next song begins, nod your head, and say "let's continue", "shall we continue", or "more!"...never give them an option, don't put the decision in their hands, don't use any negatives, don't let him hear the word NO.

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    I have never done that....I will try that...thanks for the tip Katrine!

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    Never keep dancing until he says stop without asking to continue between each song. Alot of guys will try and rip you off and not pay for all the songs if you do that. ALWAYS ask to continue between each song. No matter how you word it, ask. When I was new I kept going and of course the guy refused to pay for all the dances, I NEVER made that mistake again. When I'd be getting near the end of a song I'd make sure he was wanting more being really seductive and they usually would continue. It just comes with experience, keep them wanting more....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sasha333
    Do you try to get them to buy more than 1 dance before you even start? How do you say that? Also, after the first dance, what do you usually say to ask them to get another dance...I just don't know how to word it
    I start off with the one dance, after the song is over I ask did you have fun? I "feel" your excitement? stuff like that but I drop my voice and octave and whisper sexy-like. It doesn't always work but sometimes it does, and I only use it with buisnessmen or custys whom I have talked to and know are willing to spend.

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    I say "We're going into song #2 now, cool?"

    or "Keep going right?"
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    "Can I keep going?" "Can I continue?" "You don't want me to stop, do you?"

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    MY first two months of dancing -"Are you done" looking nervously i am sure too lol
    After 2 months-"Can we go for more?..ect.."( Nice eye contact and seductively)
    I still can't believe how I would ask other if they wanted more dances when I started though lol !

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    I always ask "can I do another" or another similar wording which sounds like I want to dance for him, rather than does he want another. And I'm always nodding my head "yes" as I ask....kinda like a subliminal message It's easier for them to simply agree with you to keep going.
    As soon as the next song begins, nod your head, and say "let's continue", "shall we continue", or "more!"...never give them an option, don't put the decision in their hands, don't use any negatives, don't let him hear the word NO.
    Pains me to admit it, but if the girl's first dance is good, these methods work very well on me. After that, I usually buy in blocks of five or ten. Talk about PLdom...
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    i usually ask if he wants me to keep going after the first song and if he says yes I'll say "just tell me when you want to stop"

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    I know girls who sell on a 2 dance minimum or ask men if they want a *insert price of 1 dance here* dance or a *insert price of 2 dances here*. The latter is a sly upsell because it often hints to the guy that he'll be getting 'more' for his money if he opts for the x2 dance price when they are just getting the standard. Not only that, but the guys can't complain they were 'ripped off' afterwards because the dancer did not offer them extras. I don't opt for this because it can lose you customers and men spread comments to their friends and you lose more money.

    Before I offer a second dance, I like to end the dance in a rather compromising or sexy position (e.g. with my boobs about an inch from their face) and then I whisper in their ear a few long seconds after the dance has ended so it looks like I'm savouring the moment, and slowly say ''So - how does a second session of kink sound to you?'' or something of that persuasion. I know this sounds corny, but I prefer to use alliteration, or words and letters that sound sexy or similar. It adds more to asking the question and flows better for me.

    Because of my style of LD (slow, sexy, lots of caressing and eye contact), my 2nd dance proposal and it's manner fit in very nicely. I normally am successful using this tactic, especially with the right people.
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