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    I've been dancing for about 2 years and half now, and I dont know about yall but the money isnt what it used to be. SO I was thinking about trying escorting. I know its a whole different game, defnitely alot more risks involved, yet I hear its ALOT more money and I'm spoiled now so I dont want to work as hard for it now. SO I wanted know if there was anyone who could give some advice on the whole escort business.



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    I went with a huge agency out of West Palm Beach Florida. If you get into an agency who likes you, you may be able to tell the company what you will do and wont for money to work with them. I was approached by the owner one night, so it was easier i think to tell him i would not want to have sex. (of course the company says they don't expect you to have sex, the guys are actually paying you for a date.) Since they had a clientel already he knew who was into some Dom. games and fetish stuff anyway. He said he could not promise these customers would not want sex, but he would give it a whirl. Then went into the whole if you do this and this and this crap you will make more money.

    I found probably 12 guys in my escorting days. These guys did not want sex. But they did not come around often, maybe once a month, except one guy who said he fell in love with my feet, i adored him, he was fun and tipped very very well. However the12guys that i met with once i was seeing again!!! I just got tired, as i was still dancing too, and doing phone in my spare time, along with a corporate job.

    Bottom line, if you sleep with the guys you will get many customers if you go with a huge company, and have no hang-ups about taboo sex. Just my observations with escort biz.

    I had a body guard!! He also was the driver, and he waited for me. One thing i did not like was the agency would call in the middle of a "date." Some guys did not want to answer the phone, and the owner got pissed...seemed at me.

    The money is much much better than dancing! I can't say what i made in a week because it varied, i walked out on a few customers, to never see them again, that also was a turn off for me, saying no and feeling like i was letting the agency down.

    All in all, condoms fail, i don't want to sleep with strangers for money, so it was not for me. I would have still been building up a client base to this day, but being tired and saying no just got old real quick.

    There are fetish guys out there for ladies like me who don't want to sleep with men, but again it takes time to build up.

    However...i still made much more money escorting guys than i did dancing. THey pay very well to the agency, you're cut should be very generous, i got $500 and tips with every customer, and the date lasted less than an hour!!!! Imagine going on 6 dates a night with that amount of pay...Tips are money in you're pocket,and not on the lower end of the scale. The guys who really liked my services knew the tips are my money to keep, all of it, the agency did not get their hands on it, so they tip well.

    This may sound too good to be true, it is far from that. Every customer was a worry, and it is very taxing dressing and driving to them, performing, and heading out again in 2 hours. The job made me a zombie.

    Just find the company that fits you. SIGN NOTHING untill you agree. Most give you a company pager so the owner can reach you 24/7, because a guy may come along at 3:00am and want a lady like you. It sucks getting out of bed and looking refreshed.

    For me there are too many cons, and not enough pros to escorting. Money is great, but if you look like shit from lack of sleep it shows. I had too many jobs going.

    Be careful. Have fun.

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    Alright,

    heres my rundown on escorting in ATL. First of all I did escort in Atl and so did a friend of mine. We always worked for ourselves though. First of all you can do it one of 2 ways...either you can work for a service or you can go independent. I am not fond of splitting 50% of my money with anyone, so I decided to run my own ad in xcitement magazine. We had a few girls that worked for us here and there, cause you can't be every girl. There is also one called creative loafing which is more like an alternative newspaper. Alot of girls did very well by using eros which is an online source for escorts. Now the average call will be anywhere between 150 to 200 per hour. Now if you work for a service 50% of that money will go to them...you keep your tips unless they are on a CC. Now you will get a lot of calls, most of them will be bullshit...guys playing games. Since Atlanta is so far (city to city) this may become annoying. I think in-call is the best bet because they have to come to you and it saves alot of wasted gas, time, and frustration on your part. You can limit some of the wild goose chases by screening the customers who book appointments...Full name, address, phone# and checking that against 411 information. If anything does not match...do not waste your time. If a guy is serious, he more than likely has used a service before and knows the routine. So he should have no problem giving your required info. also make sure he knows that he will have to show ID when you arrive or vice versa and if the name on the id does not match what he said on the phone ...DO NOT DO THE CALL. 2. NEVER ACCEPT CASH IN HAND OR DISCUSS ANYTHING SEXUAL ONCE YOU GET THERE. BEFORE YOU ARRIVE, TELL HIM TO HAVE THE MONEY INSIDE AN ENVELOPE WITH "GIFT" WRITTEN ON THE OUTSIDE OF THE ENVELOPE in view and ID ready. This is extremely important. Atlanta police set up stings on a regular basis and my friend from ohio got busted. They had a hotel room set up in downtown ATL and were busting girls all day. The only girl that did not get charged with prostitution was the 1 girl who had this gift envelope. But she still got arrested for escorting w/o a license. You are supposed to have an escort license in ATL too and they can arrest you for escorting w/o a license and that is a crime. If you get busted and convicted, you will never be able to get a dancer's or escort license again. So keep that in mind if you dance too. That is your biggest risk in this business down there so treat everyone like a cop...Everyone!!! until you know for sure he isn't. Never do anything or DISCUSS ANYTHING until the customer is completely naked. no exceptions...my friend did not do that and the 1 time she didn't she got busted. Follow your instinct...the call she got busted on they asked for 2 girls at 1:00 in the afternoon. They said they were there for a coca-cola convention and worked for coca-cola, but had on nike hats...but most importantly they never got undressed. They kept asking how much for sex and as soon as she quoted a price they busted her. Pay attention to small details...toothbrush, bed slept in etc. Think about your hotel room when you travel. Hotels are usually where they set up stings 95% of the time. You have to choose whether or not to have sex with the guy. The only advice i can give you on that is keep in mind that 200 is just for you to show up and dance anything above and beyond is more money. Always collect money first. If you are not going to be "full service" i suggest you learn how to give a great massage and expect to offer a hand release at least. You will have to do something to get them off for 200. They are not paying for "chit chat" I don't care what anyone says. When I escorted, I always gave them a ridiculous price if they "wanted to have sex" 95% of the time they will not have enough or not want to pay an extra 2 or 3 hundred for sex and will settle for a hand release or get nothing. At least if you do decide to do it you will make a lot more money. And i would let them know that only after my initial fee was in hand and their dick was hard. No man in his "right mind" will pay 200 for a hand job. So until then it is always "maybe". My reason for not doing it was always because they didn't have enough money. But be prepared to stay the whole hour...and they will beg the whole hour. Guys who have never used a service before are the best ones...they don't know what to "expect". Most girls do full service because they want to "get it over with". I ran my own service down there for a couple of months off and on and in ohio and never got busted. You cannot let your need for money cloud your judgement. Another way to lower your chances of getting busted for prostitution is just to stick to this rule if you do decide to be "full service"...I don't do full service on the first session. Ask them for references i.e. what other escorts or services have they used and actually call to check. One thing i will say is that services in atlanta realize the police are a very real factor and don't mind saying if a customer has used their service. Send a few calls to another service that you cant take and make a "friend" ... that is priceless. Alot of the bigger services already know where there may be a sting set up. I know I may sound a bit over kill on the police side, but trust me you have to be. Getting busted and convicted could ruin your "dancing" career in GA. If you are not from GA and get arrested it is hard as hell to even get a bond unless you have someone who lives in GA that owns property to sign for your bond. You are a flight risk. Fortunately my friend was cool with one of the owners of the biggest service there and he recommended a good lawyer and he got it thrown out completely...she was very fortunate. She had to pay 2500 though but it was worth it. After that she quit escorting. But if you work in a club, you'd be safer just setting up private shows with the customers you meet there. Don't solicit them though. They will ask you and if carry it right and don't get buck wild with it noone will ever know in the club. Out of towners should be your targets. If you go that route. Avoid club regulars.

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    i'll sleep better at night if i pass this info along to you:

    i dont know if you plan to be sexual with these people or not, but here's some places that can help you:

    aid atlanta: these guys offer a rapid results hiv test. it's affordable (please give a good donation!) and accurate. you get results within 1/2 hour! no blood drawn either! they are open mon-thur 12pm-7pm. located on west peachtree st. where it meets peachtree st./rd.

    planned parenthood: located near grady hospital on edgewood ave. and courtland st. this is the best price if you can't get free testing at grady memorial. i believe their walk-in hours are mon, wed, fri 8am-4pm and tue 8am-12pm.

    www.webmd.com and www.afraidtoask.com offer LOTS of info on keeping you healthy. i dont mean to scare you or put you down, but this stuff does exist. please take care of yourself and be safe!

    and remember, always have someone know your whereabouts. escorting is not a safe job. there are lots of crazies out there. please go to a supply shop and get something to protect yourself- pepper spray, knife, whatever makes you feel safe.
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    No I really didnt want to have sex with the customers but I realize your point dominique, what man in his right man would pay a crazy amount for no sex. I have met some girls that have said that they just did massages or were just dates to these guys...but then again alot of girls like to tell stories to make themselves feel better. But I definitely feel you on the whole police thing. I used to work at a jack off spot and they got raided luckily God was with me and I wasnt there at the time. BUt yeah I definitely dont want to get locked up especially for something like that. I guess dancing would be my best bet, huh?

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    Dancing will bring in some money yes. But don't give up so quick, really. If you find a big reputable agency you may get into the fetish guys. not all guys pay for sex. Look at Doms, these guys pay well to get whipped, and most ( a real Dom denies sex) pay out very very well. Guys into domination get their high (turn-on) with a woman controlling and denying them. Many guys have told me they are to masturbate first so the pain is more intense.

    They are out there, try it. Be careful and see if the company accepts what you wish to not do for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela
    If you find a big reputable agency you may get into the fetish guys. not all guys pay for sex. Look at Doms, these guys pay well to get whipped, and most ( a real Dom denies sex) pay out very very well. Guys into domination get their high (turn-on) with a woman controlling and denying them. Many guys have told me they are to masturbate first so the pain is more intense.

    Most of my former clients ask permission to masturbate towards the end of the session, or when it's all over. Some Dommes allow them to do so, some do not. I usually tell them that they have to wait until I leave, depending on my mood, and now long of a session they were paying for.

    But I suggest that anyone who wants to do this for a living should seek out a professional to train under. Being an escort isnt super simple, but it's easier than being a Dominatrix, and you have a lot of health and safety risks to learn about as a Domme.
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    Yea right. I have heard this as well. Every one does it their own way i guess. I don't see a wrong way, except to kill a person during, like that one lady did let a man die in her dungeon in NYC and was afraid to tell police....scary shit.

    Pamela

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    Imani,
    you don't have to answer this in reply if you don't want. Think about this...you say that money isn't what it used to be in dancing right? Well I would say that most of us would agree with that statement. But when you really think about it how many women or men have the opportunity to make what we consider "not enough money". When you really think about it, it's not really that we are not making enough, we are not saving enough. I am guilty of it myself. Now that I have been dancing since I was 19 and now i am 32, I realize that I have been very fortunate to even have had the opportunity to make the kind of money that I have made. I have jacked off so much money... as most dancers do. Now that I am over 30 I have decided to work smarter not harder. I have to and we all do. Maybe if u look at your situation you can make some adjustments to your spending habits and you will feel differently about the money you are making. If you don't want to have sex...then don't. One thing about escorting or dancing period is that it can suck you into compromising yourself if you let it. The more you make, the more you think you need. Even if you make 500 per week dancing and you save 100 per week, at the end of the year you will have over 5000 saved. If you save money;possible find something to invest in and work toward a goal (school, business etc), even if you don't make a lot you will be establishing alot in other ways that will pay off in the end. If you have 10K in the bank and you are an escort on a call, you won't feel the need to have sex for money or even think about it because that extra couple of hundred dollars won't make or break you. You feel me? If you do it, do it cause you want to not because you have to. Trust me, I have escorted and danced, done both at the same time. The money all evens out in the long run...you will have dry spells in both. You will get burned out on both at times. Im telling you its not what its cracked up to be. You always make more when you don't NEED it. So my advice is whatever you do... escort or dance, come up with a plan and you will fare better in the long haul either route you choose. If you are nice looking, charge top dollar and stick to your guns...even without having sex. Everyone has their price and only you know what that is but if you have your shit together, you name your price instead of lets say...an eviction notice making you think that's your price...you feel me? 100 is worth alot more to a girl who needs it than one with 10 G's stacked. Yes you can escort without having sex but when you are in need that's when the "just this one time" devil comes and it starts a cycle and eventually it gets easier and easier. I see it all the time. Just a little food for thought. Do what you do... be the best at whatever it is you do... but most importantly do it on YOUR terms. Save something every night you go to work either at the club or as an escort. I've seen escorts that have sex with every client and don't even have a car or a place to live. It's crazy. Alot of escorts don't really want to have sex with customers, but they are afraid to say no or ask for more money cause they fear losing the call altogether and risk getting nothing by the guy changing his mind cuz he cant fuck you. Yes that could happen but imagine how much less pressure it will be for you if you have money saved. Or just do massage and charge a little less to make up for the fact that they can't have sex with you. Alot of girls do that...ive done it and made just as much as a full service girl. I've actually done calls with me and another escort in the same room; she did full service i didn't and we left with exactly the same money but i didn't have to compromise my body cause i didn't have to. As long as you don't get that I'll just fuck and get it over with attitude you will do fine. Even if you decide to be full service... always insist to him you are not cause then they will offer you way more money to get you to do full-service. Not that I am encouraging full-service, but if you are going to do it...GIRL GET PAID!!!!! O.K. am rambling...i cant help it...sorry...i will end now. Just some things to think about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sxedominique
    The only advice i can give you on that is keep in mind that 200 is just for you to show up and dance anything above and beyond is more money. Always collect money first. If you are not going to be "full service" I suggest you learn how to give a great massage and expect to offer a hand release at least.

    You will have to do something to get them off for 200.... When I escorted, I always gave them a ridiculous price if they "wanted to have sex" 95% of the time they will not have enough or not want to pay an extra 2 or 3 hundred for sex and will settle for a hand release or get nothing. At least if you do decide to do it you will make a lot more money.

    And i would let them know that only after my initial fee was in hand and their dick was hard. No man in his "right mind" will pay 200 for a hand job. So until then it is always "maybe".

    My reason for not doing it was always because they didn't have enough money. But be prepared to stay the whole hour...and they will beg the whole hour. Guys who have never used a service before are the best ones...they don't know what to "expect".
    Dear, what you describe is a RIPOFF CON artist, not a prostitute. I wonder how many times you got yelled at or worse? I think yours is DECEPTIVE DANGEROUS ADVICE, especially so for a beginner.
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    If an escort promises FS (full service) and does not deliver, or demands more money for it in addition to the money she already received upfront, then she's ripping clients off. In the short term it might get you more money, but there are many online message boards to report disreputable providers. You also risk violence if a client gets angry that he's not getting his money's worth. I DO NOT recommend going about escorting this way.

    I have to say, StripperWeb is the ONLY place I've ever come across where people talk about escorting not involving sex. I have insider experience. Take my word for it: escorting involves sex. Nothing wrong with it, but it's deceptive and incorrect to suggest that it does not and what Pamela described is in the one half of one percent.

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    Please remember Smartcookie sex comes in many forms! I did not want to fuck clients, that put me in a very low bracket indeed. However, i met nice men who don't want to pay a lady who wants to jump in bed for that extra tip, or hit a Dom for a very high price, so they try an escort agency. Men come in many flavours, and i failed at escorting because i was tired of saying no, even to the ones who wanted "sex play." Big difference.

    I will tell the ladies, yes you can escort without fucking them, but...get a big agency with a huge variety of customers, and make it clear that you have something to offer the company aside from fucking them, and that leaves you with fetish guys, and a fairly small volume of customers.

    I quit because i was just tired. I was successful, made great money!!! Did not like being called out out 2:00am just to make $500 and tips when i was doing 3 jobs. Would i escort again? Yes probably, but under my terms, not a company. It IS do-able.

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    Sex does come in many forms, but in the minds of most men, escort = sex, and fetish = domme. You are correct in that there are agency escorts who specialize in BDSM, but most do standard sessions as well. It is good that your agency was flexible enough to accommodate you - most agencies aren't so accommodating.

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    I've done sessions as a dom in ATL (only w/ custy's from the club) a few times. No intercourse no HJ.....These were all guys that I'd known for a while. I liked it 'cause the money was good, I never felt uncomfortable w/ the guys and the money was good!!Plus I didn't have to worry about my regulars taking up club time. I could still be free to hustle while working.

    On and off for about 6 months I tried to get work escorting... I contacted many of the larger (or at least regular advertisers) agencies and all I ever got was hit on by the owners. 4 male owned agencies tried to date me, I never got any work from them, but lots of dinners and party time--- so I assumed they were just trying to do the pimp thing with me. The female owned agencies were just crazy, not showing up at our meeting place, major attitude or really sleazy and 1 showed up high!

    All in all I never got to do anything. What got me interested were a few girls in clubs who kept telling me that they just did dates-- lunch, shopping listening etc. Well since that's pretty much how I make my $$ at work, I figured I'd give it a go. One of the male agency owners said I was too much like a girlfriend--- I don't seem like the type thats just gonna let a guy have his way with me.
    I'm sure the agencies have changed quite a bit over the years, but the two high calibre agencies are http://www.brittanysplace.com/escort_atlanta.htm and
    If I were to get into it, one of these would be my starting point.
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    I agree that it isn't wise to not deliver--aside from the money issue, do you really want to risk angering a horny man who has just handed over a wad of cash? Bad karma, and potentially a dangerous situation. If you are going to escort, be an escort and get right with the fact that that means doing guys for money. A lot of money, if you're good and market yourself well. If you want to give handjobs, work in a massage parlour or be a "sensual masseuse" and be clear up front that that's all you provide. If you want to rip guys off, be aware that it will bite you in the ass eventually.

    BTW, I've never escorted, but I believe in good business practices regardless of the mainstream status of your chosen occupation.

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    sxedominique-- your last post was excellent!
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    Pointing out in this whole escort thing. I was an escort, i did my job. One very important factor...(i should know) not all the guys that go to an escort agency want sex!!!

    I thought the same thing, be an escort, you have to sleep with them, this is not true. You will build up a very small client base, as probably most of the guys are looking for a woman to sleep with, but again, not all!!

    I worked for (as far i know from research) the largest co. out of West Palm Beach, and they branced out. They had a beautiful office, as my pager was not working at first, and i sat in the office for about 30 minutes while a few ladies turned in pagers.
    I watched these ladies, they are very very attractive, dress nice and drive nice cars. One woman and i talked only once, as i told her i was going to quit.

    She said, "hunny if you make them wear a condom and just fuck them it's easy after the first few times." She then said she had guys who actually paid for a night of fun, i.e. going to dinner, a movie, drinks, a club and talking for hours.
    I was after those guys, and when they come to an escort agency they will pay for you're time. I have learned one thing about the business that i will never forget. There are alot of lonely men out there, who will pay good money to have some sort of female interaction, these types of guys to me seemed to not be so good with females, a tad shy, first timers etc, or had a fetish they wanted played out. Yes many guys will come to an escort agency (as i learned while i worked there) just to talk and play out a fantasy! Some of these fantasy's are now reality....Cross-dressing!!! I LOVED it. Feet!!! Role-playing!!!

    They are out there and they pay. Now i see if you get into a tiny hole in the wall agency, you don't have alot of clients. Not many choices.

    However, while i sat at the reception area for the ladies, the phones would not stop ringing, i listened, and some are ladies calling off a job, clearing her status, and many potential or already customers ready to hook up.

    Just my experience being an escort. Also, being incall/outcall you're rounded out. You have to have security....btw MOST companies do not provide. This company has security, and it makes it no less risky than dancing. A gun is a gun if a customer gets pissed. I did not have to worry about being beat up. I felt comfortable, it's just a very tiring job. And not for me.

    Pamela

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