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    I work in a juice bar that, for the most part is okay....that is until they hired a new manager who has absolutely no clue as to what is going on. Tonight I had another *why are you so dumb* incident with him. So I am dancing for a regular and he ends up fining me for grinding. (We are cleaning up are club, so admittedly I shouldn't have been but with everything else that was going on I'm gonna make money somehow) ANYWAYS I go up there and started talking to him and he says

    "I am gonna have to fine you for grinding"

    "I was like okay, I will pay the fine, but is everyone else getting fined too?" As I was not the only one and there were other girls earlier that he saw making out with customers and licking all over their neck and ears. He at that point told me that because they were coming in contact with customers above the waist that it was okay..............ummmm..........NO. So I get fined for friction when there is an exchange of bodily fluids going on and that's okay????? Someone please explain this to me....WTF??? By the way it is in no way in compliance with state laws and since I am in a juice bar I am legally allowed to grind with my panties on...

    Stupid stupid. Then at the end of the night he had the nerve to ask me for a tip. I almost said that his tip was in the till (meaning the fine) What a putz.

    Sorry venting.

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    Is extortion okay?

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    What a wanker. That guy is just trying to assert himself because he's new...
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    I understand why your upset,and im not trying to upset you more,but you broke the rules of the house,even you admitted to it.

    Alot of girls push the limits to make the money,nothing wrong with that imo.

    Some will get caught and fined,most wont,thats why even you keep pushing up to the line.

    Its the cost of doing business.

    Its like speeding 5 miles over the limit and then complaining about getting a ticket,with the excuse of"everyone else is doing it".

    Dont let this fuck with your game,as long as your pushing the limits,your going to get caught a few times.
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    ^^But she claims its ok by the state laws where she is....sooooo shes really not breaking any laws. If the limit is ok to grind but not to make out w/ custys then I think shes fine.

    Ugh..I havent had really bad managers like that but its sucks that hes being an ass. He already sounds like he trying to put-his-foot-down w/o really looking at the club as a whole. If he can fine you for grinding then he can fine the other girls for making out w/ custys. If he really wants to change things he has to be consistant. But, as for you dealing w/ him...I would just stay outta his way.
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    Default Re: Stupid Manager!!!!

    it doesn't sound like he's cleaning the club up at all!!

    I'm not sure what all youre comfortable with doing while on the job, Ambilyn, but if it were me I would move on.
    Grinding is bad but, exchange of bodily fluids is ok??

    I don't know about the state laws in Oregon but, I'm sure the club rules are completely backwards.
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    Ambliyn, I live in your state, and know the laws well. I don't think it is legal for them to fine you here. If you break a law they are just supposed to fire you. Being as there are soooo many clubs, all the clubs are fighting for girls so they are watching their schedules and doing what they can to keep the dancers in line while trying to keep their schedules full.

    The other thing is that a club in Salem recently got busted for dancers giving fully clothed contact dances. This was also a juice bar, so appearently it is illegal to touch even when there is no alcohol at all. Generally vice will leave incidential contact alone (brushing hair against cheek, kisses on face, dancers arms resting on customers knees or shoulders etc.) but it really is illegal to be closer then 6" to the customer at any time during a performance.

    At a big club in Beaverton the dancers have to be completely clothed in a long gown, must keep their legs to one side of the customer at all times during a dance, no chest to chest contact. So pretty much the girls kneel on the chair next to the cusomer and stroke his cheek while talking dirty.

    If this guy is just trying to force you out, I would go and look for another club. There are like 100 different places you can dance in your city, and most of the bars that serve alcohol are also happy to have underage dancers. You can take your customers with you, as well.

    You should also keep in mind that the managers at clubs around here make like $500 a week (if they are lucky). I don't know about the tipping the manager thing, I've never worked in a club in Oregon where the managers got tipped. It is very cheap to work in this state because of the sheer numbers of clubs competeing for dancers. I can tell you one club in Portland that has begun paying their dancers a shift wage, if you are interested PM me for the info.

    Good luck and PM me anytime for info for traveling to nearby areas to dance,

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk
    ^^But she claims its ok by the state laws where she is....sooooo shes really not breaking any laws. If the limit is ok to grind but not to make out w/ custys then I think shes fine.
    I agree,what she has done isnt illegal by legal standards,but is a no no for the club,and thats what makes a difference.
    When in Rome,do as the Romans do,its house rules.

    I do think its odd that you cant grind but its ok to suck face.

    Blahhhhh!!!!!
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