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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    BTW, Some of you might be interested to know that I never ask a dancer her real name, whether her boobs are real, or any other such rude questions, and I find it interesting that some of you are quick to assume that I'm the type of customer that I personally abhor.
    Well, to be perfectly fair to those who are assuming that, you did say that when a dancer introduced herself by her stage name you felt entitled to treat her with disrespect.

    Many, many dancers don't care if customers know their name. That's fine for them. Maybe the reason for this policy is nothing more than it makes us happy and more comfortable. And keep in mind, that though you may see no good reasons for keeping the practice, there are certainly no compelling reasons to change it either. I will stress again that there is NO REASON a customer needs to know your real name unless they are doing something wrong with it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    The main points that I've been trying to make... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Blah... Yadda... Yadda...
    FONDL,

    Christ dude let it go! Do you think you weren't understood the fist seventy-two times you said it? You were understood and disagreed with. Jesus, no amount of reiteration is going to convince anyone to come over to your side. Sure, you know girls who give you what may or may not be their "real" names, big fugging deal! If that's the case then those girls were always on your side to begin with. You aren't convincing anyone, in case you hadn't noticed. Why reword the same shit over and over?

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    Madcap, I'm only repeating myself because others keep misinterpreting what I've been trying to say. For example, in spite of the many criticisms that I'm telling others what to do, that's not what I meant to say. The original post complained that a girl is tired of being asked her real name. I tried to point out that one way to avoid the problem is to volunteer the informaton, which in my experience is what many girls do. And I personally find that to be a polite thing to do, just like would happen if we were somewhere else. If some of you don't agree, don't do it. I'll be spending my money on the girls who agree.

    And if I may slip a little off topic for a minute I'd like to respond to Bridgette's comments about being out with her grandparents and running into a rude customer. I frankly think this raises a much more interesting topic than the one we've been discussing. If you're not at all spiritual, please stop reading now because you will find the rest of this post to be total nonsense (much like many of you seem to have found my previous ones to be.) Let me just say that I don't believe in coincidences, I believe that everything happens for a reason. And in my opinion what happened to Bridgette was a sign for her, which could have meant many different things but just might have been a message that she should get out of dancing and go do something else. Bridgette, I'm guessing that you've had other similar signs and that you will continue to have them (like maybe this post for example) until you take whatever actions that the signs are meant to convey. That's what usually happens when we get signs that we ignore or don't recognize as such, they keep coming our way and usually keep getting stronger til we can no longer ignore them. Anyway, Bridgette, thanks for sharing, I thought your post was the most interesting one on this thread. Which maybe isn't saying a whole lot.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    And in my opinion what happened to Bridgette was a sign for her, which could have meant many different things but just might have been a message that she should get out of dancing and go do something else. Bridgette, I'm guessing that you've had other similar signs and that you will continue to have them (like maybe this post for example) until you take whatever actions that the signs are meant to convey. That's what usually happens when we get signs that we ignore or don't recognize as such, they keep coming our way and usually keep getting stronger til we can no longer ignore them.
    Well, I consider myself spiritual, but this thread is now entering the Twilight Zone.


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    Oh, boy. Pass the popcorn, Doc. I can't wait till B responds to that...

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    LOL! Nah, I just took that incident as a sign that guy was a stupid jerk. No more no less. After talking to other girls who've survived this business to retire, I learned that the only sign I need to know it's time to quit is when I wake up one day and just don't want to do it anymore. No more no less.

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    Just make sure you don't wake up that way until at least the end of next March.


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    Heee, I have a feeling it'll be longer than that

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    I personally don't mind giving my first name when a customer asks. It makes them feel like you have a more "special" bond. After they ask and I give it to them, I always follow up with, "But if you call me that here no one will know who you are talking about, because we all call each other by our dancer names." And that normally gets a laugh out of them and puts them at ease. But if you don't want to give out your real first name, then just make up one. But make sure you keep the same "fake real name," just in case you run into the same customer later on and don't remember him.

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    makes me feel like i'm trusted. i don't know their full names but first names.

    i won't those names unless no one is in earshot. which isn't very often.

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    Honestly, i generally couldn't care less what he real name is. "Star" is fine with me.

    The closest i came to asking this was asking a dancer what other stage names she had, remind me never to do that again BTW (This chick must have rattled off about 40, i remember being floored).

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