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    A customer DOESN'T treat you like a sexual object?

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    I think, finally, someone who wont be all grabby in a LD and who would be a pleasure to dance for.

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    I still try to take his money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Underestimated
    I still try to take his money.
    You softy, you.

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    Hmmm i would have to say he is either very polite or not into me....Go figure.

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    I would think hes trying to be respectful or polite to me. I can always tell him better when we go for a dance. Mr. I want to be nice and not grab you guy.......is always welcomed.
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    If he is paying me...I don't care if he likes me or not. It makes my job easier when they don't cause they are less grabby
    If it's not paying...Do stripper heels leave smoke trails when they run off to a better paying customer?
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    I meant he...not it's....sorry guys
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    I welcome the guy who doesn't treat me like a sexual object. Sometimes they turn into him though after a few shots of tequila.

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    take his money ALL of it......

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    I enjoy every moment with the person. I have more respect for them too. I'd be less likely to try to weasel out every red cent from folks like that. Not that I really dig for the gold in general, but yanno...
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    it's gotten so bad they've starts giving me permission to treat them like that.

    sadly it's not something i like doing.

    i responsed "just because your a dancer doesn't give me to right to treat you like dirt" then i followed it with "but i know i'm in the very small minority"

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    A customer DOESN'T treat you like a sexual object?
    No matter what they say, the only thing women hate more than being a sexual object is NOT being a sexual object.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gendai73
    A customer DOESN'T treat you like a sexual object?
    I know dancers well enough to differentiate fantasy from reality. I always tell them that I regard it as a bit of light-hearted fun. If I have a private dance I tell them that they have a nice body, that I will be duly appreciative of the view, and please show themselves off to their best advantage, but I won't be taking it 100% seriously.

    I also tell them that I'm not too fussed about physical contact, so if they want to do an air dance, that's fine with me. Finally, I let them know that I keep my hands to myself, don't make crude remarks and won't be after their phone number. The usual response to all this is "thank God for that".

    The result is often a really relaxed dancer and an enjoyable few minutes.

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    I, frankly, think that being objectified is what makes us have jobs. And, if they're upfront about it, I think it makes the whole business a lot less complicated. It's the guys that try and pretend that they AREN'T objectifying me that piss me off. THEY'RE the slimy sleezeballs that I want to spit on... Full of slick come-on lines and bullshit. But then, if a guy genuinely IS into ME... my mind, who I am... it makes me uncomfortable. Too personal. Crosses a line somewhere, I'm nervous dancing for them... feels like I'm taking advantage of their feelings... (and YES, I'm convinced that some of my customers have developed REAL feelings for ME and not my body, dumb as that sounds...) Course I still take their money, naturally, but perhaps not as often if there is somewhere I can make the money quicker and with less complication. I tend to want to run when a customer gets personal.

    TOTALLY cool with being a sexual object. I knew exactly what I was getting into.

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    To be perfectly honest, yeah, i look at strippers like sex objects. I look and get hot under the collar, and i only go for the ones i am attracted to. How is that NOT treating someone like a sex object?

    That doesn't mean i get all handsy, and it doesn't mean i start with the tongue shit. My fingers stay outside the anatomy, and i don't talk shit to them (I don't even talk dirty, to be honest i'd feel like an idiot doing that because it's usually meant to turn someone on).

    Looking at someone like a sex object does not automatically mean treating someone in a disrespectful manner. The one doesn't always have to lead into the other. I mean, i look at Pam Anderson like a sex object, but if i met her i don't think i'd be grabbing at her tits, thank you very much.

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