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    When going to a club where I have a favorite dancer, I often sit and spend a lot of time (and money) on her to the exclusion of the other girls. I am not rude to the others and I tip when it is proper. When my ATF is not there or otherwise occupied I will get dances with other ladies. But I was wondering how the other dancers feel about a custy giving his all to one girl?

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    Us dancers recognize when a customer has an atf. We catch on pretty quickly that when they are not there, you will get dances. It doesn't bother me, I really don't like having regulars so once in awhile is cool.

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    I know i'm in the same boat with ya. told a dancer last week that "i'm a one dancer customer" and she looked at me like i was from mars.

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    I make it easy. I only go in when I know my ATF is going to be there, and if for some reason she isn't there, I walk out.
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    If a customer is someone's regular, they really shouldnt hang out at the club when she isnt there if they dont want attention from any other dancer. Common sense. If you arent there, no one gets their proverbial toes stepped on...
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    I read a book on sales once where the guy said a good goal to have for attracting new customers is to be #2 on their list. So the way I look at it, eventually she won't be your ATF anymore. She'll move one, you'll get tired of her, whatever. That will be my chance. Now, I'm not gonna try and steal you from her, but I say, sure, come one in, get a couple of dances from me when she's not there.
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    Destiny - I think you've got it right. My situation is a little different from cherryholic's. I go to a sc where, if she's in demand, there's virtually no opportunity for a girl to just sit and talk with a customer, even if he's a regular. I could monopolize her dance time for the evening, but that's not financially doable (or welcome -- she needs to dance with other guys to keep her customer base). So the alternative is either to gaze at the women dancing on stage all night, or dance with others than my atf. I chose the latter route. All the other women I dance with know that I'm not first on their list, and they're cool with it (and I do have a sort of "second rung") (as I rapidly go broke ). And some of the other girls I dance with - with one or two of them, or three, sometimes when my atf isn't there I go just to see them. And my atf appreciates that I dance with other girls too, so to her I don't seem totally obsessed. The end result is my atf is still my atf, and she knows it, and the other great women whom I've gotten to know understand that even though they're not first on my list, I still enjoy being with them and think they're wonderful people. And who knows what may happen down the road.

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    If one woman is good, two is an improvement, three is better, four is great, five + I hope you have stamina.

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    I disagree kat
    one is ideal.
    2 is asking for trouble.
    3 you have no money.

    i don't wanna be a mormon regular.

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    Perhaps for those of you men who do not possess spines, then that would be just fine for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    If one woman is good, two is an improvement, three is better, four is great, five + I hope you have stamina.

    The SC is your buffet off ass, enjoy all of the dishes, don't just eat the same one!!!
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    I don't minc regulars as long as they tell me straight up that they are waiting on someone, it's an insult to talk for a while, then ask for a dance only to be told that he's waiting for someone else. Why a guy would do that is beyond me, and it isn't because he doesn't like me, it really is the truth!
    Some regs are good for a drink and a breather, their girls are either making their rounds or busy so I will sit with him while he waits for her so I can check out the room.
    I think regulars are great for other girls if only that they take up their time and leave more money for me.
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    Most of us understand when someone has an ATF. I don't understand why it would bother some girls. I mean all off us are at least one customer's ATF, so I am always polite when encountering a customer who I know has an ATF, and just off a brief, "Hello, how are you doing? You two have a great time tonight!" and move on.

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    I do not believe in loyalty to any one dancer as I like variety plus I am looking for gals for otc activities. If I am doing a gal otc I will not take dances from other gals at that club or be coming to that club anyhow. I don't really like when one dancer tries to hog me blocking opportunities with the other gals especially if she is not one for private sessions otc. Unless she is giving me closer dances or discounts I mite try to blow her off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cherryholic
    When going to a club where I have a favorite dancer, I often sit and spend a lot of time (and money) on her to the exclusion of the other girls. I am not rude to the others and I tip when it is proper. When my ATF is not there or otherwise occupied I will get dances with other ladies. But I was wondering how the other dancers feel about a custy giving his all to one girl?

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    It's pretty common. As long as you are tipping others when it is appropriate then I can't see why anyone would have a problem with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Derek
    I do not believe in loyalty to any one dancer as I like variety plus I am looking for gals for otc activities. If I am doing a gal otc I will not take dances from other gals at that club or be coming to that club anyhow. I don't really like when one dancer tries to hog me blocking opportunities with the other gals especially if she is not one for private sessions otc. Unless she is giving me closer dances or discounts I mite try to blow her off.
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    Nah, he's is just telling tall tales. I think he feels that if he says he is getting otc all the that somehow it will actually start coming true.

    Real players don't advertise or brag about their activites at every turn. A real players don't waste time trying to pull girls from the clubs, they call escorts.

    Plus there is the whole "mite" factor, LOL !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Derek
    I do not believe in loyalty to any one dancer as I like variety plus I am looking for gals for otc activities. If I am doing a gal otc I will not take dances from other gals at that club or be coming to that club anyhow. I don't really like when one dancer tries to hog me blocking opportunities with the other gals especially if she is not one for private sessions otc. Unless she is giving me closer dances or discounts I mite try to blow her off.
    WTF... What kind of OTC activities are you looking for? Wouldn't it be cheaper to call a service? As I assume thats what your talking about...

    Anyway... I don't see too many dancers hogging customers with no money (at least $ being given out) I would think that would only be true if you are spending $$$$$... Hmmmm... So lets see...
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    I started to actually go to a club enough to be a regular recently.

    I'm not the best looking guy in the world, or so I feel <not digging for compliments> but I'm not used to being approached, which is why the initial approach just puts butterflies in my stomach. Silly, I know, but I love it when a girl comes to me, and no matter what, even still, I like to get to know people, and being personable makes girls want to stay and chit chat, even while I'm waiting on my fav.

    Generally this club is, by description, just a bar. I mean the girls are required to do 0 hustle, which means they almost all go for the more GFE than anything else, which is really attractive. And while sitting there, its not odd for a girl to approach and sit for 20+ minutes and not even ask for a dance. Which is more my speed cause I like the interaction as much as the dances when I'm in the right mood. And I got to talk to a very interesting dancer. We'll call her Miss C since I don't remember her 'stage name' just her real one. But still when my ATF showed up, I made sure that I tipped her for her time and anytime she spent with me. I mean c'mon she's a fox, she COULDA been making money, but she was talking to this toolshed :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine
    If one woman is good, two is an improvement, three is better, four is great, five + I hope you have stamina.

    The SC is your buffet off ass, enjoy all of the dishes, don't just eat the same one!!!
    I agree 100% Kat - I like variety and enjoying different SC gals is a lot of fun. Sure smoe of them get hacked (when they think I should be their regular) but I like to move around and enjoy all the different cusine.

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    I have a favorite dancer. She knows she's my ATF. She spoils me when I'm there, and vice versa. I also have other girls there that I chat with when she's busy with other custies, and occasionally I need a change of pace. My fave is, and will always be my fave; but, I still get dances from, and am close to other dancers. They know she's my ATF, and won't mess with her business when she's around me. They respect that, and in turn, I respect them right back (i the form of $). They know I'm just there to relax and have fun, and they have fun doing their job, so there's no need for any drama. Plus, I'm just a customer, it'd be silly to consider it anything more than it is.
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    When I find a girl who I really like and who treats me the way I like to be treated, I stick with her for a long time. When I visit my current favorite, I call her in advance to find out when she's working, I tell her when I'll be there, I arrive when I say I will, she's there waiting for me, we spend a couple of hours together, then I leave. I just find clubs to be more fun that way. I enjoy getting to know one girl really well, it makes both the conversation and the intimacy more fun.
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    I know of a dancer whose regular is completely loyal, but they do meet outside the club, she will be his girl for the day, NO SEX, but they have been friends for years and I think he prefers this than to having a steady girlfriend. She did "share" him with a few girls, but they borrowed money from him and then got in trouble with drugs only to borrow more. Now he just sticks with her, he and I are cool and he will get the specials from me if she is busy, but that's it.
    I understand his view point as well as hers, he was burned and she almost lost him because of it. I am only "allowed" to get a few because I am honestly not out to get her or him and I don't even borrow money from my parents.
    It's a tricky situation,come guys move on to a new fave and some jsut stick with their old time, do what you want!
    But, be up front and don't intentionally waste our time when you know before hand that you wont' be spending money on us.
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    It always amuses me on the site as to how many guys claim theyre either dating dancers or doing OTC activities. And these guys always seem to be quite pompous and trashing customers.

    Its great entertainment reading posts from these guys.
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    I seem to be following you amy.

    My fav is a dancer that makes me feel like king shit of turd hill inside the club. Thats why I'm there. I have yet to meet a dancer outside the club, but then again I'd be intimidated by the potential change in persona. If it happens, it happens. I'm not a SEX HOUND. I think... I'll get back on that. But I >like< to treat a girl with respect and get an equivelant return fake or not. Thats worth money to me.
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