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    Default I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    Hey everyone!

    I started at this new club last week, worked 3 days, was cool at first until i got to know the place more. I don't want to get all into but...

    I want to quit, I wanted to quit in the middle of the day but I didn't want to give up on myself... I wanted to prove that i can depend on myself and not run away. I got off at the end of my shift. I'm so proud! of me!!! Even though it wasn't a good experience, i never knew i got so much courage.

    Anyways, Now I JUST WANT TO QUIT! I called one of the girl (dancer) the coolest girl ever and told her i wanted to quit and she told me if i quit i still have to work the next two weeks, but the thing is i know she adores me so i don't know what she saying is true. There was also another girl who was there for a long time quit too.

    I want to know have you guys ever just quit at your job, any advice, will i get in trouble? thanks!

    I can't stand there for another 2 weeks

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    Just quit. If you didnt sign any kind of contract, I dont think you are under any obligation. Girls come and go all the time, so they shouldnt care whether or not you leave. Just make sure you have another place to work if you want.

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    i don't think any contract was made, they did photocopy my id, sign a few paper about me understanding the club table dance rules

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    I once worked at an awful club. It was so dead and I had to work 6 days a week mandatory. Plus the management was terrible. Eventually I just got tired of it and up and left. They were assholes to me so I felt no guilt about not giving an explanation.

    Quitting doesn't necessarily mean defeat if the environment is making you miserable. If the place isn't right for you, it just isn't.

    If all the club owners know eachother and it's a small community it may affect your future employment if you just quit. Think it over and decide the best way to leave, but if you're really unhappy don't think twice about quitting.

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    if there is a schedule at your club, then protocol usually dictates you finish the schedule...but even THAT's rare in this industry.

    If it's that bad and you don't want to go in anymore I would just call the manager and say, hey look I just want to give you a head's up, this isn't working out for me so I won't be back.

    Or just don't go back. It's really not a big deal.


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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    You aren't even an employee - a 2 week notice isn't needed at all. You can leave whenever you want. Just like they could fire you whenever they want. It's just a matter of how much notice you want to give. At my club we do schedules a week at a time, so I would simply finish out my week, BUT if I hated the club then I wouldn't give any notice, I'd just tell whoever was in charge that day that I wasn't coming back. Don't be nervous, quitting a bad job is a very good thing.
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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    This business is not like an office job. If you don't like it there, don't go back.

    Why is the club so horrible?

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    Yea, I just left my last club I was at. POOF...gone. I dont like it there...they took too much money. The amount I was spending to work (ie fees, dance fees, tip outs) wasnt worth the potential of the money coming in. I measured myself against some of the veterans there and I was doing about the same if not like 100-50 difference near where the middle girls where. Like 80% percentile I guess.

    Just not worth it. I can deal with BS but sheesh!!

    If you dont like just dont go back. Besides its not like youre going to put down exotic dancer at such n such on a resume??? LOL
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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    Heheh, I posted about this awhile ago when I quit /my/ crappy club. Just quit! I finished up whatever schedule I had, but you don't /have/ to. Giving notice is appreciated, as is not quitting in the middle of a shift, but it isn't mandatory and you can't get into trouble for it.
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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    Sounds like that club is really tough to work in,but what happened there to make you feel this way?If you can't bear being there at all,just walk out,just like that.Although I wouldn't necessarily do it without having another plan.Also,it's not very good to burn bridges,because,who knows,maybe you'll want to come back and work there one day.Maybe you can somehow compromise.

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    Quote Originally Posted by Evil_Hippo
    I can't stand there for another 2 weeks
    just my two doubloons,,,

    Nuff said.

    If your not comfotable there,dont ever go back.
    Always trust your gut.

    If you want to be cool about it,call the place and tell them that you wont be back,at least give them the chance to fill your spot.

    You never know,the thing that causes you to feel this way might change at that club in the future and you might want to come back.
    Not good to burn a bridge when all it takes is a phone call.

    My vote,
    dont ever go back,but call.

    best of luck

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    I agree...if you don't like it, just don't go back. Life's too short to work at a place that makes you miserable. There are plenty of other clubs to work at.

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    Default Re: I'm not givin up! I just want to quit!

    Just don't go again. Or call and let them know that you don't want to be there anymore and to remove you from the schedule. Maybe you should just switch clubs. Aren't you in NorCal?

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