If so, Im just curious why![]()
If so, Im just curious why![]()
No seriously, I dont know if there are any out there, Im just curious what reasons people have if they are against them or dont like them, ect.
You mean like dancers who don't like them or more of a customer reaction? I had a guy last night tell me NOT to get implants (I will anyway) because the natural look is slowly dissapearing. Frankly, I'll be happy to say goodbye to my smallish, deflated looking, saggy boobies.
If everything you try is a sure thing, you aren't taking enough risks. If you never fail, you put a limit on the degree to which you can succeed. In short, the only way to win big is to risk losing
Had you asked me this question 2 days ago, I'd have said I wasn't a fan of BA. But the woman I dated Friday night had these stellar breasts (this I found out later in the evening) and when I couldn't stop marveling at them, she announced: "Of course they're perfect, they're fake." Best job I've ever seen. Period.
And so I've had to re-consider my position on this weighty subject.
LOL. Yes, Im asking in general, whether you are for or against breast implants. CE, you perv youI myself wouldnt get them unless I had a medical reason to get them, but Im not against others getting them ( I dont need them, hell Im a C and I think thats big enough for me)
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I have a friend who was flatter than a board. She got implants 4 years ago...and they are the most perfect looking breasts. They were done to perfectly complement her frame...you would never guess that she had implants.
I'll never tell anyone that they should or should not get implants. I will strongly advise that everyone who wants implants read up on the differences, the pros/cons, and make an informed decision. It IS a massively invasive surgery and complications can happen...but, as long as the person is making an informed decision...I think they should do whatever they want.![]()
Well honestly If I had to make the decision all over again I would not do it...no way, no how.
I got mine done about 10 years ago in my early 20s when it was a requirement for women to have implants to even see a night shift...clubs would even finance your jobs for you...things are very different now. The ratio of natural vs fake has changed dramatically.
I think in my 20s I was to young to make a life-altering decision like that. As I have grown older, I have gained self esteem and self confidence...I am comfortable with my body as it is, and feel strongly that people should except me as I am. It is also possible to dance these days without ever going under the knife.
The problem I never considered 10 years back was what I was going to do now, that is now that the implants need to replaced. One has shifted, some contracture is setting in, if I lose weight you can see rippling, etc.
I dont really want them anymore but that is hardly a choice considering the amount of reconstruction involved in the removal. So I have to go through the process all over again.
These are the reasons I orginally made the decision:
To look better, not be embarassed of my breasts:
OK somewhat worked out, now Im just embarassed that they are fake. I do not go for guys that generally like fake tits so its always an issue when they find out about mine. They question my integrity. Some think Im shallow. It sucks. They dont look or feel a bit real. So I guess that didnt really work out unless you think being cat called on the street and slimeballs hitting on you constantly because of your chest is a success.
To make more money at work:
yup, that worked.
To be able to wear more clothes:
Sounds silly but I really thought because I was flat chested I couldnt wear much....that backfired. Now I just cant wear much because I dont want to look like a bimbo.
Hmmm...looking back at my reasons, nothing really worked out the way I expected simply because I changed as a person. If that happens there is no going back, whats done is done...and that is what is dangerous with something like breast implants. They involve a lifetime commitment of upkeep and maintence that I think many overlook in the quest for "perfection"
There are even more drawbacks then the ones mentioned above....health risks? working out? That has proven difficult for me to seriously workout with implants...and many, many more.
I say if you have nice boobies, keep what your mama gave you and count your lucky stars. Nothing wrong with not looking like Pam Anderson....I now know that.![]()
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I like girls with small / smaller breasts so I'm not really a big fan of implants.
I personally wouldn't get them because I'm already rocking a natural 34 d on a 5'9 125 lbs frame and that's more than big enough for me.





Wow, I never heard of a club that had a requirement for girls to have implants before. What if a dancer had big natural boobs that were perky and looked nice? Would she still have to get implants?Originally Posted by shesupsidedown
No...but in no way could you be itty bitty...![]()
I have often thought that if a rational Fascist dictatorship were to exist, then it would choose the American system.
-Noam Chomsky
VG, does she perform locally? Can I suggest a field trip/treasure hunt?Originally Posted by VenusGoddess
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I really enjoyed your post..its true..i went from 125 pounds to 110...When I lost weight..the rippling was horrible. Its true..after a BA, youre going to have to (a wise move) always have $ on hand due to the fact that getting the BA is a lifelong commitment..At any point an implant could deflate, or they could drop so much that a lift is needed and that requires $ tucked away for that sole purpose..Right now my emergency boob fund is looking not so good. But thats just because I moved to Vegas. Getting a job outside of dancing here is very very tough..unless you can settle for a min wage job..which I cant..I wouldnt advise anyone to move here, which of course is what everyone told me before coming here. I have my reasons for being here which arent related to trying to cash in on Vegas..I dont know if I'll be able to stay here much longer. Nevertheless, I love my boobs..I jumped at the chance to get my boobs done at age 19...I got my done so early....They still look good, and I wouldnt go back to a 34A...I fill out my 34F rather nicely....![]()
Oh, I am, I am! I'm not advocating making them illegal, I just think that undergoing the risks of the surgery is a strange decision for something so cosmetic. I mean I think it's weird that women feel sexier after an operation that can actually sever some very important sexual nerves. For a dancer/porn star etc., it makes a certain amount of sense. I mean, they are doing it for money, which is at least concrete and quantifiable. The women who do it for some ephemeral sense of self-satisfaction really, really mystify me though.
Keep in mind that I am planning to be lipoed for a performance art piece - I am actually kind of terrified of it, and I would never do it just to look better.
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
i like mine, i say live and let live !![]()
i have always been more visually attracted to implants (tastefully done!!) except for a few friends who have gorgeous naturals. one of my friends (who knows who she is!) has the cutest roundest bounciest C's i have ever seen ! unfortunately i was not so lucky and had 2 that were downright ugly. a simple 250 cc's fixed that and balanced out my whole frame. then again i have another friend who got 325 overs and they look like balls in socks. she went to a dr who is always offering discounts, etc. so i guess that's why.
eh why not ? women who don't dance wear makeup don't they, they workout, etc. nothing wrong with a little improvement if that's what they see fit. just because a woman doesn't make money off her appearance doesn't mean she doesn't deserve to feel as sexy as she possibly can. if that means getting implants, secretaries, janitors, doctors, whatever go for it !Originally Posted by Jenny
I'm not against them, per se. I just think it's terribly sad that young girls/women are conditioned at an early age that they must have invasive surgery in order to be pretty and sexually attract men. I don't know how it can be a turn on for men, but I know many who confess that they prefer implants to the real thing. Nobody knows what real tits look like anymore. Thousands of years from know, archaelogists will be digging up our remains and saying "What the fuck are these bags on female skeletons' torsos?"
The important thing is that women who get implants realize that there are inherent risks involved and that implants are NOT permanent. Everyone who gets implants needs to set enough money aside for the eventual day of her explantation or redo as soon after her augmentation as possible.




I absolutely-positively love mine...
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I'm not against them, exactly, but think there are a lot of reasons to think twice about getting them. We've all seen lots of bad jobs- I'd say 40-50% of the ones I see I'd call bad- and that's unnerving.
So true! Basically, I don't have to make that decision as long as my little babies point at the ceiling, but I've considered what I'll do after breast feeding etc...it'll depend on where I am in my life then, I guess.after a BA, youre going to have to (a wise move) always have $ on hand due to the fact that getting the BA is a lifelong commitment
But I can't get over the idea that it's irreversible...I'd be 75 and instead of having boobs (you can still have nice boobs at 75, esp. in my family!) I'd either have implants or empty boob sacs. I just don't know if I want to deal with that at 75! Plus if something went wrong could my body even handle it at that age?
I don't have any moral objectons to them, though.
Feature costumes for sale!
i'll prob. take mine out around 60 realistically.





I'm not against boob jobs, but my husband is. I love my breasts now, but who's to say how I'll feel in 15 years? Dissatisfied enough to want surgery? Maybe.
I think it's a supremely terrible idea to get them before the age of 25, though. Unless you have popped out three kids by then (another really bad idea), or had some pretty extreme weight swings, I can't imagine what in the world could possibly be wrong with your boobs. Women's bodies continue to change well past puberty and what looks good bolted on at 19 will look significantly different in a few short years.
Darlin' (and I got out that apostrophe just for you, since it says that you are southern), you can't possibly think that I meant women who aren't dancer don't deserve to feel sexy. On the off chance, you did - I mean to say that I think ALL women deserve to feel sexy without being invasively cut. And I did mention something I find to be a little ironic, which is that a surgery that can sever important sexual nerves is meant to make one feel "sexier" and that bags of saline are considered sexier than female flesh.Originally Posted by SthnrnGrl77
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
Well, I went from a 36DD to a 32B in a year and now my boobs look EMPTY. All the DD skin is there and ther's hardly anything in them. If I lay topless on my side the boob closest to the floor flattens out. YUK. The top section of my boobs is actually just pecs and ribs...so for me, the implants are kinda necessary. Thank god the blacklight helps! I am also 24 and have though for a long time about it.
The kind of implants that are hard for me to understand are the freakishly huge ones. They seem painful and disfiguring to a point (I mean the way society can look at you) and finding clothes seems difficult. But to each her own...for every guy who hates them, there are some who love 'em...
If everything you try is a sure thing, you aren't taking enough risks. If you never fail, you put a limit on the degree to which you can succeed. In short, the only way to win big is to risk losing
I think the new standard of proportion should be such: Doctor measures the circumfrence of your head, each implant shall be that size. I actually when a nice job is done that it is a wonderful thing. If the girl is a dancer then I guess she did it for performance art. Now the whole lipo for performance art just sounds retarded to me, just break down and say you want it for vanity...now say there were horrid complications and you died (for your art, ha ha), that would suck.
Ought there be a separate post on the logic/safety/desirability of MALE enhancement proceedures? Just a thought. (I'm not gonna start it--no way.)
I'm too scared I won't like the way they come out to get them but I think they look great on people when they are good ones. Unfortunately, a lot of them don't look great and that is what scares me away from wanting them.
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