Sooo--this guy doesn't know I'm a dancer; I planned on telling him in a few weeks, no biggie, just didn't feel like doing it until then. But he stood me up last night, and I'm trying not to get on my superior stripper pedastel, but wtf?
we're just dating...and what guy would screw with the good sex, and relationship-lite fun of dating moi?
He called four and a half hours after we were supposed to have dinner, and said he'd run into a friend, forgotten, and had started drinking.
Now-I'm only willing to give the guy another shot because he's never done anything remotely like this, but even if he was just a platonic friend, I'd be pissed off at the disregard for plans.
Also- it always seem like guys pull this shit...I haven't stood anyone up since high school, or probably even Junior High, but I have had at least three different guys in my dating history pull this. It wouldn't have been a problem if he'd called (since it's just casual dating, I'm serious about that--I would have just made other plans, like I ended up doing 1.5 hours after our date time) but I can't get that he "forgot"
Is he really that stupid or am I not as sexy anymore? (Keep in mind, my shrewish tone at the moment is only relegated to situations like now...most times I'm very chill and flexible with whatever comes up)
Guys and Girls out there...previous experiences? Am I losing my touch? Is that sexy stuff in our dating relationship fizzled out if the date slipped out of his mind until four hours later?



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