I've bene working at my club for three months and it's been fine so far. I work, I'm nice I go home. I'm a full time student and I have a day job so I'm only there 2-3 days a week anyways.
Everything was going well but then something snapped.
I don't talk to anyone about anyone. Like most clubs I think there is WAY too much drama and inter-connections, but like I said I'm new and I just mind my own buisiness so w/e.
There is this girl who has been there forever and seems to have ALOT of drama surronding her (judging by what other girls/bartenders/ etc say about her). She's dating one of the bouncers.
Yesterday I was sitting in the dressing room chaning and the bouncer/bf came in and accused me of telling people they were together to fuck with her. Refused to let me say anything threatened me and left.
I was really bad. Number 1) I don't talk about anyone to anyone. Even costumers who ask me about other dancers get either "Oh I'm too new here, I don't know anyone" or "I'm not sure, we could call her over and you can ask her." 2) SHE'S the one who is constantly telling costumers stuff about girls. i mean I don't tell any of the girls stuff I wouldn't want people to find out, but I'll hear her tell people where I live (city) or something and it's like... dude, if I want them to know I"ll tell them, you know. AND I've totally heard HER tell costumers that it was her bf when she wanted to piss them off or whatever.
Obviously there isn't much I can do, though it was totally unprofessional of the bouncer (it didn't affect his tip last night, but probably will in the future.) The club is closing so I'll be leaving anyways, but how do you guys deal with this? I didn't do ANYTHING and infact the cosutmer in question (who was pissed because the bouncher through him out because he was accused of touching the guys dancer gf) was like, oh yeah that's her bf and I totally went to bat for her and was like I don't think so, but w/e, it's just that you aren't allowed to touch any of us. So yeah...
I don't really feel comfortable working at a club where the bouncer is not only NOT watching out for me, but hates me... but I didn't do anything!
Also I mean, I know I can just chalk it up to karma, but how do you let stuff like that slide of your back, I mean I feel totally disrespected and that makes me want to DO something..... ah!
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