Hi everyone... I was just wondering if I could have some advice or perhaps see what ya'll think about this: I've been with my current boyfriend off and on (mainly on) for the last five years. I'm 23 and he just turned 24. Last week he started acting funny, not wanting me to stay with him, not wanting to talk to me when I called him, etc. He said he'd heard I was still talking to this guy I was with while we were broken up (the guy is in jail now and I haven't talked to him since my man and I got back together). He said one of my friends told him that. Anyway, so I got my belongings and went to stay at my aunt's house. Well a few days go by and he finally wants to talk. He's apologetic and very needy. So I go back. When doing his laundry one day, I was emptying his pockets and find a girl's phone number. I confront him, nicely, (cuz he flies off the handle over the smallest things) and asked him where it came from. He said it belonged to his roommate, who happens to be 16 and gets tons of calls from girls.. I said ok and tried to let it go... well a couple of days later the phone rings and he answers it. The person on the other line was obviously trying to carry on a conversation and my man just repeated "he's not here" then walked into another room, where I heard only silence and then I heard him hang up the phone.... hmm... well later that night he goes next door to borrow a movie for us to watch and the phone rings.. I see on the caller ID that the # is the same # I found in his pocket, so out of curiosity I answered the phone. The girl asked for my boyfriend.. so we proceed to have a conversation about how she knew him... she said she met him at her work, McDonald's, and that he'd asked for her number. She's only 16. She said he initially told her he was 19, but when she came to his house later (???!!!) he told her the truth; he was about to turn 24 in a couple of days. She said they hadn't slept together but she'd been to his house a few times. She even knew about the flowers I'd sent him for his Bday.... She said he told her I was his psycho ex-girlfriend, and she didn't know we were together still.. She also said that she'd talked to him earlier that day, but he said he wasn't there because I was there... When I approached him, he said she was initially "talking" to his 16 yr old roommate, but then she started trying to pursue him.. He'd told her to F... off , but she was being crazy and wouldn't leave him alone. He's since blocked all her phone #'s, as well as any private #'s that might try to call... Just wondering, what do ya'll think on this one? I'm having a real hard time believing him, but also having a hard time believing my grown man would be trying to court a 16 yr old girl!!! Please help!


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