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    Hi Everyone,
    I stumbled here looking for the right music to add to my bedroom. You all had great ideas.
    I have been working up the courage to dance for my husband (I can hardly do it for myself). You all are so brave.
    I bought Aerobic Striptease (Carmen Electra) and Exotic Dancing for the Everday Woman. Still not enough courage. Any suggestions.
    I hope you don't mind a non dancer (only at heart) in your forum.
    Thank you all.

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    I found that dancing for someone you care for and dancing for a stranger are completely different; it's much harder to dance for the former. You feel judged a little dancing for someone you know. Just remember you are sexy, lovely and a powerful woman able to control men with your thighs! :3 You are a queen and he is lucky to be getting a beautiful powerful dance from such a diva!

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    Thank you! That was so awesome of you. Maybe I will get the courage to post my photo for my avatar like I see so many others here do. I am not a small but a medium woman and don't yet have the body you all do that will take some courage too. But I am working on it.

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    I think it's harder to dance for someone you love than a stranger also. I like LilithMorrigan's response. Just get yourself all hyped up and have some wine. That should take the edge off.

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    hehe I am new to this sight and I am sooo glad to hear someone taking 'it home' We had an absolute blast when I finally did that. It was so fun. It did take a bit of time for me to get over the jittery beginng but let me tell you the look on his face was sooooo worth it. I have helped many wives learn for the same reason and the results are always fun. Good luck to you!!

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    I recently introduced my fiance to the concept of dancing for me and even got her to go to a club and get a dance for herself. I found the biggest way to make her comfortable was to constantly reinforce how beautiful and sexy I think she is. And not just when she's dancing for me, everyday type stuff. If she knows without a doubt that I think she is the most beautiful and sexiest woman in the world, then she will have no issues with almost anything.

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    wow, I still haven't gained the courage to dance for mine. I commend you if you do! Guess I could use some pointers as well.
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    I can totally relate because I first danced for my boyfriend and then eventually became a dancer. It was MUCH much harder dancing for him. For one, you don't have the same atmosphere, and you are more worried about what they think. Also so much ofdancing is in the guys head. Guys at strip clubs are conditioned to to be in awe, it's harder to achieve that with someone who smells your morning breathe!

    My advice would be adjust the lights. When I finally worked up the nerve I got red lights and good music. The lighting helped me feel more secure and according the S-factor compliments most figures and blends blemishes...

    Most of all do it for fun! For you it's not suppose to be work or a chore, so don't let it feel like it!

    Good luck!

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    You may want to surf on over to amazon.com and check out this handy
    little striptease guide called THE HOUSEWIFE'S GUIDE TO PRACTICAL STRIPTEASE.
    It is written by former stripper Miyoko Fujimoli. The book is only around
    60 pages long but it contains a ton of tips on dancing for your b/f, lover, or
    at a club. It costs about 5 dollars, I think. It is well worth it.
    Never Sit On What You Can Sell.

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