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    I live with my mom for now (until August) and I wanted to tell her I stripped so she'd know WHY I was gone every Fri-Sat until 2am.

    So I called her at work today to tell her and get it all off my chest.

    She was SOOOOOOOOO understanding!! She said she wasn't against being a stripper at all, that she was just worried I wouldn't be safe! I told her my club was the BEST at stripper-safety and she was happy. She said she was happy just because I was so honest and was telling her the truth.

    I was sooo scared. One girl at my work's family said to me that her family disowned her for this. I was so scared my mom would.

    So all in all, telling my family about my job was a good thing. I think my mom understands and respects my decision. She even wants me to show her my gowns!

    Alright, I'm done talking. Thanks for letting me get it out.

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    That's awesome! I'm so glad she was that supportive. Sounds like you have a great mom.

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    Huntington Beach.... are there good clubs in Orange County? I've lived in So Cal all my life but have only gone to clubs a few times, and always in Vegas. I'm moving to Huntington Beach next year..... living about an hour away from Orange County now. It would be cool if there was someplace cool to relax and unwind after a hard day at work. I've heard good things about Imperial Theater.......

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    My parents would kill me if they knew what I do!

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    i dunno. i think my mom would be ehh allright with it, she would just worry a lot. I know she used to bartend at go go bars until she remarried, but i think back in the day she definitely dancecd so she has to know what its like. and she has to suspect it. along with my bf.

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    Yup, that was my grandmothers reaction too. She came from a strict catholic/jewish (odd, I know!) family in Britain, so I was surprised she was so understanding. Well, she's been atheist for YEARS anyways, so I doubt religion would of been an issue anyway.
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    I'm glad she was supportive. It makes all the difference!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mspussykatus
    My parents would kill me if they knew what I do!
    Same here! I hate not being open and honest with them but if you met my parents I'm sure you'd understand lol

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    That's so awesome!

    Yeah, my parents would be very upset if they knew . I hate hiding it. But the other option is worse.

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    I've posted about this in Ladies Only ("Is what I'm doing immoral?"). Unfortunately for me.. it was plain and utterly useless for me to "come out" with it all to them as they have made it quite plain and clear that they think it is immoral and don't want to hear about any of it. I was told this via email last month after I had been "out" with them about it all for MONTHS. I didn't tell them details just that I am now dancing at this club and this is how they treat the dancers etc etc... now they don't want to hear anything of it.

    I still do feel about it. I personally feel that they aren't supporting me even tho' I am doing everything else right (no drugs, hardly ever drink, am legit/run my own business as that is what this is... and so forth).

    Count your blessings. Not all of us have had pleasant experiences with being open and honest with "the folks". (... and here I am thinking they would appreciate me being open and honest with them over lying to them... they preferred the lying instead!)


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    I'm so sorry about your experiences, GoldCOastGirl. That makes me so sad your parents called you names and made you feel so bad.

    Adrenaline = Come to Ecstacy in Santa Ana! Only 5 miles from HB! I work Sat-Mon nights!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    I'm so sorry about your experiences, GoldCOastGirl. That makes me so sad your parents called you names and made you feel so bad.

    Adrenaline = Come to Ecstacy in Santa Ana! Only 5 miles from HB! I work Sat-Mon nights!
    LOL! I don't know much about local clubs, but I do know that Ecstacy has a reputation for being only for guys with more money than they know what to do with I can't roll like that until I knock off the remainder of my med school loans!

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