I never had a problem in the year I've been dancing, even guys that would try not stick to my boundries I could usually scold back into line appropriately. I now totally understand how some of you girls were in so much shock when sexually harassed by a customer, and I retract any of my hardassed comments from before.
This slightly drunk guy bought my most expensive show, and as soon as we got in the room he starts trying to kiss me and grab my crotch. I still had control of the situation and pushed him away while explaining all the rules. I tried to finish the dance, but he just kept trying to grab me. He then pulled out his cock and actually touched my butt cheek with it, and I freaked and told him to get himself off. I stalked out, curtain closed, with him yelling after me to come back.
I should have gotten a manager to throw him out immediately, but I was in such shock that I bolted straight to the dressing room. I told a couple of girls I was frazzled since I just had to walk out on a show but nothing else. I just sat there for fifteen minutes drinking water before I felt confident enough to go back down and face the customers and possibly that guy. I ran into one of his friends and the guy starts yelling loudly that I said I would have sex with him and didn't - where is his money? I stood my ground, told him I would never promised sex, and would he like to take it up with my manager? He obviously didn't want to be kicked out and was all like, just keep my money.
I was about to get my manager, but another customer came up and politely grabbed my waist, asking for a show. He felt he was saving me and mentioned that the guy had been trying to start fights with the other customers. About forty minutes after this happened, I finally spoke to my manager about it, and the party the guy was with was leaving anyway. Their bachelor apologized for the guy but was still asking for the money back. I thanked him for his respect but told him to take it up with the manager. Asshole tax, as far as I'm concerned, since he violated me and deserved what he got.
I was just so grateful the club was so supportive. My manager told me that next time I should grab him immediately so it could be taken care of. Thanks for reading my rant ::hugs:::



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I can laugh about it now however at the time I asked to go home early as it really f--ked with me. I was in tears and physically dry wretching (never vomitted... just that the incident replay-ed over in my head I would react that way).
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