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    How to tell them nicely its over

    i have just recently started dancing a few weeks ago yet there is one little thing i still feel a bit akward about, finishing off a private dance, what is a great finish? One of the girls at my club just tells the customer 'there you go' and escorts them out back into the main part of the club.
    Ive tried a few different things and just nothing quite feels right to let the customer know its finished. Please help me im scared ill just keep dancing because i dont know what to say

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    Default Re: How to tell them nicely its over

    Why does it have to be over?

    Why not lean in and wisper into his ear somethig like, "Wow that was fun, would you like me to continue?"

    Just make sure he understands he's paying for another dance.

    Otherwise a simple "thank you" as you stand up to collect your tip and get redressed should do. Walking a customer back to his seat or to the door is a nice touch as well.
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    Avoid making the customer feel like he's just an ATM, even though most dancers think most customers are just that--ATM's spitting money. "Well, bye. I've got to make more money." "See you later." "You're too small where it counts." These are just some exit lines I've heard instead of "Thank you" "Would you like another." " Should we stop now."
    It's all about mutual respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitty-kat-charli
    i have just recently started dancing a few weeks ago yet there is one little thing i still feel a bit akward about, finishing off a private dance, what is a great finish? One of the girls at my club just tells the customer 'there you go' and escorts them out back into the main part of the club.
    Ive tried a few different things and just nothing quite feels right to let the customer know its finished. Please help me im scared ill just keep dancing because i dont know what to say
    Remember that most of us custy's have our illusions about what dancer's actually think about what they're doing - and it's best to leave those illusions intact. Most guy's like to think that:

    (a) You like us a little.
    (b) you might have got a little personal fun out of what you're doing.

    Any exit lines should keep the above in mind. As the current track fades to a close, try telling him that:

    (a) The club has rules on the length of private dances so as much as you'd like to keep on dancing for him, you'll get in trouble with management if you dance for another track.
    (b) He's a really nice guy and dancing for him has been a pleasure - unlike some of your other customers.

    That way you've ended the dance when you want, and in a way that strokes your customers ego. He knows you'd like to keep on dancing for him, but rotten management stopped it, and that you loved dancing for him, unlike the guy before and the guy after.

    Hey presto, one happy customer, and you're off for your next private dance. (Keeping of course your real thoughts to yourself.)

    Phil.

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    Default Re: How to tell them nicely its over

    Nothing like the disappearing smile, that "see ya, sucker" look, and the race to the door to make me feel my money's been well spent. And, I always go back to those girls.

    Actually, a nice hug, combined with a "I've got to get back to work, now." (because her time with me, money aside, wasn't really work). "Come back and see me" or "I'll see you next time.", or some such thing helps to keep a little spark in the delusion.
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    I have always ended my dances with a big smile, a hug, or a handshake. After all, this is my job, to make the customer feel good. There have been cases, when I would, ah, better not to say, but done it for customers I did not feel good about. With the variety of people that comes in and goes out of bars night in and night out, it is difficult to maintain a professional attitude (some people are just plain "yucky"). There have been difficult cases, but there would no point in recounting that here.
    Basically, try to maintain a good attitude. At times this can be difficult (this depends on what mood you are in before reporting for work, what you ate before, etc. etc.).
    I never, never give them that "drop dead" smile when finishing. Why? Memories last a thousand years and you will never get their money again.

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    Default Re: How to tell them nicely its over

    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung
    Why does it have to be over?

    Why not lean in and wisper into his ear somethig like, "Wow that was fun, would you like me to continue?"
    Good sales technique. I wish I had remembered that during my dances. Next time though...next time







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