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    Ever had a customer come in with his girlfriend? I found the BEST way to hustle customers is, while onstage, get really close to the girl and let your hair fall around her face so it looks like you're kissing her. When offstage, I ask the man if he wants to buy his lady a dance because, "She'll be able to tell you all the stuff that happened when you two get home!" Ahhh man does a man love the idea of his girl getting a lap. It turns him on right quick!

    I gave a dance to a girl and told her, "Now you tell your boyfriend we made out and that you showed me your breasts." And she did! Ever since then that custy-boyfriend was my BEST friend and continued to moneyshower me on stage after that.

    Ever used a man's girlfriend to get your way? ^-^

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    Damn, that's some serious game for a gal who just started dancing. You're taking to this right off the bat, aren't you? Way to go! If you can be one of the dancers who can work the female customers and couples, you'll be tapping a market a lot of girls ignore.

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    With good reason. Who wants some female custy chasing you around, and more so if shes had some to drink. Screeching like a banshee to " keep your filthy whore hands off her man."

    Thanks no. I'd rather do without than get into all of that mess. If she can work it, more power to her. I do laps for women and will continue to do so if they request it, but because of the friction of the situation. Most of us simply ignore it.

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    You're absolutely right lilithmorgan!

    This approach has been advocated on some previous threads in the past, unfortunately the search function is down now, or I'd link some threads here for you. When search comes back up I'll post a few.

    For so many reasons, often times female customers and couples get ignored. However, if you're one who can target that group effectively, there is certainly money to be made and usually less competition.

    Watching my fave dancer work couples, targeting the girl is definitely the way to go! When my fave dancer approaches couples she always targets the female. Greets her, chats with her, flirts with her, gets the girl comfortable and in the mood. She won't hardley even acknowledge the guy. For now, he can just sit back and enjoy the show.

    She sells the girl and in turn sells the couple. If the girl is happy she'll typically make sure the guy takes care of the dancer. By focusing on the girl she helps to break down the barrier and the worry that she's trying to steal "her man" and helps to prevent the girl from getting defensive, which is more likely to happen when a dancer just comes over and focuses attention on the guy.

    There are many times, by using this approach, when you'll see the gf just give up her bf and order him to get a dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
    Damn, that's some serious game for a gal who just started dancing. You're taking to this right off the bat, aren't you? Way to go! If you can be one of the dancers who can work the female customers and couples, you'll be tapping a market a lot of girls ignore.

    Dam, that is some serious G-A-M-E! I wanna try that. Hey Susan, gimme a call later







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    At my club we don't allow drinking which makes jealous girlfriends waaaay cut down. Besides, when I was chatting this girl she was telling me about how beautiful she thought girls dancing was and how she never got a lapdance.

    One time some lesbians came in and NOBODY tried to hustle them, wtf? Even lesbians need a little laploving. I tried but they were leaving because they had been there an hour and no attention! My only problem is I don't know what to grind when I'm on them. Haha. I'll learn how to lap a girl soon.

    Thanks so much for the compliments! I'm trying really hard and read all the threads on hustling I could. I made $1200 my first week! Not great but not terrible either. My DJ was impressed on my first night how I just went out there and sold-sold-sold! He said most girls just try to watch and learn how to.

    Last night I had a goal of 8 dances ($50 a piece) and I made that goal in my first hour! All in all, I think I got this hustling thing pretty much down. Hopefully I'll do even better after I do DancerWealth's teleconfrence.

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    The best way, in my opinion, to dance for a woman is instead of "grinding" her, just move very seductively and slow. Take your tongue from the top of her breasts to the tip of her ear and once you get there, blow hot air in her ear, then slowly graze her face with the tip of your nose while keeping your eyes open and making constant eye contact. Also, while looking in her eyes, make sure you are gently rubbing her breasts throught her shirt. It works everytime!! She'll most likely end up leaving her man at the table and taking you back for a private dance. And if you do the above mentioned dance for the ladies on stage as opposed to at their table, you will have ASTONISHING results from the men who go up to the stage to get a closer look!!! CHA-CHING!!

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    I totally work the girlfriend/wife/etc scenario. Also, doing very seductive, very obvious dances for ANY female customers get the guys goin, often enough. I dont get many jealous/drunk/antisocial female problems, I tend to be able to weed them out based on their body behavior and expression.
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    Now that SEARCH is back....

    Here's a related thread for you!

    "Couples at the Club!"

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48848
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    Ooooo YAY!

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    $50 a dance, wow! I need to come work in YOUR club girl....I can teach you so many things grasshopper......

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    I think this is very interesting. When i auditioned at my new club, one of the floormen actually asked me how i felt about couples. He told me that most of the girls totally ignore the couples and he was always being asked BY the couples if he could send an entertainer over because no one would approach them.

    I LOVE couples! Always have. One of my best custy's was a couple taht got joint VIP dances. The couples are so fun and the women are always so complimentary! The women really make sure that you get paid WELL too. I remember this couple had me back in the VIP room at the VERY end of the night doing dance after dance. After her hubby paid me for the dances (150 bucks for 5), she noticed that i had stopped at the VIP floorman and handed him some money (30 for each dance= 10 for the house,20 for us) she stopped me as i was ont he way back to the dressing room and asked why i had to give him money. I explained the rules to her and she started waving to her husband to come over.

    She told him the deal and he handed her his wallet. She jerked a wad of money out of his wallet and handed it to me and said "Oh HELL no, you deserved EVERY bit of what we paid you so you take this to make up the difference. We had a GREAT time!"

    I just LOVE the couples!

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    I love going to clubs with my fiance! The girls usually only give me attention! It's great! I have more fun that him or my other friends with us ( guys and girls). I think it smart for the girls to keep coming over to us because we aren't going to approach them. It seems that once one girl comes over and we get some dances that the others won't leave us alone all night!! That's fine, though. I usually just direct them to my man and they always give him great dances!

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    I love girls and couples. I've never had the jealous gf or wife secnario. I think the trick to making sure that dosen't happen is focusing your attention on the female, like what Lilith is doing.

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    My gal friend went to a club for her birthday and had a blast! So I decided to give it a go. I went with another female friend to the Spearmint Rhino in Southern CA. We were ignored for two hours!!! I saw dancers chatting up the men to my left and my right, but they never ONCE said hello to us girls Sure, I could have called someone over, but after 45 minutes it became the principle of the matter to see if anyone would acknowledge us. We had 300 bucks burning a hole in our pocket (which is alot to a part time 19 year old). We would have given to the first girl that smiled at us. Anyhow, we packed up and tried another club that wound up not letting women in at all, regardless if they had a male escort or not. We went home with all of our cash and a not so fun time.

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    Spearment Rhino is sort of snotty. I had the distinct displeasure of working there for a very short time. Sorry your experience was so crappy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    One time some lesbians came in and NOBODY tried to hustle them, wtf? Even lesbians need a little laploving. I tried but they were leaving because they had been there an hour and no attention! My only problem is I don't know what to grind when I'm on them. Haha. I'll learn how to lap a girl soon.
    LOL this made me smile. Girl, all you have to do is dance on a lesbian the same way you dance for a man. For the stud like (masculine one) grind in her lap just like a man cause she (for lack of a better word) thinks she's the man. Well she is the dominant one..yea thats' a better word







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    Most women I've danced for (dance and lap dance) were the "butch" type. I don't mind being submissive to them, if that is what they want. Their money spends the same.
    It is mostly touching, touching, touching. And then some.

    On the couch, on the floor, kissing the thighs,near the crotch, the tits, and touch and finger, touch and finger, twist, twist, twist. More and more, and soon she's ready to go, go, GO under your fingers. Yeah, baby!
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    Just dance slowly and seductively for the girls. You don't have to touch a whole lot. It's more of a mindf*ck for us. I like when the dancers are slow and gentle and don't worry about just grinding me into my seat. With men you have to stimulate their little friend. With women you have to stimulate their mind. Just imagine how you'd like someone to dance for you.
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