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    Warming up..

    Does anyone ever have issues with warming up to complete strangers? This seems to be my only problem. Two of my friends seem to have it down perfectly; approaching the customer and immediately acting seductively, sexy, and acting like they really want him. I KNOW this works but it is soo hard for me to just do. Advice or tips?
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    Every dancer has her own style and not all of us try to play the sex kitten immediately. If you feel awkward doing so the customers will pick up on it. Instead of trying to imitate your friends' style, work on your own unique approach.
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    See, it wasn't that hard from me. I LIKE to talk to people. My first night dancing, I had alot of guys tell me that I was like a breath of fresh air because I seemed genuine. But I was actually just being myself. Just sit down, ask them how they are doing, make eyecontact then introduce yourself. Ask them their name. What brings them in here tonight? I don't know..for me the guys appreciated the fact that I wasn't hitting them up with the "wanna dance" line as so many newbies are taught to use just starting out.







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    This sounds really bad...however:

    I usually just use the first guy that I approach to "warm me up." I don't expect him to buy a lapdance, nor do I really expect to feel comfortable talking to him. After getting "warmed up" with the first guy, I usually am in "work mode."

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    Default Re: Warming up..

    Confidence is key here in my personal opinion. I say this as when I am confident ... "not afraid"... I can go up to anyone incl. women without any worry or fears. Other nights when my confidence isn't quite there.. it will take me awhile to be able to talk to strangers (or I might avoid doing it at all by being very very picky with who I speak with..).

    Confidence. Once you have that.. you will be able to do as your co-workers do.

    Oh yeah.. also the fear of rejection may or may not play a small part in it for you.

    Up until then, come up with a script for yourself. Use it when you aren't feeling confident to help you initiate conversation and carry it. A list of 'standard' questions you will ask.


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