clitoral orgasms

[thepoet]

It seens that when women get honest,(does that really happen?) They say most of their orgasms are clitoral not vagibal. and that most of the faked orgasms are during intercourse not cunniligus. Which do women prefer? And if it is cunniligus , why the emphasis on size?

[All Good Things]

Vagibal orgasms are vastly underappreciated. Only those with a slight plosive speech deficiency can even induce them. Sometimes a head cold works.

Dude. Kinsey and M&J answered those back when Nixon was still president (talk about a guy who desperately needed to get laid). If you want to strike up a conversation with the ladies on the blue side, you are going to have to do a far better job than this.

[sander8son]

If you want to strike up a conversation with the ladies on the blue side, you are going to have to do a far better job than this.

so the other day i skull fucked this broad while she held a lighter to my balls. the wetness of her mouth on my cock and the searing heat of the flame on my balls was such an incredible sensation, and one i soon wont forget. next time im gonna make her roomate bite my nipples while i cum. has anyone else every tried anything like this?

does something like that spark up a convo TOO, or am i too far fetched?


poet, to answer your question. speaking as a woman; some prefer tongue, some prefer dick. some hate one or the other, some love both. and it can vary depending on the mood of the individual at the time

[SportsWriter2]

Poet, you can learn from Sandy, the longest-running troll on SCJ and one who understands vagibal orgasms.

[sander8son]

the only orgasms i know anything about are the ones i give myself with my two hands. :-D

[thepoet]

Point of order "vaginal" not "vagibal"; which reminds me of vegetable

[thepoet]

Misspelling aside.what does it take to get an answer. Unfortunately I have not read Kinsey st.al. I thoufgt this forum was more conversational in nature and it was not necessary to reasrch the subject academically before posting. I was told I would be treated this way as a newbie.

[thepoet]

By the the way Sander8son for the answer. But I would still like other opinions

[yoda57us]

Misspelling aside.what does it take to get an answer. Unfortunately I have not read Kinsey st.al. I thoufgt this forum was more conversational in nature and it was not necessary to reasrch the subject academically before posting. I was told I would be treated this way as a newbie.

Patience Grasshoper. you've been here since yesterday. Contrary to what you may think, thousands of SCJ members are not cruising the site every second of every day waiting to respond to questions. If we did that, we would simply be accused of having no lives by the newbies that we flame. You asked a fair question, now let it sit for a while and see what people post. Chill.

BTW, If you exhibit this little patience in bed with a woman the answers you get will be irrelevant.

[mr_punk]

They say most of their orgasms are clitoral not vagibal. and that most of the faked orgasms are during intercourse not cunniligus.

uhhhh..women actually have orgasms? also what's a clitoris and cunniligus?

[Alexis1313]

Clitoral orgasms are the only ones I've ever had. Never been able to cum from intercourse. Gotta have the clit stimulation. And also.....never been able to get off with someone else. The only orgasms I've ever had were while I was playing all by myself.

As far as the whole preoccupation with size goes, I don't understand it myself. Because it seems like a lot of guys and girls that I've known were all about the length of the penis. Like a 12 incher is better than a 7 incher or something. Which (at least IMHO) is totally not true. As a matter of fact if I ever saw a 12" penis I'd run the other way and there'd be no way in hell the guy would get anywhere near me.

On the other hand the width/circumference of the penis is an area where I think that bigger is better. IF I were to ever fuck a man again my ideal penis size would be about 4" long and about 2-2 1/2" in diameter.

[SportsWriter2]

On the other hand the width/circumference of the penis is an area where I think that bigger is better. IF I were to ever fuck a man again my ideal penis size would be about 4" long and about 2-2 1/2" in diameter.

A 2.5" diameter is about a 7.8" circumference in a world where 6.2" is thick. But hey, that's why they make cone dildos that get wide before they get too deep.

[Malibu]

First of all, the women I know DON'T emphasise size. They emphasise experience, thoughtfulness and patience. If you are this impatient with the women you date the answers you get to your original question will be irrelevant.

I never really understood the size thing either, but I totally am with the experience, thoughtfulness and patience parts! As far as size is concerned, it's overrated and I think that train of thought (i.e. bigger is better) actually stems from pornos and is more of a male-obsession than a female requirement. If you think about it, a lot of men get their sexual ideas from porn, they all think women dig 12" cocks with 4" girth and like to get rammed up their assholes and vaginas with no lube or foreplay, that we are easily satisfied with 3 minutes of oral sex and cannot wait to get jizzed in the face. Puh-lease.

[Alexis1313]

SW2, That's a butt plug.

[SportsWriter2]

SW2, That's a butt plug.

Alexis, you know your toys. They're marketed as butt plugs, but go to ftvgirls.com, click on video samples, then on Mia. She does fingers, compact dildo, big cock dildo, and finally the cone dildo.

Same thing at alsscan.com and other porn sites.

[Alexis1313]

I'm not saying there's any rules against using it as a dildo, I was just pointing out the fact that technically it wasn't. And yes, I DO know my toys. Not only am I an experienced consumer of sex toys, but when I took time off from dancing I spent a good deal of time working as a sales clerk in an adult novelty and video store. LOL. I probably know more about sex toys than any one person ever should.

[SportsWriter2]

I probably know more about sex toys than any one person ever should.

You're good. I probably know more about misusing sex toys and hardware store parts than anyone should.

[Casual Observer]

What is this clitoris of which you speak?

And who is spreading rumors that women have orgasms? I thought that myth was put to rest fifty years ago?

[Katrine]

I'll take the biggest cock out there! It feels better and fuller during sex.

Most men can't give head to save their lives, I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.

I can have both types of orgasms but internal ones are MUCH more difficult. It hard for a man's penis to be able to properly rub the teeny tiny g-spot in the right way while they are having their fun. They just don't pay attention when the dick is all immersed in happiness.

Thank dog for various vibrators, which can be used during sex. Its efficient and guarantees everyone will get off!

[mr_punk]

I'll take the biggest cock out there! It feels better and fuller during sex.

oh, geez. there's no satisfying a woman....offer them three inches of hard blue steel and they want lexington steel.

I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.

how can you not want to lick, slap, bite, finger or give a rimjob to a woman who's bent over with her ass sticking out? then again, i'm an ass man.

[showgirlschloe]

Well shoot, I guess I'll be the one that brings up orgasms from anal sex. I experience orgasms from everything. I think it really depends on mood with me and not just the action. I've had an orgasm from my nipple being licked. So, everyone woman is different. Some women go their whole lives without having an orgasm which is just sad.

[showgirlschloe]

thousands of SCJ members are not cruising the site every second of every day waiting to respond to questions. If we did that, we would simply be accused of having no lives

Oh shoot, I'm guilty of this. I guess I don't have a life. I already knew that though.

[Katrine]

oh, geez. there's no satisfying a woman....offer them three inches of hard blue steel and they want lexington steel.

Mmmmmm, Lex......

oh, geez. there's no satisfying a woman....offer them three
how can you not want to lick, slap, bite, finger or give a rimjob to a woman who's bent over with her ass sticking out? then again, i'm an ass man.

Wow, we have somethig in common after all!

[yoda57us]

Most men can't give head to save their lives, I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.

You mean it normally isn't????

[All Good Things]

Most men can't give head to save their lives, I don't even like to receive it unless its part of an ass-liking.

Guys who are clueless on head are hopeless on ass, don't you think? Give me an hour to change your mind. I promise to flip you on the third O and finish you off.

I can have both types of orgasms but internal ones are MUCH more difficult. It hard for a man's penis to be able to properly rub the teeny tiny g-spot in the right way while they are having their fun.

Much more difficult, but insanely more intense. But let's give us guys a break. Until the penis becomes sufficiently articulated to pound out a Bach concerto on a grand piano, the angles will be all wrong for the g-spot. Better for us to use our other gifts and articulations and just focus on you. Hmmm, so following a Bach concerto, the g-spot mantra is something like this: Digits, muscles, angles, lifting, twisting, thrusting, pushing, holding, sweating, thrusting, holding, flipping, curling, contracting, pushing, lifting, holding, thrusting, contracting, gushing.

This has gotta beat a simple ass-licking any day.