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    Arent you excited?

    Heh.

    So I used to do the webcam wench thing on ifriends. I mostly did the Amateur Do Naughty Things To Myself deal, and some fetishy stuff, but that was with another girl. I was pondering doing either one of two things, or both... cause I'm not interested in going back to the super explicit stuff.

    1) Get myself one of those At Home Stripper Poles and doing live strip shows. Topless only. Probably wont generate a TON of money but I might get a bit for being a niche thing.

    2) Webcam Domination. I dont know much about how to do that, since the submissive isnt THERE, but I've seen a lot of women do it. None of them seemed to want to share their trade secrets though. What would I do really? Show off my feet to the foot fetish guys? Type/talk dirty with a BDSM theme?

    Has anyone done either or know someone who has who can give me some pointers?
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    You bet Paige i have done both. In my old home i had a pole. I used to build my profile around the pole amoung many other things i would do. The pole i had a problem, my webcam was very good quality for about 6 months than it fell, anyway the problem was you have to tell them you will zoom in and they can watch. My problem, at the time we did not have chat, you can actually hear the person tell you what to do. So i would look over and see him typing to me, i would have to stop and respond. Then chat, wel most people have suckes microphones that tried to talk to me, so again being of distance it just wasn't working too well. I went all nude. Seriously it was not enough, maybe just for a start, thne they always wanted to see pussy, masturbation etc.

    Of course you will hit alot of guys with a foot fetish...shit these guys are my bread and butter with phone sex and when i did cam. Alot will beg, "just show me you're feet'! "Wiggle you're toes!" Shit like that. Well that is all they need to get off...really.

    For any guy who has a fetish i will only ONCE give a quick peek of the body part. Say boobs, i would have them covered but show the cleaveage, and that yes i had boobs, then i would say that's it, we have to go private, and i dolled it up for him, i was real big with nipple clamps with a chain to pull on them for him!

    Also in bold letters in my profile i put "BEGGERS WILL GET THE BOOT." And i meant it. Now many sites have an area you can go into for only paying members anyway, but they too may beg as you know.

    I am not a sub. either, but playing one on cam does not feel so. It all boils down to they ask you give they pay....So we have the control anyway!!

    I did my old roomie actually type for me and tell me what he was typing so i could keep the show going, but he was not always around, so i stayed close to the cam after the pole.

    I had MORE guys than any who had a foot thing....That was great! I had my arsenal of toys (shoes, stockings, nail paint, toe rings, etc) at hand.

    Good luck, I wont do cam anymore....Fuckers record ya.

    Pamela

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    I do financial domination on www.keen.com
    It's a phone advice site with many categories, if you want you can also use the webcam.
    Have a look to this link http://www.niteflirt.com/categories/...p?category=849

    Shows with the pole would be nice... but nowadays there are girls playing with toys for free... why should costumers watch pole dancing shows for $$$? Me and my housemate we tryed because we have a pole at home, but we were not successlful, very few costumers and just women who were corious about pole dancing itself not about stripping.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter
    Arent you excited?


    2) Webcam Domination. I dont know much about how to do that, since the submissive isnt THERE, but I've seen a lot of women do it. None of them seemed to want to share their trade secrets though. What would I do really? Show off my feet to the foot fetish guys? Type/talk dirty with a BDSM theme?

    Has anyone done either or know someone who has who can give me some pointers?
    Paige, to domme by webcam you need to understand the following about Domination.

    1. All successful domination is psycho drama [i.e. Your getting in someones head to reenact a past trauma the sub need's in order to feel loved].

    2. You must know how to use infliction with your voice in order give orders and show interest in the activity. A Domme that just goes through the motions without showing interest, just bores the sub to death and loses possible repeat buissness from that Sub.

    3. Never treat a sub like a number (ATM with a Pulse). Sub's catch on quick to that and will drop you once they realize, you don't care at all and they are just a number to you.

    4. Make the Sub feel wanted/needed by your act's of degradation and humiliation--that is what he is there for, that is what he needs, that is why you must appriecieate him. If the Sub doesn't feel apprecieated by his Domme, he will go elsewhere.

    5. Keep doing #4 well and you'll have major repeat customers for a longtime.

    6. A session is only as good as a Sub, if the sub doesn't want to interact (i.e. he just sits there and listens without feed back) the session will never be good.

    Now to learn Domination.

    I suggest subsrcibing to www.whippedass.com, and www.meninpain.com and watching Chanta Rose, Audrey Leigh, Mika Tan, Dragon Lilly, Jazmine Byrne, and Harmony topping their sub's. They all have different styles, pick out what you like from each of them and make it work for you.

    2. Alway's have a Do/Don't list ready for a Sub to give input before a session along with the Green, Yellow , Red safe word system in place.

    3. Work with the sub's do list and make his fantasy come true, while making him work for it.

    4. Alway's make the Sub ask/beg for permission to cum, touch, or touch himself and deny him at least once until he begs for it.

    5. Anytime a sub violates an order you've given him, makes a mistake, or does anything you don't want him to do, with /without asking for your permission first to do it. Punish him immeadeltely and without hesitation, and tell him why he is being punished . This will show the sub who's in control and will endear him to you for life as a customer.

    6. Ask the Sub if he has anything lying around the house to hit, or put in himself for punishment and make him use it while putting the phone close so you can hear it.

    Hope this helps and have fun....

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    I kindly disagree with you about Domination posted above.

    First i do much Dom. everyday on the phone. Some of my hardcore guys actualy hit a dungeon when time permits or money permits. They have taught me alot about Domination. I also had a visit to a real Dom session a few times in my life, it's great! As well as doing a few sessions myself....FUN!!!

    What actually to do on the phone or cam is actually ALOT different from a real life Dom. session.

    First NEVER ask the Sub. to do anything. Firmly tell him. The rise these people get from Domination is not living a past trauma in their lives, at least all the guys i share Dom. with over the phone with great rewards are mainly people in a very high position in thier life, i.e. work.

    They simply want to "escape" from the world, and have a woman who is the weaker sex (in this fucked up world) Dominate him!! Men don't normally go to men for Domination.

    Wow...Actually a Sub. does not want a woman who seems not to like her job, but the Sub does want a "bitchy' woman. If she acts like he is taking up some of her precious time, this is part of the turn on for the Dom.

    Money should always be "set" before any session...be it phone, cam or in real life. The exception is financial domination...These guys will pay you're bills....If in this case you Are really a bitch to them, and TELL never ask them what to do/pay!

    4. is just wrong imo. Subs. get love at home, outside home etc. They are not looking for love with a Dom. They actually are a very out-going people with many friends and a great social life!!!! They are extroverts!!

    I agree if a Sub. violates any sort of play, make HIM responsible for his actions. You are a Dom. and these guys do want to participate in the way of also getting in on the 'fun.'
    He does something not wanted, have him do what you tell him...i.e. flog himslef 30 times, gagball himself in at least 7 seconds!!! They love to be part of the "to do list!!!" Writing a note to his Dom. if he fucks up is a big one with me...And have him read it in the future, this shows right there you want his ass back!! An apology note if you will!

    Last...NEVER ASK a Sub if he has anything around the house, tell him he better get something from inside the home to use for 'play.' He will usually ask "like what" then use you're imagination..It should be for pain, i.e. wrap up his balls with a phone cord etc.

    Doing Dom over the phone or on cam is SO much different then real life. Most of these guys who are really into Dom, seek us out for actual humiliation. They simply want to be treated like shit, told what to do with a firm hand!

    Love for these guys is at home, work or a tight nit group of friends....Not us.

    I have been doing great at Domination games for years due to me being a bitch, firm.

    The only question that should be asked on cam or phone (because this is MUCH harder when you are not with them) is Are you into hardcore? You would be surprised how many men actually only want you to call them names and point while laughing at them over and over until they cum.

    Domination i learned comes in many forms for guys. But i have learned true Dom. Comes from you're inner bitch towards men!!!

    Madgrad is not wrong of course, but what is being told to do by him would be very very hard on the phone or cam. You need NO safe words on the phone session, as if he does not or can't do it he simply wont without you knowing! To a sub. his mind may want to be at a dungeon, but he is not...So all the bells and whistles are not there.
    We need to keep this in mind.

    Also the fetish guys are the Best...They usualy want a form of light Dom. Say licking a heel for you, and cumming in it!!!!

    Again...there are just so many variations of Dom. This for me is more along the lines of cam or phone Dom. It's easier for a man to prepare and not cost an arm and leg so you don't lose him too quickly.

    This being said. It works for phone cam domination..Because honestly these guys are not willing to spend $500 for a cam Dom. or phone Dom. session. At least not in one session.



    Pamela
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    Quote Originally Posted by madgrad
    Paige, to domme by webcam you need to understand the following about Domination.

    1. All successful domination is psycho drama [i.e. Your getting in someones head to reenact a past trauma the sub need's in order to feel loved].

    2. You must know how to use infliction with your voice in order give orders and show interest in the activity. A Domme that just goes through the motions without showing interest, just bores the sub to death and loses possible repeat buissness from that Sub.

    3. Never treat a sub like a number (ATM with a Pulse). Sub's catch on quick to that and will drop you once they realize, you don't care at all and they are just a number to you.

    4. Make the Sub feel wanted/needed by your act's of degradation and humiliation--that is what he is there for, that is what he needs, that is why you must appriecieate him. If the Sub doesn't feel apprecieated by his Domme, he will go elsewhere.

    5. Keep doing #4 well and you'll have major repeat customers for a longtime.

    6. A session is only as good as a Sub, if the sub doesn't want to interact (i.e. he just sits there and listens without feed back) the session will never be good.

    Now to learn Domination.

    I suggest subsrcibing to www.whippedass.com, and www.meninpain.com and watching Chanta Rose, Audrey Leigh, Mika Tan, Dragon Lilly, Jazmine Byrne, and Harmony topping their sub's. They all have different styles, pick out what you like from each of them and make it work for you.

    2. Alway's have a Do/Don't list ready for a Sub to give input before a session along with the Green, Yellow , Red safe word system in place.

    3. Work with the sub's do list and make his fantasy come true, while making him work for it.

    4. Alway's make the Sub ask/beg for permission to cum, touch, or touch himself and deny him at least once until he begs for it.

    5. Anytime a sub violates an order you've given him, makes a mistake, or does anything you don't want him to do, with /without asking for your permission first to do it. Punish him immeadeltely and without hesitation, and tell him why he is being punished . This will show the sub who's in control and will endear him to you for life as a customer.

    6. Ask the Sub if he has anything lying around the house to hit, or put in himself for punishment and make him use it while putting the phone close so you can hear it.

    Hope this helps and have fun....
    I've been a Dominatrix for about... 5 years now. Most of these things I know already. Its nowhere as easy to do this job when there is no submissive physically there. I know how to be dominant, I just need some new ideas for doing so via "distance learning" media, such as the webcam.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela
    I had MORE guys than any who had a foot thing....That was great! I had my arsenal of toys (shoes, stockings, nail paint, toe rings, etc) at hand.

    Good luck, I wont do cam anymore....Fuckers record ya.

    Pamela
    OMG Pamela!

    Those guys really record you? shit i was about to write about my out look on webcam also. SHIT!!! MY eyes pop out when i read that!!!

    Is there anything can be done about this? i don't want my cam show to be swimmin around the internet.. shit!!

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    Nope. You can't stop it. How did i find out? After about a 15 minute session one night a year or less ago, a man said he was going to ask for his "credits back," I'm like wtf? After 15 minutes, me doing what you wanted and you are asking for you're creits back?

    He said he liked the show, but it was actually free for him. As he recorded it with his recorder!!!! And showed me a small clip, kinda blurry, but enough for him. ASS.

    I never told anyone the story, but the company i worked with. They would not credit anyone back anyway, as THEY also could see the shows...Shit. But i guess i could understand this to a point, there were rules for performers.

    Anyway, no more CAM for me. Also Yahoo this happened too with my tits. HE sent me a money order, and we would chat alot, then i played with my tits, and he said thanks for the show i now have it on my computer to watch whenever needed!!!!

    Fuck that.....If you do cam, these guys will record you..As it seems word got around quickly.

    Pamela.

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    I have a guy friend who told me I should be a pro dom but the thing is, I've never done it! I sure don't think I'd want to do it over the net though, too much risk of someone I DON'T want to see me doing it seeing me.

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    Seems i am making my rounds...lol. I agree, i let cam go..It was not worth the hassle.

    Pamela

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    For webcamming is can go in soo many different areas now. it all depends on how you watn to go about doing it

    I suggest checking out www.adult-webcam-faq.com whenever I have a webcam question I always go to that site to see if it has already been asked before.
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