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    last week the exguy called and i wasnt speaking to him. he called a few times and left me a message on friday apologizing and hoping to start over. Then yesterday he tells me he is seeing another girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Yesterday he called me -said hi - and then we got disconnected. THIRTY FIVE MINUTES later he calls me back and said the phone died.which was a lie because he didnt have a charger. i guess the phone magically recharged itself.
    Then he has the AUDACITY to talk to me on the phone on the way to see her.and he didnt even finish the conversation with me, as soon as she got in the car he was like "gotta go bye".
    but the reason that I told him off and ended our friendship was because he keeps going back and forth about how he feels and he cant make up his mind.one minute he wants me and the next he doesnt...he's like well we should be friends and see what happens between us...and told me he still had feelings for me, just didnt wanna date me...OBVIOUSLY he doesnt have feelings for me if hes dating someone else.
    so in the conversation he told me that I should never tell men that I was a stripper. (yet he says thats not the reason that he stopped wanting to be with me)ANYWAY I TEXT MESSAGED HIS PHONE AND TOLD HIM WE ARE OVER AND NOT TO EVER CALL ME AGAIN. i think its bullshit that he d try to make make me feel bad about dancing.if its not the reason that he stopped liking me, why does he tell me that i should never tell a guy that i want to date that i dance(d).he says that will not help me get guys.I AM SO ANGRY AT HIM. Anyway that friendship is officially over. i blocked his phone, e mail , aim etc.what is wrong with him that one sec he likes me me and the next he doesnt????why would he apologize to me on friday and have anew girlfriend by monday??!!!!!and i have never had a guy be soo insistent on wanting to stay my friend!!!!its so wierd. if he doesnt like me why does he wanna keep me around. im not gonna wait for him or talk to him if he treats me like this.sorry for venting i am just highly pissed off.he really ruined my day yesterday!just wish i knew if it was me he didnt like or if it realy was because of the dancing...

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    It sounds like this guy is really immature. It also sounds as if he is afraid of being alone. He is trying to keep you on the back burner "in case" he has spaces in between the other girls.

    Congradulations to you standing up for yourself and realizes this guy is a jerk. Find someone who does want to be with you.

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    Sounds to me like he's hoping to keep you around for the occasional fuck. Guys often like to stay "friends" in order to tug on your heart strings just enough to get you in the sack when they're not getting it elsewhere Glad to know you've blocked him from calling/messaging you - no good will come of any further communication with this dipshit.

    I'm sorry to hear this. It always sucks to be screwed around with. At least you recognize he's being an ass and are confident enough to tell him where to stick it! Many women aren't so confident.

    Please don't listen to anything this dude says about you or your choices. His behaviour is NO barometer for how REAL decent men will treat you. Stripper or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cheetahchick
    ... as soon as she got in the car he was like "gotta go bye". ...
    The boy needs to improve his game. This would've been the perfect opportunity to make HER boil with jealousy by staying on the phone with you.

    Actually it sounds like he DOES really have feelings for you, but his way of dealing with the emotional pressure it puts on him is to act abusive. He's already playing the same game with the new girl. You think she doesn't know what "gotta go bye" implies? You girls have "the rules"; we have our shit. It gets old.

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    he wasnt trying to keep me around for sex, because we never had sex...
    so u guys dont think i overreacted? had i stayed friends with him, nothing good could have come from this right....

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    He's just trying to keep you on the back burner for when he's 'in-between' girlfriends. I wouldn't even answer his calls..

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    Raise your standards babe.

    If you don't feel wonderful when you are with this guy, then why are you debating it?

    Lotsa girls try to rationalize things along the lines of " If I stop doing this, or start doing this, or if he changes this, or if I change that, then we would have a really great relatinship!"

    or "maybe I should have done this, or maybe I should behave this way"

    and men treat them like crap because they know they can. Who cares if he doesn't like you because of you, or because of your dancing....He's a JERK and why do you need approval from a jerk?
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    Listen Hon,
    This guy is fishing and he has 6 poles in the water. Which ever fish gives a good tug is gonna get the worm. Don't let it be you ! He has "Loser" written all over him.

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    Guys often like to stay "friends" in order to tug on your heart strings just enough to get you in the sack when they're not getting it elsewhere
    Sexual bullpens are equal opportunity employers. Ahem.

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    oh god..

    Get rid of the DRAMA! (him)!!!!!

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    Move on... You are only feeding his ego when you take his calls. I really think it is a boost for men with a huge ego (no self-esteem) when they can convince themselves that a girl will keep opening the door no matter how he treats them. Demand respect and only be respectful to those who are respectful in return. Some men are only addicted to the chase, it may have nothing to do with sex. He needs to grow up, you need to move on. Stand your ground.

    NEXT!!!!!!!
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    Yeah, I guess I cant stop wondering if I overreacted. I mean did he deserve me to go off on him like I did....I blocked him so I wouldnt even know if he has tried to contact me....and thats keeping me up a night(cause what if he did try to reach me). The real reason I got so upset and cursed him out was because he was talking to me on the way to go see another girl & this obviously upset me. He wanted to stay my friend...and if we were friends maybe he would have eventually fallen in love with me...(why would he wanna stay friends so bad if there was no chance there at all)guys dont want friends..SOMEONE please convince me not to contact him. I already told him im never speaking to him again, so if i went back now id look like an asshole....but was i justified in freaking out the way i did...Maybe the cell phone battery really did die...lol... after some time passes can i unblock him and rekindle a friendship or does he really sound like bad news. This sucks. How can he not want me...!!!??????? if i would have kept myself under control and not flipped out and cursed him out, he would have called me later and we would have been able to talk about this normally.now he just thinks im crazy.

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    sorry if im being annoying about this. sometimes it takes me time to get things through my head

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    It sounds like you really are caught up. Oh, girl....

    Maybe you need to go through that process. I hate to say this but maybe you should pursue this thing, then in the end find out (confirm what you already know) he's a loser who "fucked with your heart."

    Sometimes the best lessons I've learned are the ones that burned.

    You deserve better!!! Don't you want to be with someone that you know cares about you... Not someone that you are constantly wondering.

    NewsFlash: He was on his way to another girls house!! Not Yours!!! Thenh as soon as she got in the car he jumped off the phone with you. Girl, he's trying to play you... It seems so obvious to everyone who replied, and I think to you too... Think about it... Look at the whole picture...

    What an emotional mess when the head, the heart and the gut are in turmoil!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina
    Raise your standards babe.
    What she said

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    Your next theme song should be "Hollaback Girl". That's all he's trying to get from you. He just wants someone to fall back on. He doesn't deserve it, don't fall for it.
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