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    What works better for you all? Do you come across as "dirty" or do you just talk about everyday things to a custie?

    I've noticed that when I don't bother as much to look "pretty," and when i just sit on a custie's lap and rub his shoulders and get really close...i do better. i don't even talk about how his day went, etc.

    supposedly, also, this job is based on looks. has anyone else found this to NOT be true?

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    Default Re: Dirty or just talk about normal stuff?

    Looks in this industry are quite unimportant actually. Not to say that if you are 400 pounds with a wart on your nose that you are going to make $2K a night, but all evidence has shown to be over and over again that looks are actually quite irrelevant in a dancer's ability to make a good income. 99% of your money is going to come from what you say, now how you look.

    This is why I've never been a subscriber to the "dirty talk" philosophy. In my opinion, sweet and sexy wins out over nasty and slutty every time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fallenfaerie84
    What works better for you all? Do you come across as "dirty" or do you just talk about everyday things to a custie?
    Well,its different with every customer imo.
    Some will want you to talk lady like,some will want you to talk like a russian sailor on shore leave,with most falling somewhere in the middle.

    Your initial "hello"to a customer,that you dont know, is when you start to asses your prey.Just the way he says "hello"back,his body language,etc will start to tell you what you need to know.
    Then hit him with leading lines and watch his response.

    I hate this saying..
    "men want a lady in the living room,and a whore in the bedroom"
    Im old,but i swear i had nothing to do with this saying,as im sure it was born in a strip club somewhere,by a strip club dj long deceased.

    When it comes to a new custie,always start your conversation in the "living room" imo.

    Yes alot of guys want you to sit in thier lap,but from what i have seen most times,the real money guys want to meet ya first,you sitting in thier lap removes thier option to shop for the girl they want.
    Guys with money generally like to decide and dont go with just the first one who sits in thier lap.
    Im not a fan of walking up and sitting in someones lap.

    I have known girls who just walk up,straddle guys cowboy style,THEN says hello with thier boobs stuck in thier face as they give a muffled "hello"back.
    Many have freekin banked like this,so what the hell do I know.lol

    I would say,all custies are different.If you spend 1 min before approaching the table to just watch him and his body language,you would know so much more about him well before you said "hello".
    then...
    "you would have him from Hello"Jerry Mcguire

    I've noticed that when I don't bother as much to look "pretty," and when i just sit on a custie's lap and rub his shoulders and get really close...i do better. i don't even talk about how his day went, etc.
    Ok,when a beautiful woman doesnt "prissy"herself up,she is still a beautiful woman but now its all natural.Its a different look,but its still a beautiful woman.
    Its the girl next door look,the country girl look,the "Im soo not vain"look(in a roomfull of girls who are),and UGH,the JBF look.
    (I didnt invent this one either I swear,its the JBF "Just been fucked look",it drives men nuts,we are almost powerless against it)
    supposedly, also, this job is based on looks. has anyone else found this to NOT be true?
    LOLOL
    This industry is based on looks,saying its not is just silly imo, and verges on PC propaganda.
    Can an ugly girl with a great personality make a few bucks,sure,i have seen it happen.
    I have walked into clubs where I was better looking then the dancers!!!
    And the money in the club reflected what the girls looked like.

    Its harsh,but MOST of the ugly girls are stopped at the door and you dont even see them.
    The ones that do get past the door have to kick it in,and it takes moxy and a whole lot of personality to do that.

    Pretty girls with No personality can make money in this industry,ugly girls with no personality can to,just not anywhere close to the same amount,or in the same level of clubs.

    This is a visual industry,we survive on the pretty ones backs.

    Ugly girls are like garlic in da sauce.
    Its good to have some mixed in,but to much and you might as well toss it cause most people wont swallow it.

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    Default Re: Dirty or just talk about normal stuff?

    I agree it does depend on the customer. Most (no wait, all) of my regulars talk to me and treat me like I am a human being. We have conversations about anything/everything... And they pay me. Then there are the random SC passerbys who are drunk, horny and disrespectful who want to here about "what girls have you slept with here", "who do you want to fu*k" BLAH... BLAH... BLAH... I sometimes play along a little... But only if their green supports it. There is a gagillion phone sex numbers... I am a dancer. If I wanted to do that I would do it in the comfort of my sweat pants, slippers and tee. LOL...
    Hollywood is a place where they'll pay you a thousand dollars for a kiss and fifty cents for your soul... - Marilyn Monroe

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    Default Re: Dirty or just talk about normal stuff?

    thanks for the replies, everyone. i guess it's just in my area where it seems as though looks are not as important.

    and yes, you are right...the girls who straddle the customers make GREAT money in a much smaller amount of time. though, i'm sure it's not only the fact that they go right up and straddle them...i'm sure that the quality of their lapdances and whatever they whisper in the guy's ears are big factors.

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