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    Any advice on how to give a good lapdance? Lately I've been feeling like I'm horrible but I've been selling 3-5 dances in a row (at $50 a pop, it's not easy!). Is most lap dancing just grinding against a guy's crotch? I put my breasts in their face really really close but not touching then I do the same with my crotch and touch myself a little (I'm allowed to touch myself if I don't enter myself). I run my hair over their body and massage them through their shirts and stuff... but is that all there is to it? It seems like there should be more, uh, dancing? o_o

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    You can't be that bad if you're selling $150-$250 of dances in a row. When you first start out, you're working with a limited repertoire of moves--as time goes by you'll have more things to do. And no, there's not a lot of dancing involved--it's part full body massage, part flirting, part sensual movement, and just a tiny bit of dancing. You'll feel more comfortable and pick up more moves as you continue to work and you'll learn how to switch it up to keep it interesting for yourself. Sometimes you'll find yourself inventing new moves on the spot.

    And no, I don't imagine it is easy to sell 3-5 dances at $50 a pop! You go with the hustle, girl.

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    Full body massage? Do I massage the customer? I never thought to do it, really. Rub on their body and move sensually? Hmm, I guess it just takes experience. Has anyone bought that movie on the site's ad popups about lapdancing?

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    Default Re: Lap Dances?

    If you're referring to the Fawnia's video, save your dollars. In re: lap dancing... I just learnt "on the job"... what moves worked best for me to show me off in the best light whilst also making the experience personal and intimate for the custy. Unfortunately, the search function is off... otherwise I would encourage you to search older threads posted by both other dancers and custys about what makes up a great lap dance.

    It also depends on the restrictions of your club and the location what you can and can't do.


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    I was kind of cracking wise with that full body massage crack--I meant that in a lot of clubs you're just rubbing against your customer's lap, chest, and legs. I don't mean that literally you should start trying to work out the kinks in his shoulders (though that might be nice).

    Are the dances done in private areas in your club or can you watch what other dancers do? That's the best way to learn different moves.

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    another move the men seem to like is stand between their knees with your hands on the back of the couch/whatever lower your pelvis to his with your legs out straight behind you for balance and wrap your arms around him... grind a little then slide slowly down his body to a kneeling position, running your hands along his thighs, smiling and making eye contact

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    It's in a completely private area. I had to get a lap dance from another girl to learn how and even though I know she has a fanbase, she may have left out a few things when teaching me. They also lay down and they're bed dances more than couch dances, so some moves are impossible.

    That's an intresting description of a move, I wonder if I can modify it for a bed dance. :3

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