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    OK first off let me say hi to everyone.

    I am going to be auditioning for a club next week and I am so scared. Not about dancing, that doesn't bother me at all. What I am worried about is how I look. I mean, what is a good weight for 5'8? I definitly don't have big boobs I only am a 38b. I also don't know where to find heels that won't make me look like the jolly green giant I am also kind of make up handy capped. I mean I know how to apply mascara and you know foundation but anything else I am kind of at loss. I am definitly not a make up artist.
    So Does anyone have any advice for me I would really appreciate it.

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    Dear sweety, please don't let these things stop you. (PS 38B is a fine breast size.) The first week I danced, a sweet dancer let me know that if anyone ever says anything rude about your appearance, she is jealous or/and he is definitely not getting laid.
    The bulk of stripping is people skills- people come to clubs for the social experience- if they wanted just to get off, they could stay home and whack off with a magazine or pixel image. So emphasize your talking and hustling skills......
    As for weight, tall girls can get away with more weight than petite ones. So relax.

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    I'm built like you, 5'8" and 36C. I've never had a problem. If you're insecure about the makeup, go to a make up counter and request some help. The sales associates are usually very friendly if you're willing to purchase a couple of things.

    Wear 6" heels. Trust me. Guys love the fact that I tower over them when I step off stage and they'll make your legs look like they start at your neck. One of the biggest money makers at my club is six feet tall in flats and she still wears the 6 inchers.

    Good Luck!

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    Five nine here. Yeah, would have killed for your breast size. You are just perfect. Nothing to worry about. Go get'em!!

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    you would be pretty normal here in the midwest, and for the make-up, find a make-up artist who is wearing stuff yo like and ask her to teach you (it is usually free if you buy some) and she will be able to help imensly, and if you continue going back to the same artist she will remember you and teach you to work with the colors she knows you have as you get more skilled.

    Put a little Magick in your night.

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    It matters how you look yes... but more on your personality. How do you present yourself? Are you stuck up (obviously not!)? Beauty all depends on the guy looking at you. A girl I work with has fans and is a 5' tall girl with no waist and no boobs to match. Another girl looks like a boy and sells 20 dances a nice (a lot at $50 each). Another girl has the nicest sexiest curves I've seen and hardly makes a thing. Her beauty to me is different then her beauty to other people. Don't sweat it!

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    Thanks so much. I am still scared. I will keep this in mind thank you hotredhead for all of the help on the make up part!

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