How do you customers profile dancers? What do you look for? What do you like in conversation? Do you go mainly for looks or personality? What is it that strikes your fancy?
How do you customers profile dancers? What do you look for? What do you like in conversation? Do you go mainly for looks or personality? What is it that strikes your fancy?
i can only speak of me personally.
the things you can't fake.
fire in the eyes.
feeling of being the only man in the world.
lots of energy.
knowing my qwirks.
being comfortable and at peace around me.
most guys want "the eye of the hurricane" from you meaning a place where they can come and unwind and draw enough strenght the face real life again.
but everyones defintion of that is slighty different. and have different expectations from the dancer they pick.





What do we want? We want YOU, of course...
So your job is to make it seem that that is what we are getting...
I don't really. I'll tell you this, some girls are turn-offs but that's usually because they have an attitude problem. I like a little bitchiness but there's a point when it goes too far.Originally Posted by kryssy
I'm shallow. I look for the hottest chick in the room. Though i've met some who don't fit that mold that just sort of 'fell into my lap' as it were.Originally Posted by kryssy
Conversation? What is this thing you speak of?Originally Posted by kryssy
Seriously, just whatever as long as it isn't the weather or like-minded bullshit small talk. If it's natural feeling i'm game for just about anything.
No lie, here. LOOKS! Now, past that what keeps my attention is wit, but what grabs it initially is appearance. I've always made a beeline for the 10's.Originally Posted by kryssy
Depends on my mood (though a nice rack goes a long way).Originally Posted by kryssy
I'm with Madcap. I'm looking for the hottest girl in the room to dance for me. If she's too busy, then I'll grudgingly settle for the second-hottest and so on down the line...Personality only matters if I spend enough time with a dancer that I'm getting bored of the dances, and by then I'm usually ready to move on.
"All this time you were pretending
So much for my happy ending."
--Avril Lavigne
That's pretty close to my system.somewhere in the back of my mind, I've probably got them categoized as nice, hustling, friendly, relaxed, greedy, vapid.
A woman (or women) that makes me feel like a god among men. That's not asking much, is it?What do you look for?
Presuming equality in overall physical comeliness, (i.e. the girls look like they belong in a string and little else):
--A good stage show
--Energy
--Poise
--Unique outfits
--Very limited physical mutilation (piercings and tats)
--Dark or red hair (my weakness)
That's a toughie. I'd start with an obvious familiarity with the tenets of English syntax and grammar. No, I'm not kidding; nothing kills my interest faster than someone I can't understand or follow. That aside, I like to talk about macroeconomic trends affecting labor migration, currency valuations and the resulting national security imperatives.What do you like in conversation?Sometimes I'll inquire about the outfit if it peaks my interest or about what the club is doing that night to get things rolling.
What I don't like is probably more useful. Unless the chick is a closet geek in a thong (which is a HUGE plus), I don't like to talk about my work (geek stuff). Don't talk to me about sports (I just don't give a flying fuck). If we just met, don't talk to me about your money problems (this mostly applies to new dancers--it just comes off as predatory) and don't talk to me about your boyfriend issues (if he can't fuck or finance you properly, you should change the situation).
Well, obviously I can only initially determine attraction based on the physical, but clearly I prefer dancers that I click with over those I don't, even if there's a difference in appearance.Do you go mainly for looks or personality?
I'm pretty flexible. I like a healthy girl in all the infinite combinations and variations that nature and/or plastic surgery offers, though as noted above, I prefer dark-haired beauties. Obviously a nice rack and quarter-resistant ass are plusses, but a kind face with good teeth is most important.What is it that strikes your fancy?
Things that work against a dancer are easier to numerate:
--Too many/poor quality tattoos
--Too many piercings
--Chewing gum
--Reeking of cigarettes or booze (drink vodka with me, girls, please! I'll buy!)
--Bad teeth
--Unkempt nails
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.





Firstly, I guess the men responding to your question are not a typical sample of your SC audience. By dint of reading and posting here, they automatically get a look "behind the scenes". They thus know a bit more about a dancer's real motivations than most. Treat the answers accordingly.Originally Posted by kryssy
Honest answer as to what I profile? Sometimes, when you bump into a dancer, there can be a "spark" between you. It could be because there is a degree of physical attraction between you, (and some of the signals you can't fake); it could be because you have compatible personalities. Occasionally it's because I bump into a genuine exhibitionist, and I enjoy her reaction as much as she enjoys mine.
Physically, every man's taste will vary. Personally, I'd go for natural blonde, natural trim figure, nice smile. Other posters will probably put up a different set of attributes. Good job too, or dancers would resemble a set of clones.
Mentally - give me a dancer with a strong, interesting character and a few original topics of conversation. I like dancers who I can genuinely talk to, and who don't act like speak your weight machines. Personality? Please, please, don't make your financial motives too obvious. Yep, you're earning a living, and I know that, but please allow me a few illusions.
Thus endeth the gospel according to Phil....



Except for fat asses, bad attitudes, and knife-fight or Caesarean scars, I pretty much like them all.
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Friendly smiling, preferably no BA.
I've been trying to find a hot brunette, but not having much luck. Seem to end up with the blondes.
Interesting or different outfits help too.
"...she should be good-looking, but we're willing to trade looks for a certain... morally casual attitude."Originally Posted by kryssy
ok a serious answer...I can tell you what turns me off more than what turns me on about a stripper, because those things are endless...
1-poorly kept nails (finger or toe) and this includes nails with odd paintings (like a pseudo-french manicure but with rid on the end instead of white, or appliques, etc), or overly long nails.
2-tattoos
3-Piercings other than ears or navel
4-poorly applied makeup
5-stupid outfits (although a very hot girl can wear just about anything)
6-monkey toes (toes that hang over platform heels)
7-poorly shaved girls
8-bad hair
9-any sort of uncleanliness or bad hygiene, including teeth hygiene
10-any sort of attitude that strikes me as "I don't care about you, I only care about what might be in your wallet"
11-fatness
12-skankiness
13-girls that do their turn on stage and then go sit at the bar and don't move til their next set
14-hoochie/ghetto looking girls
15-girls that are too white/not tanned
16-Any girl who effects the goth look
Here's a few things that turn me off...
- An attitude problem.
- Bored looking.
- stares at herself in the mirror while she dances either onstage or during a LD. A few glances to check hair/whatever is fine but staring?
- Slobbering drunk
- Leg stubble
- "Wannadance?"
- "So what's your name my name's [insert_stage_name] do you like the club? it's cool but there's some total bitches that work here like her over there she's such a total bitch but that girls cool do you come here a lot i work monday, thursay, friday and saturday and i dance under [insert_42_different_stage_names_here]" *deep breath* "so what are you drinking i like tequila shots with lime but i'm also a vodka drinker not to fancy just screwdrivers and shit, don't like beer but wine coolers are yummy that peach fuzz stuff is soooooooo good do you like wine coolers of course not you're a guy what was i thinking ha ha ha" *Deep breath* "do you like these shoes? they're new, i got a killer deal on them. I have another pair that i like even more next time i'm onstage i'll wear them if you want, they're cute, i also have this top that's soooo cute, it's pink and it ties and it goes sooo well with... etc... etc... *meanwhile i'm seriously thinking about making a break for it*
- *silence*
- Too much make-up.
- "It's my very first night!"
- "See that girl, i don't like her so i want you to help me fuck with her."
- Acts like i'm a walking ATM (I don't care if that's how you see me, just don't be obvious about it).
- Bad hygene
- too funky of a hairstyle
- 18 piercings
All of the above pretty much mean i'm going to be avoiding someone all night.
I don't place the bar high as far as conversation goes. I don't care if you sit and talk. I didn't come for the entrancing conversations.
I came to see Naked Women.
I don't discriminate beyond this: You must be a Female and You must get Naked. (or nearly so, depending on local regulations, of course)
I don't mind Greedy, Mercenary Dancers. The faster you leave, the faster I can get someone Else to come over... And the more likely I am to see You again as you make your rounds collecting money and if I liked you, you just saved me the effort of having to find you again! I think the Greedy dancers are underrated. Its a Business after all. As long as you at least act the part. Smile and Dance and Send over the Goth-looking Gal!
As far as favorites go, I LOVE Goth-looking Dancers... Don't see NEARLY enough of them tho... At least not at Matthews in Tyngsboro in the 1999-2000 era... (Haven't been to a SC since then, and they're closed now) I also Like Long Slinky Gowns... And Red.
Yes, sir. Will do my best to meet your expectations.
Originally Posted by grinew127
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the thread is already here and answered on the blue side.
think that maybe what your looking for.
I guess if you are away from home any girl will look like a goddess. My type of dancer should be a peoples person. Last week I visited the DC-Arlington area and went to Crystal City Rest, Archibalds and Camelot. 1819 Club was closed for construction. Definitively Camelot was the place to go. The girls were above 7s. There was one that called my attention: she could move her body and she was pretty. Her movements were erotic, not rehearsed. She could smile to the customer. I told her she was going to give me a heart attack.....she smilled sweet and said "oh no please, I dont want to do that!" Thats the girl i'm looking forward to see at the clubs....and I'll paid them a good tip. All the girls at Camelot came around for a tip. I usualy don't run to the stage to give tips.
I stopped at Archibalds but action there has deteriorated somehow and the drinks were more expensive. Only one stage was open. Only one girl of few came to get her tip....too bad, I saved the money and gave it to the ones at Camelot. The girls at Archibalds seemed tired.
I also visited Crystal City Restaurant because it was very close to my hotel in Arlington. The girls there were more active dancing but not as pretty as the ones in Camelot. A tall pretty one called my attention. The problem with this place is that they have two stages and the girls go directly from one to the other, taking their time to collect tips, and you need to call them loud because they seemed scared to collect from the customers. I did not like the appearance of some of the customers there, some wore no-sleeve t shirts and looked like they just came from the city dump. Servers kept looking and asking if you needed a drink every 5 minutes. Some of the dancers really walked so quickly that I could not even give them a tip. To make for the slow night at least one of the servers smiled nicely and asked where I was from....she was Lebanese....and exotic. Anyway I had a good time.
Last edited by poriland4; 07-01-2005 at 10:20 AM.
It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?
I like gals with nice legs and good tits. I like good conversation, personality. I don't like if they interrupt me eating lunch or too pushy for dances before I have had time to finish my drink. I really like it if they are in bikinni outfits - bikinni gals turn me on. I like to get to know the gal and establish rappor. As far as dances I expect to get to feel the girl.... The clubs where I go a guy can feel anywhere but the g string area.
Hey.....where in Texas is that!!!!
It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?

Don't treat the customer like he's a dime a dozen...make him feel that he is the only one that matters at that moment. Don't walk up and ask, "care for a dance?" I don't even know you, the answer is NO. If you're not interested in the custy then they will not be interested in you. Show some type of , 'i care' attitude and that will get you a long way...however, you must make it sincere... it cannot come off fake. Cut the "i'm better than you" attitude as well. No dancer is better than any customer and vice versa.
Watch out guys, Derek is the one who started the thread about not giving dancers loans unless they give you something in return, and I'm thinking he was referring to sexual activity outside of the club. I highly doubt the club he goes to lets the customer feel the girls up..sounds like he's trying to make himself sound like he's just the big shit.




hahahaha! Madcap, this had me laughing out loud. It made my head hurt just reading it!Originally Posted by Madcap
I think this thread just goes to show that different men like all different types of women (minus the obviously annoying, disgusting attributes that have been listed as intolerable)
I never was a big fan of small talk when I went out. I know the women are there to make Money and would always feel bad if they were sitting with me and would turn down potential dances from other guys who approached while she was with me/our party.
I always wondered if some girls did that just to avoid dancing for some custies...
But anyhow, I like defined bodies with Waists and Hips. I would very much love to say its the Eyes, or the face, etc... But if I did I would be a Liar.
I also prefer dresses over bikinis/lingerie/costumes. A woman in a beautiful slinky dress would always grab my attention (and wallet) when I would go clubbing.
A woman who does a good stage show too. Thats often a very good indicator of how good her dances will be.
Also a Pleasant, Confident and most of all Welcoming Smile!!!
This may sound corny,but the best times I've had with women in strip clubs were just having fun conversation ranging from topics like kids,movies,bands,traveling etc.
I love women who are just nice to talk with and have a nice personality.I never go in any club with intentions of taking anyone home but if I enjoy their conversation I tip them very well.![]()
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