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    I've been thinking bring my high school chum, who is now blind, to the club. It's a dancers can touch customers but not the other way sort of place. I don't want to weird out the dancers and I know he wouldn't either. Do any of the dancers here have experience with this sort of situation? Are there any pointers you can give me to eliminate potential awkwardness?

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    A friend of mine danced for a blind man, she said he wanted to "smell" her, not in a nasty way, but in a cute way.
    Pick a dancer who is a good talker and kindhearted. They can probably have some fun conversations about the visual aspect of the strip club! A thoughtful dancer can describe the experience to him in a way that he can appreciate the club without feeling as if he is missing part of the experience.

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    not really anything to worry about.. explain the problem to them. they'll compensate. just don't get mad when he gets to touch their faces(to find out what they look like)

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    I've danced for a deaf man, but, never a blind man.
    I think it would be really interesting...
    As long as he were polite with his "feelerz"
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    I danced for a blind guy and the situation was obvious, he had the sunglasses and the dog. He came in with a really cute girl who would sit stage side with him and describe the dancers, what they were wearing and how they were moving. It was actually really hot, she gave a great play by play.

    I work in a no touch club but I couldn't resist bending the rules. I'd watch for the manager while on stage and dance for him by braille. Nothing dirty, I would just brush my leg against his cheek or run my hair over him and purr in his ear. He ended up getting a few private dances from me and had a really great time.

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    My club has a blind guy that comes in periodically. I thought it was quite brave of him to come in without a friend for guidance, too. He works in the office building next door and just tap-taps his way over on his own.

    But, you're right, it can be awkward. I suggest that he wear dark glasses, use a cane or any other obvious signals so the dancers will know before they approach him that he's blind. Good idea for the other club staff and customers, too.

    What our guy did was call the club first and let them know his situation. The manager then let the other girls know to expect him so their would be no shocked (and awkward) surprises. Those few girls that just couldn't get past the idea of a blind guy in the club just avoided him, and the rest of us were prepared in advance. That way the bartenders also knew that when they gave him his drinks to either set it down touching his hand or take his hand and put it on the glass so he knew where it was, and to either let him know where other obsticles like the napkin/straw trays and ashtrays were located or to move those obsticles (or other peoples' drinks) out of his way. The DJ will also know to announce each dancer with some kind of complimentary phrase that somehow incorporates a brief description of her for our guy's benefit. The manager also warned us all not to pelt him with stupid questions about his blindness (seeing as there's always at least one stupid girl in every club).

    Our guy will tend to sit in an area that's closest to the lap dance/champagne court rooms so he won't have to go through much hassle negotiating through customers, tables and chairs to get there. It would also be a good idea for you to know the club layout in advance and plan where you want to sit so you won't have to go through any awkward manuevering around to find the best place. You'll probably want a place that's as easily accessable to both the private dance areas and the mens' room. Ask your friend about this since he'll know best what area(s) will be most comfortable for him. You'll also want to figure out how to deal with getting into the club in the first place... are there steps? Double doors with a vestibule? A coat check, electronic swipe, etc.? Make sure your friend knows exactly what to expect from the moment you get out of the car so he'll be prepared for whatever he has to go through before you even get inside the club and seated.

    When dancers come by for tips, it would probably be a good idea to have your friend just hold out the money and have him say something like "here ya go, honey, you can just take it" so he won't have to go through any embarrassing garter groping.

    Keep an eye on your friend's money... there may be some sick bitch that will try to take advantage of his blindness. We advised our blind guy to hold his money roll in his hand instead of putting it on the bar in case of some nasty ho thief trying to take advantage.

    I think it's best to call the club and let them know the situation first so they can pave the way for him and make his time there as enjoyable as possible... I'm sure they'd be more than happy to be accommodating. The first time our guy came to the club, the manager told him to call when he got to the parking lot so one of the security guys could meet him outside the door and guide him through the preliminaries of getting into the club, paying the door charge, going through the electronic swipe, etc. all the while explaining the layout and helping him get seated where he wanted to be. Since you'll be with your friend, none of this is probably necessary, but it's an example of how accommodating most clubs will be.

    With a little advance planning, both you and your friend will probably have a great time!

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    Remember you don't want to get sued for violating the American's With Disabilities Act (ADA) the customer may want to feel everywhere to make up for his loss of sight. Kind of like reading the dancer like braile in all areas!!!! LOL

    Be careful if you don't let him he just might sue.....Reminds me I need to go to the store and get a red and white cane and some dark sunglasses.............
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    I would absolutely LOVE if a blind man came in. I've always has a weak heart for the blind and would put the man's hands on me in nice but not illegal ways. I would wear my body spray and lean in close to him. I would do my usual slow and sensual dances. Lightly run my nails along his arm, press my chest close to his, purr lightly in his ear, massage his scalp, nuzzle my nose against his cheek, run my hair over him...

    things like that. ^-^

    Pretty much what I do in any other dance, just a little more about the senses then the jack-off effect.

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    i danced for a deaf guy not a blind guy but my care and thoughtfulness of the sitution got me a dance and 10 dollar tip that was handed to me wrapped in 1.00 bill i was touched becused i knew it was my kindness that earned me that tip from the friend that brought him. just be nice. it means alot.

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    Great post from Alanna above !


    It is a bit odd the first time you dance for a blind customer, especially odd if it's while you're on stage or if it's a no/low contact dance. But it's an interesting experience if you get to know a blind customer as they appreciate totally differnt things about the club experience.

    I have found that blind customers really enjoy the smell of a woman and love the feel of hair on their skin. They will often want to hold hands alot and in contact clubs they a bit more tender in their touch.

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    Fascinating post! As a sighted customer, I think it would be interesting and pleasurable to somehow experience a SC without sight for a change of pace.

    I suppose I could keep my eyes shut after sitting down, but that might seem odd to bystanders and dancers. Extremely dark sunglasses might do the trick. Thoughts?

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    i danced for a blind guy one time on stage. he was blind and had downs syndrome and his brother decided to take him out to the club. he gave him a play by play of what was going on. i basically just stroked his head and rubbed his shoulders, but he got a pretty good kick out of it. i also danced for adeaf guy, he would come in all the time and we would write notes back and forth. he was quite the character always joking around. we would tease each other back and forth and i would tell him things like "well, i know YOUR not here for the music" its funny because you never know what kind of guy is going to walk through the door of your club.

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    I had a blind guy on my stage once. I felt compelled to let him touch me because he tipped me even when ehe couldn't SEE me! (Think of the guys who DON'T tip or my post is Stripping In General about those that say "That's it!")

    I didn't let him touch me though, for two reasons. One it was against club rules and two, I am not sure if I could...

    With the millions of customers I have seen in almost 11 years of dancing on and off...I still remember him where even those with the big tips have been lost in the blur.

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    I have a regular that is deaf and we write notes back and forth to each other the whole time plus he is slowly teaching me sign language.He's one of my fave custies,I acctually look forward to seeing him come in.I'm very sure that I would like a blind custie as well.Just call the club before you go and I'm sure that they can make arrangements for you so that both you and your friend will have a great experiance.

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