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    Help! I'm undecided.

    Hello. I have a new question so I apologise in advance. My hubby and I checked out this club. It is great with security and cleanliness, etc. I filled out a form and sat with hubby to see what goes on. I spoke to a dancer (who was lovely), and another staff member there. But this was my conclusion from what I could gather:

    *The girls, although lovely, just danced in a bra, g-string and heels.
    *The guys, paid their cover charge (like they would at any nite club) and had a few drinks, had their gawk session and didn't give the girls zip!


    I succumbed to doing a striptease, from what I can gather in the article session on this site, a fellow said that it's the best way to entertain! That's what I want to do, yet this club doesn't.

    And I would like to work in a club where the money is good...the clientele have the cash (business men, etc). There is a club like that in town, but they like experienced or attractive girls.

    So the question is:

    *Should I throw myself into the deep end and work for this prestigious gentlemen's club that offers the dosh? or
    *Stick it out at the club with the fellas that don't offer jack, (they just like to take up the dancer's time?)
    *And if I do work there, how do I entertain over 3 songs with barely anything on. (The dancer's looked like they were thinking about their shopping lists!)


    Sorry for the essay and attitude! Please don't get angry with me! I just feel a little disheartened and know that there are good times and bad.

    Thanks

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    mmmmm, so let me clarify...the GOOD club only likes experienced or super attractive girls? If it's experience you need...work where you can to gain that experience...then work at the good club. Don't stick it out at the shitty club. Just gain some stage and hustle experience then move on.


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    i agree... don't waste your time in a shit place... get the experience that you need then find somewhere better.

    good luck with everything xxx

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    I say go for the nicer clubs. You can learn the ropes along the way.

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    Apply to the better club first. If they want experience, then go pay your dues at the little club.

    As for the strip tease, I work in a bikini club and I do it all the time. You just have to start with a little more clothes on. Try a tiny 2-piece dress outfit and booty shorts over a pretty bra & panyt or bikini.


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    Default Re: Help! I'm undecided.

    Thanks so much for your advice girls. Well, tomorrow I'm filling out an application form at the nicer club and hoping I get in. I'm not sure why they want me to do it over the next few days...they have so many dancers as it is, and it's hard to get in apparently.

    I'll keep my fingers crossed and hope I'm one of those lucky dancers!

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    Don't waste time in a place where u can't give close contact lap dances. I do not know the situation in your locale. Go to a club where there older guys (those of us over 35) who have money and seeing your a new gal and not one of the old gurard mite want some dances with you. Where I live in Texas, a lap dance lasts a song and the guy can feel anywhere except the g string area. The gals will rub themselves against my manhood and I love to feel their legs and ass - I play it by hear how I feel their tits, sometimes the gals stick their tits in my mouth to suck but usually I don't because I do not know who has been there. Also I date gals OTC for fun and games and always looking to find a new one for a fun privatye session. If the gal seems afraid of getting close or I could not get to feel her, I would not pay 50c for a lap dance with her. I also like taking dances with married gals as feeling the other guys wife turns me on and many of them have similar excitement about other men feeling them. If you are inhibited about guys feeling u, then dancing at a SC is not for you because your competition are young, beautiful, unhibited, and half naked and know what kinda lap dance they gotta give to keep guys coming back for more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Derek
    If you are inhibited about guys feeling u, then dancing at a SC is not for you because your competition are young, beautiful, unhibited, and half naked and know what kinda lap dance they gotta give to keep guys coming back for more.
    Scratch that. Most places you can enforce a "no touching" rule. Explain your rules before you start and enforce them. Call a bouncer if you need help. Do not think EVER, that you have to do thingsyou are uncomfortable with just to get repeat customers. They are obviously not customers you'd want anyway.

    Oh and the key to being entertaining on stage is to NOT look like you are thinking about grocery lists. Just fake it!



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