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    Straight, Gay or Lying? Bisexuality Revisited Some people are attracted to women; some are attracted to men. And some, if Sigmund Freud, Dr. Alfred Kinsey and millions of self-described bisexuals are to be believed, are drawn to both sexes.

    But a new study casts doubt on whether true bisexuality exists, at least in men.



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    Hahah I've known a few bisexual men. Trust me Destiny..you know a few too. And they may just be in the closet. People need to remember that not all gay/bi men are "soft, sissies" or "act like their a girl" some are very masculine, and you would never guess. Those are the ones you have to watch close as hell..You never know..Your man could be on the "down low"







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    I know gay guys, yes, but I don't know any bi guys. The point of the article is that most men that claim to be bi or really gay. I just don't know about that. And if that's true, would the same apply to bi girls?
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    Bi guys don't usually tell you they are..

    they're usually just hitting on you... hehehe
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    Quote Originally Posted by screaminpeachez
    Bi guys don't usually tell you they are..

    they're usually just hitting on you... hehehe
    Lol, funny but true.



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    "Hey sweetheart, I was just looking at you and was thinking. You know what would be nice?"
    "Hmmmm whats that?"
    "If we went back to my mom's house and you strapped one on and went at me like your boyfriend did to you on prom night"

    See, it just doesn't work This is why guys keep it to themselves!

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    I've met many bi guys that just sleep with who they want to when they want to, I don't think it's necessarily the whole "sex" thing, but dating a person because you are interested in them.
    Then again many bi guys just look but don't touch.
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    Labels are so limiting...

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    Putting people in boxes sure does get difficult after a while, especially when they change their minds.
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    It's odd for me to think about this actually. I have known my share of bi-sexual men. But it seems that they actually chose men!!! I mean once in a blue moon they would say they had slept with a woman. But men seem to be their main preference. It's true, i asked a few since this posting. Got the same answer from 3 of them!!! They choose men first.

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    My ex was bisexual but I didn't know it for the first 2 years (8 with him total). He finally admitted it to me, but then asked me for strap-on sex and then proceeded to cheat on me.....with 2 different WOMEN. I guess I'll really never know how many men he cheated on me with. The shitty thing is,if he had just been more open with me about his needs we could have had a much better relaitonship; I loved him very much. He died in a motorcylcle accident in 2001.
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    lol, this might throw in a whole different side of it. Talking about masculine men. I am a Canadian Soldier, and being gay is accepted in the military here. I know a lot of gay men and women, but I know of only one that states that he is bi-sexual. He usually brings it up when introducing himself, lol. He prefers men, but I have seen him go home with quite a few women.
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    I've known bisexual men that prefer women but like to get freaky with men once in awhile. My first boyfriend in high school was like that, didn't bother me, as long as he wrapped his willy.

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    hehehehe sgc- i used to have a thing for guys kissing.
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    I seem to remember a thread in ladies only where the ladies were confessing to liking that sort of thing........hmmm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Destiny
    I know gay guys, yes, but I don't know any bi guys. The point of the article is that most men that claim to be bi or really gay. I just don't know about that. And if that's true, would the same apply to bi girls?
    I've read the thread a couple of times now, and the article. I've never been attracted to other males, but after reading all of this I've decided I'm one of those old-fashioned types who, sexually speaking, thinks it's still 1934.
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    It seems to me the study is based on a false assumption. I'd think there's more to sexual orientation than who you want to see naked.

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    Well, I just went to one of my local haunts, the Gay club a blaock away. I actually brought up this idea with the guys there. I told them about this thread and they kind of laughed it off. SOme of them choose to be gay, after being married to women for years. SO, I guess that rules them out of being bi, but a few admitted that they still date women from time to time. As I wrote before they don't date people because of the sex organ, but because thy are attracted to them. It's kind of like a straight guy afraid of all gay men becaus they might hit on him, so I'd ask him since he likes women does he try to date ALL women?
    So, in conclusion, the bi male is out there, ignore the studies, why would anyone want to study it anyway? Some people have too much time on their hands.
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    Self-identity, physiological response, or behavior?

    I suppose you could pick any or all of these criteria to decide who is 'gay', 'straight', or 'bi'... no doubt there is some guy out there who calls himself straight, gets hard looking at hetero porn, but in reality only has sex with other guys... is he 'gay', 'straight' or 'bi'....someone else might call themselves 'bi' when they've never had sex at all yet... it takes every color to make a rainbow

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    i dont beelivein sexuality
    actually can anyone even reallypinpoint ordefine what constitutes sexuality
    physical attraction? physicalarousal?
    i mean really it doesnt make sense
    like peope say their born gay or whatever what does that even REALLY MEAN
    personally i dont think it matters and thinkw ay too much emphasis is placed onsexcuality as a definingcharacteristic
    YOU arentwho you fuck
    or whatever

    so isay leave itto self identification
    and im asexual i wank to my reflection
    haha

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    and i dont trust sexual or gender studies
    they never get beyond trivial shit
    let it go
    it doesnt fucking matter to anyone than the individualand who they choose to share it with

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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    SOme of them choose to be gay, after being married to women for years.
    I have a couple of ex-wives that made me realize why some men become gay.

    Why people are gay (or bi) or why they are not really doesn't bother me. I'm not going to like or dislike them because of it. It's not that big of a deal to me I guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Destiny
    Straight, Gay or Lying? Bisexuality Revisited Some people are attracted to women; some are attracted to men. And some, if Sigmund Freud, Dr. Alfred Kinsey and millions of self-described bisexuals are to be believed, are drawn to both sexes.

    But a new study casts doubt on whether true bisexuality exists, at least in men.



    I'm never really known a bisexual man well enough to know what I think about this.

    Sounds like TOm Cruise...

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    Try-sexual?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clark
    It seems to me the study is based on a false assumption. I'd think there's more to sexual orientation than who you want to see naked.
    Excellent point Clark
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