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    I understand these guys are all over, not just the clubs and phones. However, i don't want to "keep" a man forever, or even a year, i get bored! He comes along usually via phone and wants to buy me things pay a few bills yada yada that is fine. I don't meet with them.

    I don't use them. You can't use them if they want to give. I give them only what i am willing. This makes the guys i meet on the phone happy! A few clasy pictures, or dressed in a guys fav. clothing, emails that say i am thinking of him, and yes we do phone conversations/sex!

    They majority of these men just have money to burn. They buy you a dress and want a picture of you in it. It makes them happy!

    Giving me money is just like sending me roses to many of the guys i have dealt with, they have it! It's easy come and easy go!

    Now....the difference. If i had a relationship in person that is more of a Sugar Daddy to me and them. Because meeting usually means more. Like giving a kiss good night etc. He pays to take you out for dinner, a movie and wants more.

    It's easy. If you are willing to meet a financial slave, he WILL pay more and EXPECT more.

    I know i have my profile on sugardaddy.com Met one via phone who was great! We called it quits after a fairly long period because i would not fly out to him.
    That was a decision. He wanted more for his money in the long run.
    Just let them know you will participate in some form of connections and they just assume you will meet, so i like to cut to the chase.

    I never had a guy ask me if i would meet him first. Ever. They like how you look, talk and the two of you click! He wants to send you a gift! It's normal. Even for a complete stranger to like a woman on the phone, her style, picture etc.

    The guys i meet doing phone who buy me items or pay a bill or two honestly feel good doing what they do!!! So i keep them happy by being a friend on the phone!

    Hey they are out there. From one extreme to another.
    If it feels right to you, take what he wants to give you! That is all i do!

    He wants to fuck me for money.....different game, different name. One i wont play.

    Susie thanks for the advice, but i wont be seeking out any man for money and a meeting.

    I met my share dancing. But on the phone they really seem to get into it. I have a wish list of small ticket items set up. Seems very few buy anything off my wish list. They want to send money orders, cash or pay a few bills!!! I do give back. Good conversation really seems to work for a guy trolling the lines! He tends to be sub. by nature. Kind, and does NOT like to be yelled at. He asks me if i would like some money for him taking up my time!
    That is one example of how some guys work. Real life, i could not tell you.

    Pamela

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    Pamela.

    No Offense intended but to be truthful. I dont think I would be inclined to be your Money Slave by some of the things you wrote. I know people have different personalities but I really dont think you would make a good Financial Dominant. I could be wrong, but just in my experience as a Money Slave. Just in my opinion I would not be happy being your Money Slave. I hope you will always be who you are and not change for anyone if they offer you money or not.

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    Not sure i understand the meaning of your message. because i am not looking! Also i have had men tell me they are looking for a woman to please with money and i am too much of a bitch! That is me!

    I have had men like the distance we have in a financial relationship!

    See these men find me in my line of work. I don't need them or beg for anything other then to give him a good time on the phone!

    Lots of guys just like to leave me a nice tip!
    Others want to be used for money they say. Ok, again, i will give them what the call requires!!!!

    I don't make a real good finacial Dom. I get bored and tired of their crap! Really. No amount of money is worth the begging it all leads to towards the end.

    And yes i am who i am, i will not change for a boy friend, why a money slave!!!!!

    Pamela

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    I had my first phone session with a money slave today! It was a blast. I hope this little piggie calls back again tomorrow. Huzzah for Niteflirt!!!
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    Money doms are born, not made IMHO. The character traits required are not very different from being a successful stripper: aggressiveness, a healthy amount of greed, curiosity, love of being the center of attention, lots of appetite(s), enthusiasm, and willingness to tell people when to cram it. (Shrinking violets need not apply). If a woman tries to become a financial dom she's sunk already. Being a selfish, spoiled AND DEVIOUS bitch is most of what it takes to get ahead. Domination is all about loving to be the boss, and submission is all about loving to be bossed around. (Watch us all line up to do as we are told.) If you use money to 'set the rules' (and live large!) that's cool -- but liking taking advantage of men is the key. --- Incidentally, for some reason or other, bi-sexual women seem to have the key personality factors more often than totally straight ladies. I haven't figured out whether 'breaking all the rules' comes first (cause) or is a result (effect), but there is a definite correlation. Maybe its just that having done it all correlates with self-confidence.

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    REAL Financial Dommes are not selfish. They recognize the needs of their slaves and keep said needs a priority. The lil 19 year old Dommlettes and Domme Wannabes you find everywhere on the net now, that call themselves Financial Dommes are selfish. They recognize a quick buck and easily forget where it comes from.
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    I have a convoluted approach to selfishness (which I don't think is a bad thing, if intelligently approached). If a lady wants something from a guy, and she is SMART, she will get it without arousing antagonism. Strippers without strong financial motivations simply drift around, chat with other dancers, and whine about how little money they make... If a woman really wants to get everything her little heart desires, she will always keep her hand hidden (but never forget that her object is to get that jackpot in the middle of the table!). Gimme, gimme, gimme is the secret agenda; the deviousness consists in making that drive absolutely invisible.

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    But you're comparing customers to slaves. A good number of Financial Dommes are not Pros. This is lifestyle. This is taking the consideration of another person's life into their daily set of worries and agendas. This isnt Oh Some Guy I Have As A Client. A Domme who is a Sadist gives pain. Lifestyle included. A Domme who is into tribute and gifts seeks them. They are not greedy because it is not one way only. Its a two way relationship.
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    I'm with Paige on this one. A true slave and a true dominant wants someone who cares about them. It's also a lifestyle. Unfortunately there are so many wanna bes out there. I speak from experience of course as in I have been a Mistress (literally) for about seven years now. The fake ones who only want money don't last at all....

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    Borrowing from a New York Times (!) article about poker, here is a term overheard during the recent Five Diamon Classic: "ATM. A veritable cash machine who spits out money to opponents. Such weak but well-financed players are also maligned as donkeys, deadwood, yum-yums, pigeons, delicious fishes, contributors, Johns, ahi, and producers." (Don't ask me where these terms come from!) I wonder when these slang words will begin to become 'money dom' slang, too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by bambootoy
    Gimme, gimme, gimme is the secret agenda; the deviousness consists in making that drive absolutely invisible.
    Alas, it seems the ending of this stripper-grift story is somewhat less romantic than the Hollywood version:



    [taken from a blue post... interesting but sad research article]

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    An interesting article -- but obviously based on very limited sample of clubs (only one?). I've found I have the most fun at clubs where a high proportion of the women are bi-sexual. They seem to have fewer hangups about their profession than many girls, maybe because they have long been able to handle a 'complex' sexual identity that is considered by many to be 'unacceptable'. In other words, they are (and have come to terms with being) rebels, and have learned not to give a damn what most people think. Another problem I have with this article is that is seems to assume that both the ladies and the customers are unaware of the 'kabuki' game. I have found that cutting through the cr..p and speaking straight from the heart evokes a similar level of sincerity from the dancer. It doesn't take long to get right down to nuts and bolts, and to establish the groundrules for mutually beneficial exchanges. In other words, 'this is what I want; what do you want?' If a dancer is approached this way, a common response is, 'I know who would be PERFECT for you; let me see if she's working tonight.' Since I'm not a moron, I know some (financial) quid pro quo's take place before I'm 'handed off', but that's not my concern.... In fact, the hand-off is an ego-booster, since I'm considered an important enough commodity to be negotiated over....

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