I understand these guys are all over, not just the clubs and phones. However, i don't want to "keep" a man forever, or even a year, i get bored! He comes along usually via phone and wants to buy me things pay a few bills yada yada that is fine. I don't meet with them.
I don't use them. You can't use them if they want to give. I give them only what i am willing. This makes the guys i meet on the phone happy! A few clasy pictures, or dressed in a guys fav. clothing, emails that say i am thinking of him, and yes we do phone conversations/sex!
They majority of these men just have money to burn. They buy you a dress and want a picture of you in it. It makes them happy!
Giving me money is just like sending me roses to many of the guys i have dealt with, they have it! It's easy come and easy go!
Now....the difference. If i had a relationship in person that is more of a Sugar Daddy to me and them. Because meeting usually means more. Like giving a kiss good night etc. He pays to take you out for dinner, a movie and wants more.
It's easy. If you are willing to meet a financial slave, he WILL pay more and EXPECT more.
I know i have my profile on sugardaddy.com Met one via phone who was great! We called it quits after a fairly long period because i would not fly out to him.
That was a decision. He wanted more for his money in the long run.
Just let them know you will participate in some form of connections and they just assume you will meet, so i like to cut to the chase.
I never had a guy ask me if i would meet him first. Ever. They like how you look, talk and the two of you click! He wants to send you a gift! It's normal. Even for a complete stranger to like a woman on the phone, her style, picture etc.
The guys i meet doing phone who buy me items or pay a bill or two honestly feel good doing what they do!!! So i keep them happy by being a friend on the phone!
Hey they are out there. From one extreme to another.
If it feels right to you, take what he wants to give you! That is all i do!
He wants to fuck me for money.....different game, different name. One i wont play.
Susie thanks for the advice, but i wont be seeking out any man for money and a meeting.
I met my share dancing. But on the phone they really seem to get into it. I have a wish list of small ticket items set up. Seems very few buy anything off my wish list. They want to send money orders, cash or pay a few bills!!! I do give back. Good conversation really seems to work for a guy trolling the lines! He tends to be sub. by nature. Kind, and does NOT like to be yelled at. He asks me if i would like some money for him taking up my time!
That is one example of how some guys work. Real life, i could not tell you.
Pamela


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(Shrinking violets need not apply). If a woman tries to become a financial dom she's sunk already. Being a selfish, spoiled AND DEVIOUS bitch
is most of what it takes to get ahead. Domination is all about loving to be the boss, and submission is all about loving to be bossed around. (Watch us all line up to do as we are told.) If you use money to 'set the rules' (and live large!) that's cool -- but liking taking advantage of men is the key.
--- Incidentally, for some reason or other, bi-sexual women seem to have the key personality factors more often than totally straight ladies. I haven't figured out whether 'breaking all the rules' comes first (cause) or is a result (effect), but there is a definite correlation. Maybe its just that having done it all correlates with self-confidence.

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